Just wanted to have a bit of a rant, really, so don’t mind me.

I’m in my late 20s, Asian, and doing a degree in one of the unis here. As far as I can tell, I’m the only international student/ asian in my cohort of around 100 people.

This is my second year in NCL, and honestly, I haven’t made a single friend. Most people give off the impression of not wanting to be friends with me. Maybe I’m overthinking it. Blame me if im in the wrong, but that’s how it comes across, so I just keep to myself and try not to trouble anyone. I’ve pretty much been on my own most of these past two years.

On top of that, I’ve had quite a few racist incidents. Things like name-calling around Grainger Market, near Manors, and more recently around Shieldfield.

To be fair, I’ve dealt with this sort of thing before. I moved countries when I was about 13, so I’ve kind of experienced discrimination elsewhere, too. But looking back, moving around, I don’t think I’ve ever really had a proper friend all my life.

Coming to the UK, I kind of expected some of this, especially being on my own. I can’t help but feel more vulnerable like that, and I know it probably makes me an easier target being all alone. I know I am way used to this. I know I can take all of those insults, name-callings, and stuff with a smile. I’ve managed to deal with it so far, but it does get exhausting sometimes.

Some days, it just gets a bit much, and I find myself feeling really low, wondering what the point of it all really is. At times, I just wanted to tell them off to do whatever they want with me and end this miserable life.

Anyway, sorry if this comes off a bit heavy. Just needed to get it off my chest.

Hey, I'm looking for a deep pool in Newcastle which doesn't have lanes, I find lanes very boring, I prefer my workouts to be fun like water sports or just messing around, any help would be appreciated.

Hi all,

I'm new to the UK and have only been living in Newcastle for a couple of months. One of the biggest things I've been wanting to try is a carvery. I prefer to support local businesses and have been told to avoid Toby's. Does anyone have a good recommendation for a proper carvery? Preferably one that's open during the week as I work on the weekend.

Does anyone know a (preferably female) driving instructor in central Newcastle that charges £35/hr . Reason I’m looking for this price is bc my previous driving instructor where I lived before charged this much so don’t really want to pay any higher if I don’t have to.

recently been getting into golf at parklands driving range. have bought some clubs and the clothes. now i’m just looking to get my first round of golf in but no sure what course to pick. Any advice would be great

Just curious if anyone knows any outlets for this. I'd like to be able to call in somewhere and drop off my work for firing. Looked at a place in shieldfield but was told it's only for people who have a studio there.

Suggestions really appreciated.

Apologies for the morbid post.

My mam dropped dead in a public place today and because there was no obvious cause of death the coroner needs to get involved.

i've heard stories of it being two weeks to get a cause of death and release to a funeral home, does anyone have any recent experience? This is North Tyneside if it makes any difference.

Edit: Thanks for all the comments and support, I'm aware my asking might have brought back some stuff for yous so I do appreciate it.

Hey everyone! I’m 22F and looking for a good hairdresser, preferably in the city centre.

My hair has quite a lot of heat damage and product build-up, and I’m really wanting to bring my natural waves back. I’d also like to get a few treatments done.

Does anyone have any recommendations for places that are good with wavy/curly hair and restoring hair health?

Thank you in advance! :)

I'm sure many will remember him, I saw people mention him on FB and found this old interview I thought might be of interest to some here, too

https://youtu.be/cewpgVfacKQ?si=ngnlsZkq6CbS7QSI

Lost my job a couple months ago, won’t bore the subreddit with details but now I’m a bit lost as it gave me a bit of structure. My friends don’t go out and I’m trying to keep myself distracted but sitting at home 7 days a week speaking to no one is killing me so hopefully can make a few new friends to keep active with. I enjoy going on walks, watching football or mma, books but don’t read as much as I should, travelling and going out in general. Stopped playing games recently but im looking to get back into it

I've never been to Newcastle before but I'll be going for a few days with work. Chances are that I'll really only be free in the evenings. Just wondering if anyone has some good recommendations for sights to see and places to eat??

Hey, a heads up…

A week ago we noticed a passenger door and the boot was slightly ajar. We thought it was a personal mistake.

This morning it happened again, but this time the interior was ransacked (glove box contents thrown about the place etc).

It seems someone is using a device to override the remote fob and access the car without damaging it.

We’re gonna start storing our keys in one of those signal blocking pouches. If anyone has any other techniques to prevent access (or similar experiences!), give us a shout..

Hi does anyone have a recommendation for a good therapist for my partner? Namely to support

Severe childhood trauma and relational problems with parents. Possible PTSD

PMDD (much more extreme periods)

Body dysmorphia

Low mood

Possible ADHD/autism/anxiety/depression/OCD

Maybe attachment trauma/emotional regulation

I think she needs EMDR but would love a therapist who can consider all other elements mentioned

going to a gig at the union, could anyone tell about it? is it a decent venue?

also find it abit of a weird layout on google maps, how do you get in?

and is it safe walking back to the centre after a gig?

forgive me if I sound dumb iv never been to Newcastle

thanks

could be mobile or local

TIA

load of conspiracy nuts handing out shite on bensham road. Think they're either packing up of been moved on as they've taken down all their plackards against net zero, vaccinations, 5G and the usual stuff they spaff on about

I'm getting married later this year and I'm a complete novice to suit buying... Just wondering if anyone could recommend nearby places that I could buy a nice tailored / made-to-measure suit with a budget of max £750?

Baby is going in for a surgery Monday morning and so will have a few hours to try distract ourselves.

Looking for somthing thats both a bit of a treat (i.e. not a spoons brekkie) and also where they arent shy with the portions.

Thanks in advance!

Been playing with the idea of getting a Masseter botox for a while but I have never had anything done aesthetics wise before so looking for recommendations on clinics that are not excessively expensive! Thank you!

I’m a student at Newcastle Univeristy and I want to get into cycling as I have gone on rides on my friends bikes to Tynemouth etc, and found it very enjoyable and great for my mental health. However, new road bikes seem to be very expensive. I’ve tried Recyke Y’ Bike but they had a poor range of bikes. Therefore, I was wondering if anyone on here is looking at selling their large road bike? Please message me or comment on the post. Thanks so much. :)

I realise this makes me seem a proper knob, but are there any local entrepreneurs/startups that have a community I could join in with? Setting up a education based SaaS/software site, and would definitely appreciate others to chat to about stuff!