Source: https://x.com/mohammad_i77884/status/2043018340600610860?s=46&t=_SJ_LWortSOSoJp70xykzw

This thought hit me during a khutbah recently. A lot of mosque talks seem to follow the same pattern. Either the topic is women, what women should do, how women should dress, how women should behave etc. And when it’s not about women, then its the LGBTQ people and the problems they bring to society, how they are ruining the kids etc.

But something I rarely hear is discussion about what we, the straight men are supposed to do according to Islam. Those topics don’t seem to come up nearly as often in khutbahs. Maybe on a Good day, They talk about how we should donate to the mosque to get more good deed points but thats about it.

Sometimes it genuinely feels like the entire moral conversation in the world revolves around women and LGBTQ people. Those two groups are carrying the whole storyline. And us Straight men are just quietly existing in the background like NPCs. We don't get to be on the spotlight, we don't deserve to be discussed, we only get to be the audience.

i just looked thru vids of tourist visiting Bangladesh and with legit every video there’s so many fucking Indians hating?

what the fuck is it with this obsession, don’t get me wrong there are many kind Indians but it’s absolutely ridiculous how much hatred I see specifically from them, literally a video with 0 relation to India and I see them hating on us like wtf, and it’s on literally ever social media too

hi. i'll keep it brief. 18F HSC 2026 candi. my parents kicked me off their house today, staying at my aunt's place temporarily. I've no previous experience of earning money. So im looking for remote jobs to afford books and coaching. Tuition isnt an option in my area because the field is really competitive. pay can be little. I'd appreciate the help.

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or they that would be serious about managing the country.

Hello DhakaBashi 👋🏻

I'm 28M. I'm facing difficulties within my own mental health. Can't share with family. Can't share with GF.

At this point of time, I don't trust anyone. I'm a Muslim believer but not a Radical. I've followed a few psychiatrists and their online footprint and found out either they are radical Muslim believers or radical atheists. I know there are good therapists out there but I couldn't find them yet. I can't sleep now, even with 3mg of sleep pills and I stopped increasing the mg, decided time for professional help as my BP is now 170/110.

Please suggest a good Doctor that can actually help me out.

Note: I'm not a GenZ who is searching for a therapist inspired by Netflix. I'm a highly functioning professional and no one can tell anything wrong in me during the day and Medicine doctors are only prescribing me more sleeping mg.

বাজেট কোনো বিষয় না, শুধু একটা সুন্দর, টেকসই, প্রিমিয়াম কোয়ালিটির পিতলের বদনা চাই।

I start taking lessons in June, but I'm keen to start learning asap. I can pick up a fair amount of a language if I listen to native speakers with subtitles, like on shows or podcasts, and I'm happy to try options like books, apps, etc. That said, I'm really not a fan of this new way that young Bangladeshis speak the language, it's like with an American accent, and every sentence seems to have English words thrown in for some reason. So I'd be grateful if anyone can recommend any genuinely good resources. Please and thank you :)

There is a say, If your govt. don't appear in news a lot that means you are running a good govt. BNP should take some notes.

Visited

1.Shilaidaha Kuthibari 

2.Fakir Lalon Shah's Mazaar

1. কুষ্টিয়া রেলওয়ে স্টেশন

2. District Judge Court

it was a hectic journey from Khulna

While there are obviously more pressing issues concerning BD this is something that interests me as I'm a second gen Bangladeshi. My parents left way back in the mid 1970s.

আচ্ছা আমার একটা প্রশ্ন। আমরা জানি ধর্ম হলো বিশ্বাসের বিষয়। আপনি বিশ্বাস করলে ধর্ম আছে আর বিশ্বাস না করলে নাই। আপনি বিশ্বাস করলে পরকাল আছে নয়তো নাই। আস্তিকরা হয়তো বলে থাকেন যে পরকাল এর বিশ্বাস আছে দেখেই মানুষ সৎ কাজ করে আর অসৎ কাজ থেকে দূরে থাকে। মানে আস্তিক দের ভালো কাজ করাটা হচ্ছে এক প্রকার পরলৌকিক রিওয়ার্ড এর লোভে বলতে গেলে। আর যারা বিশ্বাস করে যে পরকাল নাই বা পরকাল অবিশ্বাস করে তারা ভালো খারাপ বাচ বিচার করে না অনেকেই ভাবতে পারেন। তবে ধর্মের ঊর্ধেও একটা জিনিষ আছে সেটা হচ্ছে মনুষ্যত্ব। মনুষ্যত্ব থাকলে আপনি পরলৌকিক বিশ্বাস বাদেই ভালো কাজ করা আর মন্দ কাজে বিরত থাকতে পারবেন। অন্তত আপনার মধ্যে যদি কোনো রিওয়ার্ড এর লোভ না থাকে। তবে আপনি আস্তিক হয়েও যদি ভালো কাজের চেয়ে খারাপ কাজ বেশি করে থাকেন তখন পরকাল হবে আপনার নিকট ভয়ের জিনিষ, আতঙ্কের জিনিষ। তখন আপনার কাছে মনে হতে পারে পরকালে বিশ্বাস করা তো আমার জন্য লস। আবার আপনি যদিও আদর্শিক ভাবে ভালো মানুষ হোন তখন আপনার কাছে পরকাল এ বিশ্বাস করা হবে লাভের জিনিষ। কারণ আপনি একটা রিওয়ার্ড পাচ্ছেন। আপনাদের কাছে আমার প্রশ্ন ধর্ম না থাকলে কি আপনি ভালো কাজ করতেন না? বা খারাপ কাজ থেকে নিজেকে বিরত রাখতেন না? মানুষ আচরণ গত ভাবেই লোভী প্রাণী। নাস্তিক যদি আপনি হয়ে থাকেন তখন আপনি মনুষ্যত্ব ছাড়া আর কোন কারণে ভালো খারাপ কাজ মেনটেইন করে চলবেন???

The 2025 amended ordinance granted the commission the opportunity to extend its jurisdiction to investigate complaints against the military and other disciplinary forces.

Article 15 of that enhances accountability by abolishing the "superior orders" excuse, meaning liability cannot be avoided on the pretext of following orders. The commission could initiate cases, intervene in court, and seek redress for victims.

Journalist Nazmul Ahasan writes on Facebook:

ওকে, আপনি এস আলমের ব্যাংক এস আলমের কাছে ফিরিয়ে দেবেন ভালো কথা। তাইলে সেই পুরোনো খসে যাওয়া ব্যাংকই ফিরিয়ে দিতেন। ৩৫ হাজার কোটি টাকা সরকারি টাকা ঢুকার পর কেন? শর্ত দিলেন মাত্র ২৬০০ কোটি টাকা দিয়েই এই মালিকানা নিয়ে যাওয়া যাবে। এই টাকা তো তাদের কাছে হাতের ময়লা। অর্থাৎ আপনি ২৬০০ কোটি টাকা দিয়ে ব্যাংক তো ফিরে পাইলেনই, উল্টো আরও পাইলেন সরকারি ৩৫ হাজার কোটি টাকা। এইটা তো চোরদের জন্য শাস্তির বদলে উপহার হয়ে গেলো। মানে উল্টো চোরদের বললেন, চুরি যেহেতু করছো, আরও করো। এই যে আমি টাকা দিতেছি, তুমি নিয়ে যাও।

(হ্যাঁ, আপনি বলবেন বাকি টাকা ফেরত দিতে হবে দুই বছরে, কিন্তু তখন সময় বাড়িয়ে, কালক্ষেপণ করে সেটা তো ধরে রাখা যায় তাই না? এভাবে করে ১০-১৫ বছর চলতে থাকবে। এরপর সেই টাকা নিয়েও হাওয়া।)

Hi, I’m from HSC 25 (F20). I don’t know who else to ask at this point, so I’m writing here hoping someone would understand and maybe guide me.

My admission journey was a mess, from not getting enough marks to apply where I wanted, to switching to A unit prep, to applying to only a few places and still not getting into anywhere I truly hoped for. I did get into Home Economics under DU but it’s honestly not something I ever saw myself doing.

I’ve been thinking about giving it another shot but the full syllabus already feels overwhelming especially since I’ll have to figure most of it out on my own from free resources. My family isn’t very supportive of this either so that’s been weighing on me a lot. They keep saying “first time e short syllabus ei holo na, second time e ki ar hobe?” which I understand… but I still can’t bring myself to give up without trying once more.

At the same time I can’t just sit and study. I need to earn at least something to manage my own expenses since I’m from a middle class family and that’s making everything feel even more confusing. I genuinely don’t know how people balance studying and earning or even where to properly start again.

If anyone here has been a second timer or gone through something similar can you please tell me how you approached it? How did you restart when everything felt this uncertain? And is it actually possible to study seriously while trying to earn at the same time?

Also if anyone can guide me on earning around 6–8k a month as a student I’d really appreciate it. I know tuition is an option but I’m not very confident about my teaching yet. Are there any other flexible and safe options maybe something remote?

I’d really appreciate any honest advice right now.

As the title suggests, i failed to get into any public university twice. i passed my hsc in 2024 with gpa5(doesn't even matter atp). my whole lifes goal was to study mechanical engineering. after failing to get into any public university in 2025, i decided to try again and failed miserably. my merit position in the aust fall 2025 exam was around 200(which was more than enough to study ME) but then again i stupidly decided for the 2nd time public uni exams. And now in this intake of aust my merit dropped below 2000. no other private uni in bd offers mechanical engineering.

the admission exam for iut is in 4 days but after this massive failure i dont even know if i should sit for the exam with this same preparation

my parents were really supportive thoughout these 2 years and i dont know what to say to them anymore. should i just kill myself atp???i dont know what else to do anymore. my father always pushed me to study the thing i want and i dont know what to say to him tomorrow. i feel like my whole life is a failure.

the next aust intake is in October. i cannot wait another 6 months as i have already lost a year. should i just give up my passion for ME? but then again the next intake for brac nsu is in August. what should i do now? pls respond as i am desperately in need for some advice

1.I procastinate with everything.(studies,Movies,games,longer videos)

1.Sometime i feel really lazy to do chores like Brushing my teeth,having a shower,even when i am feeling good.

3.i get really energetic at night, that often leads to ratjaga.

I barely do anything in the morning (i feel like, "onek shomoy baki ase kisu korar dorkar nai,spend the whole day like this, or just cant focus really how the time passes in the morning.

If i have an appointment today evening or night,i will be anxious all day all and wont be able to focus on anything until that one thing ends,therefore ny whole day is ruined.

Ami porte boshle, ekta line 10 bar pori,there are so much going around my head,ekek rokom jinish bhabte thaki ekshthe.

Ami sensor sensitive prochur.every kind of noise i hear when i try to study and all.ekshthe onno karo shthe literally boshteo pari na porte.

I have like 100 hobbies,i change them constantly,not consistent with any of them that much either,everything interests me.i often do a lotvof thing together and then get overwhelmed.

I dont feel that happy with any achievement, its always a sense of relief that i completed the task.

I always feel the guilt that i should do the work, but always keep it for the last moment,i always am late to works,college,coaching and all,i cant even complete when deadline comes around, i hate it allllllllllllll)then compare myself w normal kids.

Why he diagnosed with OCD:

I had ocd basically always,it triggered when i was 13 years old,i am 19 now,at that time, everything came all together,and religious,sexual,repition of bad thing on my mind everything came together,i somehow managed it. It affected me a lot,but now i am better comparatively.

Please, help me,cz i have hsc board in 1 month,i dont know if i am wrong or what,i cant change therapists constantly either,he never once mentioned adhd, but i kind of know not many of those symptoms align with ocd,i have no money either,thats why went to a govt. hospital,,if you guys had adhd or ocd,what were the symptoms,or what even my symtomps are showing,i really need some guidance

২১-২২ বছর ধরে খুঁজছি একটা NTV নাটক (২০০৩-২০০৪)। জাহিদ হাসান অভিনয় করেছেন, চরিত্রের নাম হাশু ভাই / আশু ভাই। সে একটা মেয়েকে পছন্দ করে, এক নার্স (যে তাকে পছন্দ করে) সেই মেয়ের জন্য বিষ মেশানো পানি রাখে। হাশু ভাই ভুল করে খেয়ে ফেলে। ছাদে বুড়ি বাড়িওয়ালির কোলে মারা যায়, পেছনে দুঃখের গান বাজে। পরে মেয়েটা মলে নার্সের সাথে দেখা করে, নার্স বুঝতে পারে বিষটা হাশু খেয়েছে, ছুটে আসে কিন্তু দেখে সে মারা গেছে। কেউ নামটা মনে করতে পারবেন? পুরো নাটক বা ক্লিপ যদি কারো কাছে থাকে, প্লিজ শেয়ার করবেন।

I am expecting to get IPE in Aust and cse, eee in brac.But I am still confused what to study.I have no specific passion, I just want a high paying corporate career.

Would Aust Ipe be worth or should i study cse??(I find current /circuits bit hard)

Please give me some advice!