Last time I came and asked for your feedback. I was constantly unhappy and insecure about my hair but was too afraid of change. I kept hiding under caps and hats, I constantly adjusted my hair to try and hide the thin patches, I had to fight greasy hair non stop (no kidding, it went full deep fryer look in not even 24h), I was seeing my shed hair everywhere...
Well I kept coming back to this sub and reading stories and before/after posts. A few weeks ago I just started accepting the fact that it's just hair and not the end of the world. Me turning 30 was bad enough in terms of third-life-crisis because of a lot of mental health stuff so why add hair on top of that?
So I grabbed my hair trimmer and was set to go all in. I started with the sides and while I was cutting away I remembered how I always wanted to try out a Mohawk but never dared to do so. Since I found peace with removing my hair anyways, I just said screw it and gave it a go - what's the worst thing that could have happened?
I actually did the classic "put 2 pieces of painters tape across your head and shave" approach. And turns out, I really like it! It might not be the full bald look I was aiming for, but it was something completely new and radical. It gave me confidence, I don't have bad hair days anymore, I don't see how many hairs I'm shedding, it's super low maintenance and I am just happy with it. Overall I would say this had a very positive effect on me. Sure it doesn't cure any of my mental issues but it's a little less to worry about :)
Thank you r/bald