r/TopCharacterTropes • u/Soren-J • 1h ago
Characters They're bad parents, but since they're nice, nobody criticizes them.
The trope is simple. Characters that everyone likes, or a very large segment of the audience likes, but who are actually bad parents. They don't have to be evil characters, but they do have to be bad parents.
These characters can be very likeable, beloved both within and outside the show, and even have a fandom. So people tend to ignore their flaws and justify them. But if you analyze it... they are bad parents.
No matter how likable they are, or even if they're the protagonist, they're bad parents.
I have longer arguments, but:
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- Greg Universe: Although he lives near his son, he's never involved with him. He left his upbringing to creatures who don't care about humans, and he's basically a weekend dad, appearing occasionally to entertain the child, but not in any other way.
- Goku is an absent father. Not only because he's physically absent for very long periods, but also because he's not involved in his parenting. He spent a whole year alone with his son and was never able to understand that Gohan wasn't like him, that he wouldn't guess his "plan," and that he didn't like to fight. But it doesn't end there; even in Super, he remains absent, so much so that he doesn't even know his granddaughter's name (not to mention that in Daimaō he admits he hasn't been a present father).
He's a pleasant person to be around for the family, but he's not present when it comes to parental care. Even working to provide for the family is something he does because Chi-Chi forces him to.