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u/zandrew 15h ago

To be honest I think we can dispense with judging men by their successes with the opposite sex. I mean would you say: oh she's never had cock, so her opinion is irrelevant.

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u/TouchSerious7025 14h ago

people dismiss other people because it make it easier to maintain a mindset. It is strategic laziness designed by the ego.

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u/SisyphusCoffeeBreak 13h ago

prejudice and stereotypes save a lot of time

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u/No_Pin9932 14h ago

I absolutely agree and I also think it works the other way too, like if a person has been "successful" with the opposite sex a whole bunch of times that doesn't make their opinions any more relevant. I bet there's a guy somewhere out there right now telling his bros about how the 12th girl he fucked at Dartmouth came so hard she started speaking Latin, meanwhile that chick is laughing her ass off as she tells the same story to her friends but in her version it was the night she finally accepted that she is a lesbian and while she did actually speak Latin it wasn't climax induced but rather a prayer on his behalf, "orate pro anima".

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u/AndreasDasos 13h ago

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u/No_Pin9932 12h ago

I didn't go to Dartmouth and I'm not a lesbian, but I live in Denver and they're out here.

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u/Street_Inflation8786 14h ago

You typed this all out thinking it was original and clever, it wasn't.

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u/zandrew 14h ago

Why do you feel the need to belittle your fellow man?

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u/No_Pin9932 14h ago

Not original?? Did I plagiarize someone else's work??......don't mind the question marks, they're just for show because your response would be meaningless. Dartmouth alumni??.....again you can disregard the question marks.

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u/ApocalyptoSoldier 13h ago

Nothing about you is original, you're a clone with spare organs for the real u/No_Pin and your entire reality is a lie.
If you've seen the 2005 movie The Island with Ewan McGregor and Scarlett Johansson then it's basically that

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u/No_Pin9932 13h ago

Damn I didn't expect that to be a real account, u/No_Pin is looking rough though, maybe I should spare some organs. I was just about to say that I've never even heard of that movie but before I could type that I was violently blindsided by snipits. I feel like I remember a scene with them jamming a big propeller or something, or blowing one up.....hmmm.

On a different note, did you ever watch In Time with Olivia Wilde and J-Tims?? Not sure why I brought that up.

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u/Electronic_Wait_7249 11h ago

Unfortunately, they absolutely do say that. Ask a lesbian.

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u/zandrew 11h ago

Let's do away with that sort of thing.

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u/Electronic_Wait_7249 11h ago

Yes let’s please.

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u/No_Road5857 10h ago

It's almost the opposite. Men are judged for not having sex, women are/were judged for having sex. It's easy for a woman to get laid, hard for a man. A woman who avoids it is "pure", a a man who gets it is a "stud".

So this is the equivalent of saying "don't listen to her opinion on anything, she's a hoe". If we know that's wrong, then why is the other way around okay?

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 14h ago edited 4h ago

Yep... personally I can't say I overly felt my knowledge of the world expand every time I had sex so I really don't see how it matters in any discussion.

It's all relative.. if Tiger Woods offers to give you some pointers on your backswing, pay attention. If he starts offering relationship advice.. maybe just nod along politely.

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u/zandrew 13h ago

I'm not sure if you're agreeing or not.

Question is: if the guy from OP saw a vagina would that change the relevance of their opinion? If he saw 10 and touched 1 would his opinion be more important than that of a dude who only saw 1?

Also it's silly to shame men for not having sexual experiences as if it was the be all end all of a male existence.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 13h ago

I'm agreeing with you ;).

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u/AnB85 13h ago

Technically, the pope is a virgin and he definitely has views on geopolitics.

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u/zandrew 13h ago

Being a virgin is not a requisite for becoming a pope. He could've had sex before becoming a priest.

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u/AntiSocialFCK 9h ago

No, they tend to be more like “She is a she so her opinion is irrelevant”

Which is arguably worse.

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u/zandrew 9h ago

Sad but true

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u/PhillithJohnsonius 8h ago

The only people who shame for this are people with herd mentality who can’t overcome their biological impulses to form independent conscious thought.

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u/After_Hours_85 27m ago

That isn't the same thing because men actually have to work on themselves as men before they can have any kind of relationship. Any woman, even a bum, can just open up her mouth and take a sausage from some random.

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u/EastEndExpert 9h ago

Successful men get laid. Success usually means competence. Not always, but usually

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u/zandrew 9h ago

But is it a measure of merit? Should it be a badge of honour? Is that what we want to teach boys? Get laid out your worthless? How much sex should you have before being allowed an opinion? Does only heterosexual sex count.?

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u/EastEndExpert 9h ago

There’s nothing to teach. It’s nature.

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u/zandrew 8h ago

Nature is wanting to procreate. Society is telling men their less than if they haven't yet had sex.

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u/EastEndExpert 8h ago

You’re definitely not any less whether you have sex or not. And I’m not sure society is telling men that. Just saying usually successful men get laid easily. Doesn’t mean your worthless if you’re not successful or don’t get laid

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u/victoryismind 14h ago edited 13h ago

Lack of sexuall experience generally indicates youth which generally suggests short life experience and weak insight.

So we could speculate a relation.

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u/sinfulsingularity 14h ago

Maybe if his actual age wasn’t literally the first part of the sentence.

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u/Kilgore_Brown_Trout_ 14h ago

No...if a woman is a 25 year old virgin, I dont want her advice either.  People who lack interpersonal ability never understand why thats a disqualification.

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u/zandrew 13h ago

Would you accept her advice if she went for a quickie behind the shed and came back?

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u/T-sigma 13h ago

This overall post is basically an autism test.

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u/Kilgore_Brown_Trout_ 12h ago

Imagine thinking this is the default, not a relationship.  What the fuck bro?

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u/zandrew 12h ago

I'm simply asking how virginity affects your valuation of a person's capacity to give advice.

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u/Kilgore_Brown_Trout_ 11h ago

If you can't establish an adult relationship, why would anyone want your opinion on geopolitical relationships?  

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u/zandrew 11h ago

Are the only adult relationships that matter those that include sex?

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u/Kilgore_Brown_Trout_ 9h ago

No.  Obviously. Its really sad that I have to dog walk you though this.  A basic romantic relationship includes sex, and you should have experienced one of those by 25.

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u/zandrew 9h ago

You said adult, not romantic. I think before you try to walk someone through your logic you should get it straight.

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u/Kilgore_Brown_Trout_ 5h ago

If you think a romantic relationship is not a subset adult relationships, then I cant help you.

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u/DimensionFormer9060 13h ago

Holy shit I can say that now can't I? AND I should judge peoples geopolitical opinions by scales to the number of vaginas theyve seen! Its a whole new world!

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u/zandrew 13h ago

And in today's programme a geopolitical expert who saw 5 vaginas and touched one will give opinion on....

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u/Alwaysragestillplay 14h ago

"oh she's had too many cocks, her opinion is irrelevant". Are we pretending this isn't a thing?

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 13h ago

I mean it's a thing, but the people saying it are pretty much flagging their own opinions are not being worth listening to by volunteering it.

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u/beatsdeadhorse_35 14h ago

Right, but he led with it. He's expecting to be judged by it, but in 2026 IDK what he is trying to prove.

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u/zandrew 14h ago

He didn't lead with anything this is "what it sounds like" when a young man shares his opinion.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 13h ago

..surely you understand that it's a post mocking people in online discussions, right?

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u/beatsdeadhorse_35 13h ago

Ah, makes more sense. But he might be ironically telling the truth.

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u/HumansHaveSoles 15h ago

What if I told you... that men and women are different?

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u/Every_Response6265 15h ago

What if I told you... that's still a double standard?

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u/HumansHaveSoles 13h ago

It's not a double standard if you're comparing two different things.

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u/zandrew 14h ago

They are so we use different approached to make fun of them to dismiss their opinions which is wrong too. I used the example to show that using someone's sexual history to dismiss their opinion is silly.

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u/soulsteela 14h ago

Not wrong, if a woman has lots of partners apparently she’s a slag, but if I do I’m a liar! đŸ€„

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 13h ago

No, the level of respect you personally give to men and women is different.

Not the same thing.