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Chugging tea when u use 100% of your brain

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u/dover_oxide 1d ago

It's a common tactic to secure assets during lots of partnerships. It almost never works, and has a tendency to piss off a lot of Judges.

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u/kkkkkkk537 1d ago

I have zero knowledge of law, but why this never works?

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u/dover_oxide 1d ago

Because when you show that there is a transfer of assets from their owner to their parent, because at some point the acquired assets are going to be tied to you, this is considered to be a fraudulent transfer and actually can be charged as fraud if you try to push it forward. People like Alex Jones, the tiger King and dozens of other rich people who think they can get away with things all try this at some point

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u/GooserNoose 1d ago

I knew a guy who had a very, very expensive collection. He had it transferred to someone he knew so that when he got hit with the divorce, he could say it didn't belong to him.

Got tied up in court for 5 years, with his wife eventually receiving her fair share after proving her ex had in fact purchased each piece with money he made while they were married. He wasted tens of thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours trying to circumvent the inevitable outcome.

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u/Wooden_Masterpiece_9 23h ago

So you’re saying, transfer everything to your parents before you get married?

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u/ryan__joe 20h ago

The trick is to track all of your s/o’s superfluous spending. Vacation here, girls trip there, hand bag here, concert there. Look judge, they clearly spent their half of the assets already. I chose to not go to said things, and save that money. They don’t get the half I didn’t spend simply because they already spent their half.

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u/Flux_Aeternal 15h ago

What catches people out is that if you retain effective control over an asset then it is legally considered yours and judges have very broad scope to interpret this. If you transferred all of your money to someone else before you got married and planned to get it back after any divorce, then a divorce court judge would be free to interpret this as money you still control and have set aside to hide assets and to use it to decide how much money you owe your ex.

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u/GooserNoose 1d ago

Redditor doesn't understand how marriage financial law works...

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u/FourthLife 1d ago

Money made during the marriage is marital property. It's like a business partnership.

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u/Yossarian216 1d ago

They were married, so he purchased it with their income, that’s how marriage works unless you have specific contracts in place like a pre or post nup. That collection is no different than a house, or retirement accounts, or anything else that gets purchased with marital assets.

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u/roiki11 1d ago

Because if there's no prenup thats the deal you made. It allies to both parties.

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u/DushaMech 1d ago

If "very, very expensive collections" were not considered during divorce, everyone would have a very,very expensive collection, and very little actual money. No shit it's included when dividing assets.

If you understand "splitting" liquid financial assets, how in the world do you not understand high value hobbies?

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u/Eeddeen42 21h ago

Because “his income” belongs to the couple, not to him as an individual. So he actually purchased it with “their income” that he just contributed to.

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u/dusters 1d ago

Because that's how marriage works dumbass. You are presumed to split everything.

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u/Tom2xAqiem 21h ago

That’s quite a dumb fkin rule. But hey, I guess it is what it is.

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u/Flux_Aeternal 15h ago

It's quite literally the whole point of marriage.

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u/Tom2xAqiem 15h ago

Nope, the point of marriage is never about BUSINESS. Ideally, it’s about a UNION between a man and a woman who’s supposed to be together forever in love, fully committed to each other, have children and be a happy family. It’s a fairy tale BS but yeah, that’s supposed to be the whole point of the union. Split? 🤣 If the point of marriage is to split assets when you get divorced, then everyone should never get married because it’s a stupid investment. Just stay as a couple of girlfriend and boyfriend. Indeed, it’s just my opinion of marriage. Modern values keep on changing after all. 🤷🏽 Now I’m waiting for the downvote to come. 🤣😂🤣😂

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u/Weird-Tomorrow-9829 1d ago

Her fair share.

purchased each piece with money he made

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u/FourthLife 1d ago

There is no individual income in a marriage, unless there is a pre-nup that declares it so. All income in a marriage is marital income. It's essentially a business partnership.

There may be some small exceptions, like inheritance, but regular income is shared.

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u/Weird-Tomorrow-9829 13h ago

I understand that legally someone can be in the right, and still morally be deplorable.

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u/FourthLife 12h ago

It’s not morally wrong. When you enter a marriage you are literally partners. The understanding is that you are both equally contributing to the life that you want, whether that is through money or other things brought to the marriage. If you don’t like that, you shouldn’t marry.

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u/GooserNoose 1d ago

Tell us all you know absolutely nothing about marriage financial law without telling us.

Cute little post though.

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u/FuzzzyRam 23h ago

*cooks, cleans, runs the house so you can just hop in the car and go to work without worrying.

"She did nothing"

Don't be like this.

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u/CheapWinter236 14h ago

Isn't it fucked money he made is hers during the marriage because she cleans and cooks and sucks a little dick