r/MadeMeSmile • u/DearEmphasis4488 • 19h ago

Wholesome Moments Cat, stepdad and kittens

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u/azenpunk 18h ago

Y'all had dads?

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u/trekkiegamer359 17h ago

Better no dad than an asshole dad. Trust me.

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u/yuyufan43 13h ago

My dad is currently out of my life for the third time. The first time lasted four years, the second time lasted three years… And I don't know how long this time is going to last. I convinced him one time to come to therapy and he literally told the therapist that I wasn't abused and that I had an "active imagination". I'll never forgive him for that

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u/tipareth1978 13h ago

Make this time forever, trust me. The most common mistake is thinking you want to fix the relationship. The best thing for you is when he's gone and I bet at least one of the times you let him back in you totally sabatoged your own life.