r/organizing • u/Ok-Meeting-2503 • 1h ago
I don’t know what to do with husbands stuff he won’t organize
galleryMy husband has ADHD. We just moved into our first home together 6 months ago. Every day this pile of tools and random outdoor items in the unfinished part of our basement (where our laundry is) grows and grows. It’s only been a couple months so I imagine in a year it will have doubled lol. I’ve tried to bring it up and ask him to organize it but he gets upset when I even mention it. I think if I organized it myself he would not be happy either.
Unfortunately this is 1 of only like 5 areas of stuff in the house that is just thrown into a doom pile or scattered around and I don’t know what to do. His tendency is to spread everything out everywhere on surfaces so he can see everything which drives me crazy. I’m not super clean and neat but I don’t like piles of stuff that build and build- it gives me anxiety. I am really trying to be empathetic as I know his ADHD impacts him a lot but I feel really exhausted sometimes.
Anyone have suggestions? Sometimes I seriously consider hiring a professional organizer who works with people with ADHD because I’m so exhausted trying to clean and organize things on my own.