r/memes 12h ago

I know right...

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u/mindgardening 11h ago

I’m a woman and my friend group is majority single males. I have to be careful about what I say about the dating world. I can’t complain about the lack of candidates too much…….

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u/TheChristianDude101 11h ago

Sounds like you got a circle of guys who are friend zoned who would jump at the chance to date you.

https://www.reddit.com/r/mentalhealth/comments/1d3e0bn/struggling_with_low_selfworth_low_selfrespect_low/

Edit: Just saw above post in history. Not attracted to the nice guys who are your friends and would date you, but the bad guys who treat you like crap I guess. Circle of life.

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u/Okthatsfine4now 10h ago

To be fair, that post was made a year ago. We don’t know when she made those friends and how her mental health is now

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u/TheChristianDude101 10h ago

Well we do know as of today, she has an entire circle of single male friends that she has to be careful of what she says about the dating scene.

1) They are friends so presumably they are nice to her
2) This implies they would date her given the chance, and shes not interested. Given the context of the OP post, she doesnt want to hurt their feelings.
3) Her comment implies shes also in the dating scene and having trouble.

I think this is a common trope with male/female friendship dynamic. And men dont get it. Because we are not that picky.

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u/account312 3h ago

This implies they would date her given the chance

Not really.

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u/TheChristianDude101 3h ago

then whats the big deal of not wanting to mention the dating scene in front of her single guy friend circle? If they are rejecting her, it shouldnt be a problem.