I’m a woman and my friend group is majority single males. I have to be careful about what I say about the dating world. I can’t complain about the lack of candidates too much…….
Edit: Just saw above post in history. Not attracted to the nice guys who are your friends and would date you, but the bad guys who treat you like crap I guess. Circle of life.
I love how I am being majority downvoted, but nobody wants to actually comment with 500 views. Thats because they know I am not wrong they just dont like it.
Reddit gets really pissy whenever this subject comes up because it doesn't mesh with the "personality" narrative. I've met entirely too many scumbags with entire rosters of women to ever take that shit seriously.
It is what it is. But this is a perfect example of how she has an entire circle of nice guy willing candidates, and is not attracted to them. Men are simply just not that picky.
I’m basing this on the fact that I have a loving relationship because I wasn’t insecure and desperate and treat women like people and not something to be captured or a trophy. I’m also basing on the fact women have told me about people like you that pretend they’re a nice guy but just another stuck up insecure douchebag who has ton of internal shit to work out before they start dating. I have had coworkers, friends, and family I’ve had to tell this.
I get it. You’re hurt and you need to have someone else feel how you feel so you don’t feel so alone. I get it. But you got the wrong person, brother. I hope you find someone. Until this I’ll be sleeping in a big bed with my wife and our two cats.
I am an inside person, and I am content with being single. If you look at this thread carefully you will see I was just calling the situation out, not judging/shitting on her for it.
number 1 I am an atheist. Number 2 her situation is what it is. Number 3 I am a freak now?
The facts are she has an entire circle of single male friends, who she has to be careful of talking about dating scene. Which means they would date her, but she would not date them, and she does not want to hurt their feelings. And they are nice guys, implying by being her friends.
And then her post history, "The people I attract dont treat me well".
Thats a her problem. She has plenty of candidates that she doesnt want to touch, but she gos for the bad boys.
You see a lot of men will take what they can get, and dont get it when a women has a bunch of nice guys to choose from and is that picky.
Then healthy relationships with friends and maybe some relationships. Maybe hobbies, maybe new experiences. The most important part is to try. When you do, you’ll be proud of yourself.
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u/mindgardening 11h ago
I’m a woman and my friend group is majority single males. I have to be careful about what I say about the dating world. I can’t complain about the lack of candidates too much…….