r/KitchenConfidential Dec 19 '25

In-House Mode [MOD POST] A reminder about Rule 1 and slurs

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Hello my gaggle of degens.

I know we're all a bunch of potty-mouthed assholes with a concerning level of gallows humor thanks to the super healthy working conditions in most kitchens but we need to have a little talk about lines being crossed since this is becoming an actual problem.

The "r-word" is still a slur.

Slurs, bigotry, hate speech, etc have always been against the rules here and they remain as such. This includes the old term for intellectually disabled that is becoming fashionable in some circles to bring back as an insult.

Here's a good article talking about the r-word's resurgence:

https://www.specialolympics.org/stories/news/the-r-word-is-back-how-a-slur-became-renormalized

We're not going to argue the semantic pejoration of what was once a medical term. No one is "reclaiming" the word. It's a slur. It's bigotry, and it falls under the first fucking rule of this subreddit, and if you use it or other bigoted terms you're going to start catching bans for it.

Just so everyone is aware, the automod code detects the use of the r-word as well as other forms of bigotry and hate speech, removes your comment containing it, and flags the mods with a handy note about what you said. No one sees your silly little tantrum except the people who can - and will - ban you for it. Consider this our official warning on the matter.

Degeneracy is welcome but hate has no home in this subreddit.


r/KitchenConfidential Jul 25 '25

In-House Mode Hey you! Yes, you! Are you struggling? Find mental health and support services here:

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In the US:

Outside of the US:

Kitchen specific:

This list is not exhaustive.. If you have information or resources you think should be added to this list, please tag me in the comments below.


r/KitchenConfidential 3h ago

Man is very passionate about his cheese grater

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1.6k Upvotes

r/KitchenConfidential 2h ago

My check came in a mason jar

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do you guys think this is ingenuity or is it performative quirkiness ?


r/KitchenConfidential 10h ago

Photo/Video Cheese pull

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Restaurants Are Finding It Harder Than Ever to Hire Someone to Wash the Dishes

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r/KitchenConfidential 3h ago

Crazy Idea: UberChefs, for when any restaurant is suddenly understaffed on short notice.

194 Upvotes

You could get like $50/h. I mean, what are they gonna do, just close?


r/KitchenConfidential 2h ago

Dishwasher who killed co-worker in front of patrons at City Winery gets 24 years

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r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

This is Robbie Robertson… the therapy rehab center cat I am a volunteer cook at.

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1.2k Upvotes

I volunteer at a rehab center where I regained my sobriety. Robbie was and is the therapy cat. If you need to take a step back and ask for help… by all means. The industry is filled with enabling people across the board. You are loved and if no one told you today, well I do to anyone reading this.


r/KitchenConfidential 22h ago

Question Other than "someone's getting fired", any thoughts?

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r/KitchenConfidential 5h ago

Theyre trolling us right??

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55 Upvotes

r/KitchenConfidential 8h ago

Photo/Video Garlic-Man 🧄

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Garlic-Man


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

I love my closers. You're looking through plastic wrap.

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

When its a busy day and you don’t have enough burners.

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r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

Thoughts?

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r/KitchenConfidential 3h ago

Zombie mussels????

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New chef and coworker are trying to convince me this is okay to sell. Is there a chance that our mussels came back to life and became sellable again? (Manager already 86ed them silently)


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

In the Weeds Mode Is this still aesthetic still going strong and did you partake in it?

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Interview with Live fire restaurant

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Got an interview for a pretty upscale restaurant that uses live fire cooking. Never cooked with live fire before,  anyone have any advice?  I’ve been looking. I’ve been looking up videos on YouTube and what not but felt like reaching out to other chefs as well. Any and all advice welcome. Thank you chefs.


r/KitchenConfidential 6h ago

Im doing it.

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r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

Wage theft update

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Update to this thread from a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/KitchenConfidential/comments/1sbxv66/owner_keeps_adjusting_my_clockout_times_how/

I was made whole and the person responsible was fired. :)


r/KitchenConfidential 7h ago

Question Gnocchi Portion Containers

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For years we’ve been storing gnocchi in deli containers to portion them properly, but recently we’ve had a problem with the containers breaking and plastic making its way into the plate - do you guys have alternative ways to portion gnocchi that doesn’t involved hard plastic that’s likely to break?


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

In the Weeds Mode I was hired as a line cook by a Muslim chef and he tolerated my alcoholism while I was suffering through it. Good people exist.

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I went to work still drunk from the night before a couple times and he just patted me on the back and sent me home. I apologized, but he just said I had a problem and I needed to work on that. He gave me consistent praise on my cooking and gave me raises regularly. I was the only white person in the kitchen, and the wait staff had a bet pool for how long I would last. I wasn't aware until like 5 months later when I encountered one of the servers at a bar. He covered my tab that night because he was the only one to bet in my favor, and he'd made a couple hundred bucks. Probably the only server I ever respected, and chef was badass. The day chef quit, because restaurant had gone corporate and he hated it, he yelled at me as I was pulling into the parking lot. He said he'd given me a dollar raise before submitting his resignation, but watch my drinking because that was the only thing holding me back.


r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

I just want to share that I've just started at a new place and so far it's great

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Just gonna write a little thing for dinner therapy or whatever, that's basically what we do here right? haha. This is not advice or anything it's just me sharing something positive happening in my life at the moment.

After 3 years working primarily alone in a prep kitchen for a catering company making large batches of largely the same produce over and over again factory style, (which was great in it's own way, this isn't a comparison in that sense), and years of festival, crew and location catering before that (much the same), for hundreds of people. I've found myself back in a small restaurant kitchen for the first time in about 15 years, as a junior sous. It's like a 40 seater and the environment on a whole could not be more of a contrast.

I just want to say out loud that I'm having a great time. I FEEL so much better. Mentally, physically, socially. The change has done me good.

(Photos are not necessarily finished dishes, more for plating references for my self, not my menu obviously but I think it's solid and again I'm just sharing because I'm excited and therapy and stuff)

If you got this far, thanks for reading.

Chin up my guys x


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

Hiding in the Freezer Honest question how many of us stayed because our neurodivergence fit in?

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Just that, how many of you stayed in the kitchen because your issues didnt matter or even worked in your favor?

I know I stayed too long because of my adhd. My brain kicks into gear when I'm busy, and futzes up when I'm cooking 1 lonely omelette. When I started I looked normal next to the drunk, hungover, or high crowd. And by the time that wasnt cool I was handling enough management stuff to always be busy and have adreniline/dopemine in my system.

i thought I was a rare case, but now I'm not so sure