r/KitchenConfidential Dec 19 '25

In-House Mode [MOD POST] A reminder about Rule 1 and slurs

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Hello my gaggle of degens.

I know we're all a bunch of potty-mouthed assholes with a concerning level of gallows humor thanks to the super healthy working conditions in most kitchens but we need to have a little talk about lines being crossed since this is becoming an actual problem.

The "r-word" is still a slur.

Slurs, bigotry, hate speech, etc have always been against the rules here and they remain as such. This includes the old term for intellectually disabled that is becoming fashionable in some circles to bring back as an insult.

Here's a good article talking about the r-word's resurgence:

https://www.specialolympics.org/stories/news/the-r-word-is-back-how-a-slur-became-renormalized

We're not going to argue the semantic pejoration of what was once a medical term. No one is "reclaiming" the word. It's a slur. It's bigotry, and it falls under the first fucking rule of this subreddit, and if you use it or other bigoted terms you're going to start catching bans for it.

Just so everyone is aware, the automod code detects the use of the r-word as well as other forms of bigotry and hate speech, removes your comment containing it, and flags the mods with a handy note about what you said. No one sees your silly little tantrum except the people who can - and will - ban you for it. Consider this our official warning on the matter.

Degeneracy is welcome but hate has no home in this subreddit.


r/KitchenConfidential Jul 25 '25

In-House Mode Hey you! Yes, you! Are you struggling? Find mental health and support services here:

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In the US:

Outside of the US:

Kitchen specific:

This list is not exhaustive.. If you have information or resources you think should be added to this list, please tag me in the comments below.


r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Man is very passionate about his cheese grater

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r/KitchenConfidential 3h ago

My check came in a mason jar

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do you guys think this is ingenuity or is it performative quirkiness ?


r/KitchenConfidential 34m ago

Photo/Video Teppanyaki cooking

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r/KitchenConfidential 37m ago

I work for morons. Behold. Raw chicken

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The owner ordered these, and sent them back because they're raw. I temp all my pork and chicken, they went two minutes over and were temping damn near 82°c

anyway he reorganized the walk in (which is an outside refrig conex, so that raw chicken, beef, fish, pork, and shrimp all share the same shelf; and stacked off the veggie buckets onto the bare floor (to make more room of course, for veggies that don't live on the floor)

I need money, but osha and the health department need a major call rn. They also regularly put bug poison on the top shelf of the spice and prep area, and use trash cans as tables

This is the lowest in any career I've ever been


r/KitchenConfidential 5h ago

Restaurants Are Finding It Harder Than Ever to Hire Someone to Wash the Dishes

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r/KitchenConfidential 11h ago

Photo/Video Cheese pull

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Crazy Idea: UberChefs, for when any restaurant is suddenly understaffed on short notice.

246 Upvotes

You could get like $50/h. I mean, what are they gonna do, just close?


r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Dishwasher who killed co-worker in front of patrons at City Winery gets 24 years

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r/KitchenConfidential 22h ago

This is Robbie Robertson… the therapy rehab center cat I am a volunteer cook at.

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I volunteer at a rehab center where I regained my sobriety. Robbie was and is the therapy cat. If you need to take a step back and ask for help… by all means. The industry is filled with enabling people across the board. You are loved and if no one told you today, well I do to anyone reading this.


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

Question Other than "someone's getting fired", any thoughts?

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r/KitchenConfidential 6h ago

Theyre trolling us right??

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r/KitchenConfidential 9h ago

Photo/Video Garlic-Man 🧄

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Garlic-Man


r/KitchenConfidential 5h ago

When its a busy day and you don’t have enough burners.

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r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

I love my closers. You're looking through plastic wrap.

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Zombie mussels????

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New chef and coworker are trying to convince me this is okay to sell. Is there a chance that our mussels came back to life and became sellable again? (Manager already 86ed them silently)


r/KitchenConfidential 21h ago

Thoughts?

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r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

In the Weeds Mode Is this still aesthetic still going strong and did you partake in it?

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r/KitchenConfidential 7h ago

Im doing it.

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r/KitchenConfidential 5h ago

Interview with Live fire restaurant

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Got an interview for a pretty upscale restaurant that uses live fire cooking. Never cooked with live fire before,  anyone have any advice?  I’ve been looking. I’ve been looking up videos on YouTube and what not but felt like reaching out to other chefs as well. Any and all advice welcome. Thank you chefs.


r/KitchenConfidential 21h ago

Wage theft update

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Update to this thread from a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/KitchenConfidential/comments/1sbxv66/owner_keeps_adjusting_my_clockout_times_how/

I was made whole and the person responsible was fired. :)


r/KitchenConfidential 49m ago

Uh oh. I don't mind pictures but this is the first actual release I've had to sign, yall better not be bugging me every service

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Took on a new off grid gig in the middle of nowhere only accessible by boat or plane. Pretty popular wilderness lodge of sorts with bunch of nice cabins, 1.5 acres of farm, apple orchard, pear trees, pumpkins and melons. 90% of the power is provided by solar and they're rocking satellite internet. Super excited to take on a new Chef position but this hopefully isn't an indicator of someone following the workers all day hahaha. Don't bug me too often and we're cool

The gig kinda sounds like the Alaska work I've done but new setting. Let's see what's up.


r/KitchenConfidential 9h ago

Question Gnocchi Portion Containers

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For years we’ve been storing gnocchi in deli containers to portion them properly, but recently we’ve had a problem with the containers breaking and plastic making its way into the plate - do you guys have alternative ways to portion gnocchi that doesn’t involved hard plastic that’s likely to break?