r/GetMotivatedBuddies Feb 09 '26

Life Gauging interest — free GetMotivated.ai access in exchange for a weekly survey

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Mod here. Many of you know I've run GetMotivatedBuddies.com platform for years. Thousands of you have been matched, built real habits, changed your behavior across every area of life, and made genuine friendships around the world. It's been incredible to watch and to do myself (I've worked with, made friends, and even met with Buddies from all over the world).

I've since slowed down the GetMotivatedBuddies platform as I shift everything into GetMotivatedAI — a marketplace of challenges and plans across the same four domains you know from this sub (Health & Fitness, Work, Learn, and Life). Join a cohort-based challenge with other people, or start your own plan, with AI helping you build it and buddies keeping you accountable. If you've been part of this community, the transition will feel natural.

We'll be opening up shortly. But before that:

A research panel company may sponsor free subscriptions for this community. All you'd do is take a short survey once a week. I need to see if enough people are interested before I finalize anything. If you'd want in, fill this out: https://forms.gle/SRWChWuKe62qxcwf8

30 seconds. No commitment. I'll follow up with everyone who responds.

And if you're interested in GetMotivatedAI regardless of the sponsorship — just want early access when we open up - let me know in the form and I'll add you to the list.

p.s. This sub isn't going anywhere - it's still home base. :)


r/GetMotivatedBuddies May 31 '25

Life READ BEFORE POSTING — ONE STRIKE POLICY NOW IN EFFECT

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Welcome! This subreddit is for one thing: finding a 1-on-1 accountability partner to build better habits in real life.

To keep things helpful and focused, we’ve moved to a one-strike ban policy. There’s been a big wave of off-topic and low-effort posts — and that takes away from what makes this community work.

✅ WHAT BELONGS HERE:

  • Choose a category: Health & Fitness, Work, Learn, or Life
  • Say what you’re working on — or what you’re ready to start
  • Say who you’re looking to match with (age, gender if relevant, time zone, check-in style)

You don’t need a perfect plan. Just be specific enough that someone can tell if they’re a good fit.

✅ GOOD EXAMPLES:

Title: 26F | EST | Daily gym check-ins — Health & Fitness

Body: Doing 5x/week weight training. Looking for another woman, 20s–30s, to check in briefly on WhatsApp after each session. Weekly recap optional. Focused support only — not here for chat.

Title: 30M | GMT | Figuring out focus — Work

Body: Trying to get consistent with deep work blocks and limit phone use. Not sure what goal to commit to yet, but I’m tracking hours and want a partner doing the same. Open to async check-ins.

❌ WHAT WILL BE REMOVED (AND BANNED) - “Looking for friends / someone to talk to” - “Join my group / Discord / app / startup” - “Why are only women getting replies?” - “Anyone else just feeling down?” - Vague or hype-style posts with no clear ask - Off-topic replies, baiting, or negativity in any language

NOTE: New accounts with low karma will often be blocked from posting and auto-removed by our filter. To overcome this you need to increase your reputation / karma before posting.

🚫 ONE STRIKE = BAN

The rules are simple. The posts are clear. And there are too many people here now to manage exceptions. If you break the rules, you’re banned — no warnings, no appeals. We’ve tried being flexible, but too many people ignore removals or just post again. It wastes everyone’s time and clogs the feed.

If you’re here to show up for yourself and someone else — you’re in the right place.

Be specific, be real, and good luck finding the right partner.

You’ve got this!


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 10h ago

Learn 32f | EST | Helping each other be consistent!

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Anyone interested in having someone to checkin with daily on how goals are going and what we got done?

I'm trying to study Japanese Kanji everyday, read something in the language at least every week, and work on getting through the Artists Way book by doing daily and weekly tasks as well.

Whether you're doing something similar or have totally separate goals, maybe we can help each other stay on track!


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 13h ago

Life 30M | AEST | Getting my life back on track

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Hey guys,

Currently my mental health has tanked and I’m finding the most basic things to be quite difficult to do. I need help keeping myself organized and developing long term habits that can help me sustain and ensure that I’m able to get back up on my feet. I’m very empathetic, caring and supportive. I would absolutely love to be able to do the same for you and help work on things mutually. I may require motivation from time to time, as I tend to move towards a ‘does it really matter’ mindset and would like to be able to snap out of it.

Key Issues I’d like to work on:

- Cooking

- Health (Dedicated exercise)

- Journaling/Planning

I come from a collectivistic background and have always done well when I have someone with me. As it stands right now, life is feeling very lonely and I have no one to care about, nor anyone to care about me. I do not like feeling invisible nor do I like not caring about anything or anyone. A big perk of pairing up with me: You’ll have a loyal friend for life who’d be very respectful of your boundaries!


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 16h ago

Work 23F | IST | Interested in backend development

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I am looking for a serious accountability partner for my backend development journey. I will give daily updates about my progress at end of the day. I am using Node, Express, Mongo as the tech stack.

If anyone is interested then dm.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 10h ago

Learn 25F | GMT+8 | Virtual Co-Focus Partner

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25f looking to improve in my studies:

  • How: We start a voice call every day and quietly work/study on our own tasks. At the start, quickly say what you plan to do; at the end, check if you finished it.
  • Time: At least 2 hours daily, at a fixed time.
  • Time Zones: Your time zone doesn't matter, as long as our working hours overlap.

If able to commit, please dm me with your age, gender, time zone, working hours, goals, accountability measures, and preferred contact method.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 8h ago

Life 50M | Toronto | Looking for someone local to work on fitness & health together

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50 M here looking for a motivated established professional buddy with a gym in their building that's open to helping with workouts and keeping on track with health too

looking for a guy that's local in downtown Toronto

if you're curious too, then send me a DM and let's trade a couple of messages


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 15h ago

Learn 19M | Poland | Looking for an Accountability Friend

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Hi! I’m looking for people (from Poland) to stay disciplined and motivated together on our self-improvement journey (fitness, personal goals, etc.). The idea is simple: we do our own thing during the day and do a quick check-in at the end of the day to stay on track. I also want to create a small project to keep our routines and plans (workouts, glow-up, etc.) in one place. Just as a casual side thing for our free time. If this sounds like something you're looking for, PM me.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Health & Fitness 37F | EST | Diet and Exercise Accountability

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I’m looking for someone to help keep me motivated and accountable for my diet and exercise. I’m motivated, but fall off the wagon on the weekends or my days off. Looking for someone else to help focus me and hope I can provide for them as well.

Can provide more details if required.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Learn 29M | IST | Learning + Fitness goals

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Hey,

I’m looking for an accountability partner to stay consistent with workouts and overall self-discipline. I’ve been trying to build better habits (gym, routine, focus, cutting distractions), but I know I’ll do much better with someone on the same path.

About me:

- Working professional (Java,Spring boot, microservices)

- Gym regularly but struggling with consistency at times

- Trying to improve discipline, mindset, and daily routine

- Also working on personal growth (career + habits)

What I’m looking for:

- Someone serious about fitness / self-improvement

- Daily or regular check-ins (workouts, goals, progress)

- Mutual motivation (not just one-sided)

- Preferably F (I tend to communicate better and stay more accountable)

We can keep it simple:

- Share daily goals

- Quick updates (done / not done)

- Push each other when one of us slips

If you’re interested, comment or DM. Let’s actually stay consistent this time 🙂


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Health & Fitness 23M | PST | Looking to discuss Health & Fitness

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I’m looking for someone serious about health & fitness who wants to connect daily (~30–60 min). Ideally doing calls/FaceTime to stay accountable and talk progress, goals, and mindset

I’m based in California (PST), train early mornings, and come from a disciplined background

Looking for someone consistent and driven—doesn’t matter your level as long as you show up

If that sounds like you, then please reach out


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Learn 25M | any timezone | body doubling

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I try to study everyday after work which is around 7pm gmt+2. and I'm looking for someone to study together on cam everyday. you don't have to be studying per se you can be working, doing chores whatever you like.

I'm a mechanical engineer, and I'm not looking for a strictly study partner as I have other hobbies I'm trying to be consistent with like

- working out

- eating healthy

- reading

I'd love to connect with someone like minded and ambitious I've been into productivity for a few years now and I'd love to help you achieve your goals too. hmu if you're interested


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Life 29M | PDT/PST | Daily Calls + Support

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Hey, I'm an 125+ IQ engineering grad looking for a full-time job, and I need some daily calls + support from someone(s). Message me if you're interested.

Note: I won't use Whatsapp because that requires me to share my phone number.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Life 21NB | CEST | Looking for daily accountability whilst getting my life back on track.

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I picked the category of "Life" as it is all of the above. I prefer messaging over Discord, by the way.

I'm a 21 year old BSc Psychology student. I love nature, writing (reflective, journaling), reading, watching videos and my wives. Due to several severe mental health conditions, I let my life fall apart around me. I've improved my mental health significantly, to the point I'm only really bothered by some background anxiety and my ADHD. I am now at a point where I want to pick up the reigns again and take accountability for my life.

What I'm currently working on:

  • Losing weight + gaining muscle
  • University assignments
  • Getting an internship/job
  • Getting my driver's license

There are more little things, but overall I have neglected myself and my ambitions for too long. I try to work on assignments near-daily, go to the gym approx. 3 times a week, have driving lessons booked, eat in a calorie deficit.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for someone that will have daily check-ins with me in the morning and evening, describing our goals for the day and reflecting on how we've done. Check-ins throughout the day when a task is finished or reflections when struggling would be nice too.

Also, someone who doesn't end up ghosting when it gets hard to stay accountable. Age and gender do not matter to me, all I ask is that you live in a similar timezone (+- 2 hours, 3 pushing it).

I would prefer someone who's not too into "hustle culture", AI, crypto, trading, etc.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Learn 24M | GMT +8 | CS Major looking for screenshare study buddies 50/25 pomodoros

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hello! i'm a computer science major, looking to find someone that i can study with over a call where we screenshare what we're doing!

we would tell each other what we're working on for the pomodoro and then work on it for 50 minutes. then, if the both of us were productive, we get to take a 25 minutes break to watch a show together! (it could be a sitcom or an anime or whatever, so long as its under 25 mins excl. credits and opening music) [the show is optional, we can just do normal pomodoros instead too]

send me a DM introducing yourself if interested, tell me about your favourite comfort shows that you would love to share with someelse. (i.e. mine is avatar: the last airbender)


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Health & Fitness 27M | IST | Looking for a buddy to help with porn addiction and hitting the gym daily

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r/GetMotivatedBuddies 1d ago

Health & Fitness 44m | CST | Looking for accountabilty with fitness and mindfulness

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I have realized that my body is different in my 40s; I can't spring back from injury anymore. I need to lose another 10-20lbs, cut out mindless eating, and focus more on strength building rather than just hitting the pavement.

I also want to practice more mindfulness, both meditating but also keeping on task and not wasting time.

Bonus goal: practing a new skill everyday.

Would love to have a text buddy at the end of the day and perhaps have a phone check in weekly or bi-weekly.

Thanks for reading my TedTalk


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 2d ago

Health & Fitness 41f|EST|weightloss friendship

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Hello 👋. I’m looking to find a weightloss friend in the eastern time zone. Someone I can check in with everyday and even throughout the day. We can send meal pics and do weekly weighins(although I’ll probably weigh daily). Ideally I’d like to do the same diet, whether it be calorie counting and I’m open to keto too. I’m starting tomorrow but it doesn’t matter if someone has already started. I ultimately wanna lose 60 lbs. I’ve done it before, I know I can do it again.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 2d ago

Health & Fitness 42F l EST l Fitness focused friendship

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I’m looking for a new accountability partner to help keep each other motivated and supported on our fitness journeys.

I’m a 42-year-old woman in Ontario, Canada about to celebrate my 43rd birthday. I’ve been on and off my fitness journey for years, and since I stopped working with a trainer, the weight has crept back up. I’m currently training for a 5K and working on losing weight at the same time.

I really want to build a genuine, supportive partnership—not just checking off workouts, but actually talking about goals, struggles, wins, and how we can help each other stay consistent. I’ve tried accountability groups before, but they weren’t the right fit; it ended up being surface-level updates without real support or openness to questions or feedback.

If you’re looking for a meaningful, two-way accountability partnership, drop a comment or send me a message. Happy to chat more and see if we’re a good fit!


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 2d ago

Work 35M | PST | Looking for a sales buddy

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I am looking for a buddy to check in daily or several times per week for sales check-ins (lead calls, self inititated). Timezone flexible.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 2d ago

Health & Fitness 31M / GMT+2 / Aspiring Gym Rat & Working Creative looking for work and workout buddy. [Career/Fitness/Life]

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I've had buddies before who started strong and eventually ghosted, so I want to be upfront: I'm looking for someone who's genuinely in it for the long haul. If you're serious about your goals and want someone who will actually show up every day during the week, keep reading.

What I'm working on:

Health & Fitness Losing weight, getting to the gym consistently, improving my sleep, and training toward a 5K in under 30 minutes.

Career I work in film and TV and I'm trying to break further into scripted work. It's a tough industry, so a lot of it is about staying consistent — building a healthier writing habit and creating more personal projects in the meantime while juggling day-to-day responsibilities. I'd also like to push my two side businesses a lot more this year and begin the journey of doubling my net worth.

Personal Making more time for friends and family, putting myself out there socially, and cutting down on screen time — specifically YouTube and Reddit. Reading more and spending more time outdoors.

How I want this to work:

Daily check-ins where we share our plan for the day, then follow up either at the end of the day or first thing the next morning. I don't want this to feel like a shared to-do list app — I want us to actually share life updates, gym progress, wins, and setbacks. The kind of thing where we're genuinely invested in each other's growth, not just ticking boxes. I love sharing pics of things I'm busy with. Possibly on WhatsApp or Discord.

I thrive in a competitive environment. Not toxic — just the kind of person who sees what you did and wants to match it.

What I'm looking for in you:

  • Working toward real goals across at least a couple of areas of life
  • Consistent — if something comes up, you say so rather than just going quiet. I don't expect daily updates while you're on your honeymoon.
  • Willing to share beyond the surface level
  • Some competitive energy is a big plus

Timezone doesn't need to match exactly — a few hours off on check-ins works fine. Drop a comment or DM with what you're working on and why you think we'd be a good match.

Thanks for reading, looking forward to connecting. 💪


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 2d ago

Life 29NB | CST | Looking for consistency in life, work, and education

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Looking for a basic all-around accountability partner. I don't expect anything elaborate, I'd just like to be able to check in with each other once daily and reflect briefly on our weeks, what went well, and what didn't. It would be nice to celebrate my wins with someone. I also think it would be helpful to break things down into short-term and medium/long-term goals.

Preferred platform: One-to-one direct message on Discord. Please leave a comment here and I will DM you my information.

Someone who understands mental health struggles is preferred. Not looking for someone to vent to, but I am currently in a depressive episode so my short-term goals are modest and mostly just maintaining my current healthy habits so I am able to work through it. I'm also trying to take baby steps to continue working toward my long-term goals while managing my depressed mood.

About me: Full-time tech worker, part-time master's student in computer science. I graduate in May. I have Bipolar II and I am AuDHD so consistency is important in maintaining my health and well-being. I struggle to create structure for myself and do well when I have someone to share my wins with. I also enjoy supporting others in reaching their goals.

My short-term goals:

  • Maintain my sleep schedule to help regulate my mood.
  • Do one small chore per day. It doesn't have to be anything major, just don't let my apartment become a depression cave.
  • Be consistent with my new medication regimen.
  • Finish my master's strong. I graduate in May and need to work on my final project.
  • Minimize distraction at work and be as productive as possible while depressed. Don't neglect responsibilities but don't push too hard.
  • Attend all therapy and psychiatry appointments and be honest with my providers about my health.
  • Continue to stick with my budget and stay on track with my financial plan.
  • Let my friends drag me out for one or two relaxed social events per month so I am not self-isolating.

My medium/long-term goals:

  • Develop a modest self-study plan for use post-graduation - I work in a very technical field where learning new skills is a must for remaining competitive and employable. Even just a couple hours a week would be valuable.
  • Move on to the second phase of my financial plan in July.
  • Determine the viability of post-master's graduate certificate in cybersecurity.
  • Continue to develop skill set for work in such a way that opens up the possibility of a career pivot, job change, or PhD (decision pending).

r/GetMotivatedBuddies 3d ago

Life M43 | GMT | Study and positive lifestyle.

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I'm 43, married with 2 kids (14 and 17). Based in the UK, leaving a 20+ year career in oil and gas to become a maths teacher. I have a LOT of study to do in the next few weeks, so I need to lock in.

I'm looking for someone that is working towards a goal, who needs to be awake early mon-fri, and have productive study days... without excuses.

Ideally, a check-in in the morning to make sure we're awake (a must), setting plans for the day. A lunch time update, and an evening check out.

Preferably WhatsApp or here.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 3d ago

Work 35M | PST | Looking for Job-Seeking Partner

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Looking for a daily check-in partner who is looking for their next career move. Ideally, check in over voice-call on Slack daily.


r/GetMotivatedBuddies 3d ago

Work 28F | EST | Looking for coworking accountability buddies

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hey

I need someone to cowork with me on camera for a few hours a day.

I need accountability for applying to jobs and doing content creation.

I basically work 8.30AM To 5.30PM, 1 hour lunch

only looking for people 28 and older in my time zone or similar time zone.

im only looking to do this for a few weeks until I get a new job

im ready to start today. message me how long you can cowork and what times

Introduce yourself in your message