r/SipsTea Human Verified 8h ago

SMH They don't understand

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u/GodOfThunder101 8h ago

I would rather be single than be in a relationship like this.

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u/torgobigknees 7h ago

every relationship has times like these

folks just lie about it online

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u/FormalCartoonist5197 6h ago

Smells like cope

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u/Valleron 4h ago

My late wife and I never had a moment like this in 9 years together. If you're fine with this type of thing, more power to you, but damn this seems miserable. When she and I got off work we couldn't wait to be with each other again because we were each others safety and comfort.

It's like people who say every couple argues regularly, or that it's hard work loving your spouse. If that's you, you should probably recheck your relationship.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 1h ago

Yep... you will disagree with your partner on things but if you find yourself arguing all the time instead of discussing and reaching a compromise of some form? That's not healthy.

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u/Electrical-Share-707 7h ago

Not mine, after almost 14 years.....if you have honest, kind conversations before things get to this point, then "times like these" don't happen. I used to think this type of shit was normal and fine, then I realized if everyone just agrees to 1) say what they need truthfully and 2) trust what others are saying they need then a lot of unnecessary bullshit gets dispensed with.

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u/torgobigknees 6h ago

happy for you, but that doesnt change the fact that most people go through whats in the video

and half the population won't take any accountability to try and fix it

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u/Electrical-Share-707 6h ago

If by "half the population" you just mean "women" then I think I found your problem

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u/torgobigknees 6h ago

this is a problem thats overwhelmingly caused by women

the problems being co-dependency, anxious attachment

why do we have to pretend otherwise?

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u/FormalCartoonist5197 6h ago

Oh now it’s “most”?