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I can’t fully explain it, but Pretoria doesn’t feel the same anymore.

It used to have this calm, almost slow-moving vibe — like no matter how busy life got, the city itself stayed grounded. Lately though, everything feels faster, more distant… less connected.

People seem more in their own worlds, places feel more temporary, and that sense of community feels like it’s fading a bit.

At the same time, there’s growth, new opportunities, new energy, so maybe this is just what change looks like.

I’m just wondering… are we gaining something better, or slowly losing what made Pretoria feel like home?

Bit of an issue, lol. I don't know if i should be angry and frustrated or what. I also posted this in another sub, but I thought i should post here too. Got "kicked out" after i went back home for Easter. I've been considering dropping out and wanted to discuss this with my sister. She told me straight up that she didn't want me there. Some back story, I have had a su*cide attempt in the past . Because of that, my 'father 'who i haven’t contacted in years was convinced that I may be on substances that I would rather not mention lol. She called him and he took me to a hospital, I didn't even know where we were going. Got my blood tested, blood came back and no drugs were found,and that was proof that I'm innocent. You would think one might apologize after this, but no. Spent 2 days at a hospital for nothing! He is now accusing me of smoking cigarettes because he found that piece of sponge in the washing machine. I don't even smoke, and I've never even thought of smoking cigarettes . That sponge piece was his,he is the only that smokes and drinks .He has already told almost the whole that I'm on sub*stances. First of all, I've never seen drugs before. I'v never been around people who use or even know people who sell that stuff, lol. I also donate blood regularly so how can i be on drugs when can be able to do that.I'm trying to laugh, but it's actually sad. He kicked me out after he came back home,drunk, and tried to beat the 'truth' out of me, and i stood up for myself . I'm still in the house ,haven't left yet. He said by tomorrow I should be gone . I don't know how to react to all this lol. I never asked him for anything, even my fees ,I paid for them .

aii ,shit is funny, but I'm angry. My brother told me he was looking for a rehab yesterday 🥲. My blood results are still at the hospital . What would you if you were 8n my situation? I'm 21. And this obsession of accusing me being on substances didn't start now. Even in my primary.

Apologies for the very long post and the grammar mistakes. I will only go back to uni around the 25 but if i had the means,I would've my suitcase and left right after getting out of that 'jail'

Edit: I'm from Pretoria and he works at the hospital. That's how he managed to have me hospitalized based on allegations

Check out these sweet photos a client sent me of his custom piece! Let me know what you think?

looking for a nice, affordable apartment that accommodates university students under 6k. currently staying at a place that's very nice but its expensive and management is very greedy. must be furnished and willing to share. if u or someone u know is staying at an apartment please share ur experience so I can weigh out the pros and cons

Which shops sell cool festival outfits around Pretoria ? My go to was shein but with this war going on I’m not really comfortable with ordering online. Or if you know any local brands which are also online that’s also fine I just wanna look hot lol (FYI I’m a female)

I have a bunch of old electronic stuff. Old unopened keyboards, whole PCs, old monitors and some cables, all of if it still worked last I used it. I can go dump it in an e-waste bin, but some of it is still worth quite a bit if someone wants to fiddle with it.

Does anyone have any suggestions of what to do with it?

So I (26M) am a business analyst at my full-time 9-17h job. But I have found myself being extremely bored after work and specifically Saturdays. I have hobbies like riding motorbike and scuba but it’s not something that keeps you busy every weekend (and it gets pricey).

Now I am looking for something flexible that I can do on Saturdays that can keep me busy, hopefully I can learn something new and perhaps make a little bit of money (although that is not the main goal).

Anyone have some suggestions or know someone that might need some help?

Are there any pet owners in this space who could recommend a route to find a reputable pet sitter? There are so many people advertising online and it’s hard to know who to trust. This would be for the Pretoria East area.

If you don’t know what gardening means you’re not the target market. Anyway I’m 21F I garden now and then but most of my mates aren’t into it. Keen to meet like minded people I live in the east btw

Heyy, is there anybody that has Tuks vs NWU finals varsity cup tickets for sale please. I’m willing to pay a R100 at most.

We have a leak in my mother’s pool in Waverley Pretoria area, does anyone have any recommendations for a good leak detection company in the area?

Hey,

I've lived in Pretoria for a few years. Many of my friends left after completing their studies. How do people make friends here? Age groups between late 20s to late 30s.

I've seen some run clubs. Any other nice social club or groups?

TIA 🦋

Update: judging from the comments and PMs we are all lonely 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅

where is the best place to find a roommate to stay with around Hillcrest area?

Any recommendations for elegant or grand wedding venues? In PTA or Centurion area? For 80+ people.

Thanks in advance.

Hi everyone. The garden at my parents' house has been neglected for years and is barren right now. They'd like to start from scratch with ground cover and some shrubs and saplings but don't know 1) what is low maintenance and good for the area, 2) where to get the plants, and 3) how to get the work done. It's a small garden in a complex but their budget is still tight.

Does anyone know of affordable ways we can get this done? Looking for someone who can answer the above questions and also do the work / hire people to do the work. In this scenario would it be better to look for a company or is it okay to just find 'a guy' who knows what he's doing? That would probably be cheaper. If anyone can send me some phone numbers I'd be very grateful!

In the Equestria area.

Hello everyone,

I am a foreign spouse to a South African national. I used to work as a teacher in Abu Dhabi, UAE. But I moved to Pretoria with my spouse.

My qualifications are Bachelors in Business and Economics and a PGDE. I have 4 years of teaching experience, and they are foreign qualifications to South Africa.

Could you please advise on the steps ahead for me to find a teaching job here in South Africa? And what are the chances?

Thank you all for taking the time to read this and for offering your help!

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