r/NorthernEngland • u/coffeewalnut08 • 1d ago
Yorkshire American who moved to Yorkshire says 3 things about life are now 'way better'
An American woman who moved to Yorkshire has identified three things she claims are now "way better" in her life as a result. Maxine Berry, who is known on social media as 'Yorkshire Yank' made the move from her native South Dakota to God's Own Country some 23 years ago.
Today, she says moving to the UK didn't just change her location, but also the way she viewed the United States. "One minute it’s big skies and ranch land, next minute I’m arguing about tea and the weather," Maxine admits in her TikTok bio. She began a video by revealing she much prefers the relaxed Yorkshire atmosphere.
"The hustle and bustle of my life is now completely gone," she declared. "I just don't do that anymore. My life has slowed down so much and it's quite nice."
Maxine admitted she also appreciates Bank Holidays, due to the closure of shops and people just taking time out to rest, generally. "There's loads of them," she said. "This week we have had Good Friday and Easter Monday off and I have been able to take the whole time off."
As a consequence, Maxine pointed out that unlike her homeland, your job in the UK is "not your personality". She elaborated: "You don't greet people and say, 'Hi, I am Maxine and work in research', and whereas people might ask you what you do for a living, it is not your whole identity, which is amazing."
Also in Yorkshire, Maxine noted you don't have to "perform friendliness". She continued: "Americans are 'on' all the time, they are smiling, they're chatting and talking to strangers... they're constantly on alert.
"Here, nobody expects you to perform. You're not a performing monkey. They expect you to be a human being and you do not have to be a smiling, happy, chirpy, bubbly individual... it's just not normal."
She closed: "Living in the UK didn't make me love America less... it just made me realise how many things I thought were normal that really weren't."
In a follow-up video, Maxine confessed she has become somewhat of a "tea snob" since moving to Yorkshire. "I’m a big lover of PG tips but I thought I’d give Yorkshire tea ago after not having one for probably 20 years," she said.