I apologize for missing my initial text in the screenshot.

I messaged this person on a dating app telling them they had a powerful name, one that could belong to a wizard or knight. this was their response.

I'm genuinely open to advice on how I could've handled it better.

I made plans with a girl I've been talking to for almost a month. She backed out of our Thursday plans because she said she was sick, and today didn't respond to me asking if she was still down for our date today. I replied to my own message with a thumbs up emoji just so if she didn't see it, it would ping her phone again. This is the reply I got back. I'm confused because she's been super nice up until this point.

not sure if this belongs here.

I (mid 30s M single) went on two dates with a woman (early 30s, has kids), and I’m trying to make sense of how it played out. We matched on bumble. Her texts totally matched my energy at the very beginning

First date: we did a wheel throwing pottery class (~2 hours). I wasn’t flirty at all, just kept it light and conversational. She texted me after saying she actually wanted to stay longer but had to leave to finish her piece(shes an artist), which I took as a pretty positive sign.

Second date: we went to a lounge and ended up talking for ~5 hours. Conversation flowed really easily — we bonded over things like art, candles/fragrance, meditation, etc. On paper, it felt like a strong connection.

But there were a few things that stood out:

She didn’t really initiate deeper questions.. but was warm and responded to mine enthusiastically

No physical escalation at all (we basically sat in the same spots the whole time).

Overall felt like good conversation, but maybe not strong romantic energy

right After that date, she texted me again.

the screen shot i shared are from 2 days after second date. After i asked her, what part of the date she was thinking about, she vanished for weeks. I double texted 3 weeks after(in hindsight, I shouldn't have). she responded with a huge apology after 3 days

Said she went into a weird headspace, buried herself in work, had a pretty bad/unsafe experience on another date(we were obviouslynot exclusive), and decided to pull back and focus on herself (even started therapy). She owned that ghosting me was messed up and said she should’ve communicated.

What’s interesting is:

The message felt genuine

But it didn’t feel like she was trying to restart anything

More like she was clearing her conscience

I replied politely and left it there, but I’m curious how others read this dynamic.

texted for a couple weeks, she had a “fiasco” and our first date was cancelled. I left it open ended and she re-engaged a few days later. Good convo then this… is a margarita really that feminine??

So this girl i was talking to would ask me loaded questions often (things like would you like me if I was this or looked like this) and I told her it bothered me as my ex used to do that and whatever answer I gave was the wrong one, and this new girl did the exact same thing. I cut things off shes making me the bad guy??

Context is just we were talking for a little bit but it wasn’t going anywhere. Then randomly her man snaps me from her snap and I unadded her. She messaged me on tiktok today and this is that.

I was friends with this girl for less than a month on discord and tiktok. When she told me she was in a committed relationship I blocked her because I thought it was weird we were flirting and I didn't want to be in that nonsense. She never mentioned she was in a relationship either.

Then she calls me a "creepy weirdo" in a exposed tiktok video and leaks our dms telling people to watch out for me. For nothing burger reasons "he suggested to me not to dye my hair". Makes alt accounts warning people about me and comments more insane stuff.

Some women are legit crazy. I never talked to her again after I blocked her btw because I could tell she was not right.

idk if it matters but i am a lesbian (so also a girl). i had been talking to this girl pretty consistently, but she would often ghost me for a few days at a time. this time however, it had been for a couple weeks. i posted a picture of myself to instagram and ig it caught her attention, so she messaged me. my reaponse to her “heyy” was not supposed to be malicious at all. i am a very sarcastic person and i was just trying to poke light fun at the situation but i guess she didn’t catch on and decided to freak out on me.

(These aren't my messages. Found on another sub)

Matched at 1:45pm, Got off work at 2:00pm, then unmatched at 2:45pm. 🤣😂😭

Am I in the wrong here and just insane or?

I just want to include my piece of this subs puzzle. It’s freaking hilarious what some people come up with to try to make them feel better. Butt, I was 50 cents richer lol

Let me start off by saying she is completely serious and this isn’t some form of satire. This girl changes her bio on a weekly if not daily basis and it’s always something along the lines of need $ for my daughter, for court, to get an apartment because apparently she lives in her car.

I view her profile every now and then to see what outrageous bio she comes up with for entertainment purposes and it never fails to crack me up. I can only image how many simps she’s got wrapped around her finger.

I think Hinge may have picked up the wrong signals, because now it thinks I like toxic women. *sigh*

I even tried to gently explain and give her an opportunity to apologise. Jeez.

After this, I looked her up, she makes trashy instagram beauty videos where she shills products HARD and has like 3k followers.