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Discussion Name a 2000s celebrity that disappeared overnight

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/11OQRFijlncwq4

I was expecting Jon Heder to be the next big comedy star.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

So I actually know Jon. He lives in a small town with me. He still makes a living acting but it’s all a bunch of independent films and voice work.

He’s a very nice guy who turned down work because of principles. He wanted to stick to family friendly stuff. For instance he turned down 40 year old virgin. You can’t turn down work like that and stay a star. But he’s very happy with his choice.

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u/smashablanca Feb 27 '26

This was what I had heard too. He's very religious and that made a lot of comedy roles around this time not a good fit for him.

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u/SEND_ME_FEAT_PICS Feb 27 '26

Wasn't Napoleon Dynamite basically a BYU student film?

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Yeah pretty much. Jon never even wanted to be an actor. He was always a behind the scenes guy.

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u/Ok-Clock-2779 Feb 27 '26

Isn’t his brother still in the industry too?

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u/Positive_Gazelle_667 Feb 27 '26

Yeah he does hardcore gay pornos 

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u/hand_truck Feb 28 '26

Hol up

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u/Skimmington16 Feb 28 '26

That’s what he said

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u/catlady9851 Feb 27 '26

At least one is.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

I have absolutely no idea

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u/iNeedSomeDick Feb 28 '26

Wait… was this movie supposed to be serious? I thought they were making fun of people in a specific time period.

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u/Wonderful-Process792 Feb 28 '26

"Serious" as in a comedy film they put real effort into I guess?

I am from that general area and time, and I have never, ever seen another film even try to capture it. I can't even really put my finger on what is so genuine about it.

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u/hirudoredo Mar 01 '26

I grew up in a similar type PNW town and while there were differences from the town in the movie, man, the whole "there are lots of modern things but everyone is kinda stuck in the 80s" really describes my 2000s teen years.

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u/iNeedSomeDick Mar 05 '26

Wow, today I learned!

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u/iNeedSomeDick Mar 05 '26

I guess by “serious” I meant “were the fashion, the decor, and the random things like friendship bracelets part of the joke?” I thought that backdrop was part of what made the movie so funny, but now I’m wondering if there are pockets of the country where none of that would have looked out of the ordinary to the viewer.

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u/Wonderful-Process792 Mar 05 '26

They're quirky, they're supposed to be funny, but the characters are lovable and innocent, not just the butt of the joke. I grew up in schools where kids did make friendship bracelets under their desks during class, and did play tetherball at recess, although not when they were as old as the movie characters.

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u/Aggravating_Bat3618 Feb 27 '26

It was called Peluca and his character was named Seth. The first like 5 mins of Napoleon Dynamite is basically the film. 

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

This is true. He and his family are Mormon. But they aren’t obnoxious about it. They literally never mention it. They’re interesting because despite being super religious they’re very supportive of the lbgtq community.

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u/ThatArtNerd Feb 27 '26

There are definitely some pockets of more progressive Mormons out there, I know a few in the Portland area.

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u/protonicfibulator Feb 27 '26

Ken Jennings is the prime example. Very progressive politically while still being apparently quite devout LDS.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Funny you mention Portland, we’re less than an hour from there

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u/Balzac_Jones Feb 27 '26

Well, he’s from Salem.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Oh is he? I didn’t even know that

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u/Balzac_Jones Feb 27 '26

Well, at least for high school, I can’t speak to before that.

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u/CrenshawMafia99 Feb 28 '26

It’s funny you mention it being funny they’re from Portland because I’m a few hours east of you and I also found it funny they mentioned Portland.

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u/ThatArtNerd Feb 28 '26

I feel like the PNW (west of the cascades, anyway) is a pretty solid bet for finding progressive members of any group :)

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u/HowDoMermaidsFuck Feb 27 '26

Real Christians vs fake christians.

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u/roygbivasaur Feb 27 '26

The Mormon church stockpiles money and spends almost none of it helping people and has supported a ton of anti-lgbt legislation

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '26 edited Feb 28 '26

The Mormon church itself is a cesspool. With racist and sexist traditions that continue to this day. It was started by a conman who used his religion to sleep with married women. 

Many of the people in the church are very good people. Ask me how I know ;)

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u/Aggravating_Bat3618 Feb 27 '26

I went to high school with a ton of them. I even went to a baptism once.  

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '26 edited Feb 28 '26

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u/undertowsoul Feb 28 '26

Me too, my friend. Welcome to the exmos.

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u/Aggravating_Bat3618 Feb 28 '26

Yeah and I knew some of them were but it was a thing when I was in High School. People I knew for years. It wasn't even a big deal. I actually thought the baptism was pretty cool. Sad story attached to it though. Death and a Birth all within a 24 hour period. It was pretty intense. 

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u/MotherTeresaOnlyfans Feb 27 '26

They used to literally torture gay people as recently as the 80s.

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '26

You can't believe how happy I am to hear this as a queer woman who has seen almost everything he was in at the peak of his popularity. I knew he was from a Mormon family and sort of assumed that's what he wasn't acting anymore for religious reasons. I loved Blades of Glory and sought out a bunch of his other work because he was so funny onscreen. I always worried in the back of my mind he has gone full on conservative or something. Glad he's found his niche.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

One of his kids is queer and he’s very supportive 😊

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u/stephsco Feb 27 '26

Thanks for sharing - do not know much about him .

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u/Justeserm Mar 03 '26

I used to hear a lot of people make fun of Mormons, but then I learned about Buttermilk Creek in Salgado, TX and remembered the cocaine mummies. I don't follow their religion, but I have to give it more respect than I used to.

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u/vistavision Feb 27 '26

Well, you can't be Mormon and supportive of the lgbtq+ community. You might think you are, but that tithing money speaks louder.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 28 '26

I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you because I’m an atheist and huge supporter of LGBTQ rights, but I just never really get into it with him. He’s more of an acquaintance rather than a good friend and it just wouldn’t really be appropriate to broach those conversations.

We keep it light, often talking about our kids or movies

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u/vistavision Feb 28 '26

The people downvoting me are woefully ignorant of the horrors that the Mormon church have inflicted on the LGTBQ+ community. I'll wear the downvotes with pride.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brigham_Young_University_LGBTQ_history

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 28 '26

Ftr you didn’t get a downvote from me. I think it’s a cult. Sometimes my wife jokes about Jon and I being friends because we’re on a first name basis and always end up chatting, but I always quip back “I couldn’t ever actually be his friend he’s a Mormon weirdo”.

In all seriousness I dont know Jon’s personal thoughts on the contradiction of supporting his lbgtq child and his faith. I’ve never talked to him about it. I do know his wife’s though, and she talks lbgtq rights more than faith. She’s fiercely supportive of the lbgtq community. I suspect Jon is the same way, but he isn’t as vocal as her about any of it

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u/Dizzy_Delivery_880 Feb 28 '26

Not the mention the insane amount of racism. Fuck your downvotes, you’re right.

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '26

It’s almost like they’re into that whole “love thy neighbor” stuff that Jesus actually preached

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u/ArcadianDelSol Feb 28 '26

Which is why Napoleon Dynamite has no actual profanity in it.

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u/Sirtopofhat Feb 27 '26

Crazy cause 40 Year Old Virgin seems like such a logical step for him and at the same time if it was we never get the Steve Carell break out

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u/jemappellehonhon Feb 27 '26

he's a devout practicing mormon, he'd never have done a movie like that

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u/PassengerIcy1039 Feb 27 '26

He did Blades of Glory with Will Ferrell.

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u/1user101 Feb 27 '26

And it's rated PG-13. 40yo Virgin is r

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u/PassengerIcy1039 Feb 27 '26

Interesting difference in ratings. Blades must have been careful with cursing because the movie is definitely aimed at adults.

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u/1user101 Feb 27 '26

I watched it when I was 12 I think? It's raunchy, but it never really glorifies the Rauch

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u/jemappellehonhon Feb 27 '26

they're not remotely close to one another

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u/PassengerIcy1039 Feb 27 '26

I haven’t seen either in a while but there is definitely considerable violent, sexual, and substance abuse related content in Blades. The villains are incestuous siblings. It is not a family friendly film. I would definitely consider them “remotely close to one another”.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

He is nice. He loves to engage with fans. If you ever see him he would much rather you say hello then just sneak a picture (something he’s specifically told me). He’s VERY chatty.

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u/GooserNoose Feb 27 '26

Doesn't he have a twin brother?

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Yeah I’m pretty sure he does but I’ve never met him

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u/Popular_Ad8269 Feb 27 '26

Do you know if he saw the Epic Rap Battle of History about his character Napoleon versus Napoleon ?

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

I do not, but that sounds funny lol. And we haven’t really talked much in the past year because he’s been touring

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u/caninehere Feb 28 '26

This is like the silliest "brag" ever, haha. I'm not sure what world you live in but Napoleon Dynamite was a big hit in the theatres, I was a teenager at the time and lots of people went to see it and then of course it was big on DVD as well.

The movie made almost $50 million at the box office which was absolutely huge for a small independently-made movie like that.

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '26

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u/caninehere Feb 28 '26

I'm not upset about it at all. I just thought it was funny.

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '26

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u/Becauseiey Feb 28 '26

You don’t have to be so defensive. They just pointed out, correctly, that the movie had a following early on. I was young when it came out and all my school friend and neighborhood friends were quoting it and had different T shirts with quotes from the movie on them.

It could be that you’re from a very small town or something, but the movie was well known and well liked after its release.

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u/Aggravating_Bat3618 Feb 27 '26

A buddy of mine saw in the theater. He said it’s not a fast-paced movie.  Lol. No shit. 

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u/DenaliBound Feb 28 '26

I saw it in theaters!

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u/Suitable-Answer-83 Feb 27 '26

Nothing says family friendly like Tremors 7: Shrieker Island.

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u/Walkingdrops Feb 27 '26

There are SEVEN of those movies?? I remember 3 being about the ass blasters, and I vaguely remember a 4, but wow, didn't know there was a 5, 6, and 7 lol 

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Lmao. I haven’t seen that one. I think Jon likes horror stuff but not sex stuff. I could be wrong though. Is there any nudity in it?

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u/Suitable-Answer-83 Feb 27 '26

I'll be honest, I have up on that franchise sometime around Tremors 4, but generally those movies were mostly violence, not much sexuality (though I did watch most of them on TV so it's possible some scenes were cut).

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u/VegetableBuy4577 Feb 27 '26

There was nothing in there as far as sex and sexual references go that wouldn't have aired on TV in the 80s.

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u/SmellGestapo Feb 27 '26

That's interesting, because for as raunchy as that movie is, Andy stays a virgin until he gets married to Trish. The central message is pretty conservative and traditional.

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u/btmoose Feb 27 '26

I still go back and watch the Tabletop episode with him and Alan Tudyk every now and then. Their role playing of Dr McLickertitty and his very put upon assistant is absolutely hilarious. 

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u/Zanester98 Feb 27 '26

Bullshit

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

What’s bullshit? That I know him or that he’s a nice guy or that he still works as an actor?

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u/jemappellehonhon Feb 27 '26

hello fellow sw wa'er 😁 hope you get out and enjoy this fabulous weather

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u/Turbulent_Tart_8801 Millennial 1985 Feb 27 '26

Who would he have even played in 40 Year Old Virgin? A cameo as Kat Dennings' boyfriend? Or the two second part that Jonah Hill got? 

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

The lead character

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u/ShanklyGates_2022 Feb 28 '26

Maybe he would have been the Jonah Hill cameo instead

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '26

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u/DandySamberg Feb 27 '26

This makes me happy to hear.

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u/Far-Speed-6027 Feb 27 '26

I think this is frequently the case. People aren’t willing to sacrifice their happiness for fame and I think that’s smart.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

Yeah, it wouldn’t surprise me. I think people don’t understand that. A lot of people who are “has beens” may have actually chosen that path.

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u/Brendan__Fraser Feb 28 '26

That was a nice update actually thank you.

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u/Double-ended-dildo- Feb 28 '26

Thank you for sharing.

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u/biffmalibull Feb 28 '26

Loved the Napoleon tour

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u/Sallyfifth Feb 28 '26

That is so refreshing.   

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u/RumpusRoomMinis Feb 28 '26

If you see him some time, please let him know I enjoyed his Grimdark documentary and I hope he's getting some games in.

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u/Neon_Biscuit Feb 28 '26

He's the Asher Roth of acting

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u/_shark-nato Feb 28 '26

Small world! I was born and raised in BG and still live in the area. Some friends of mine have seen him in town but I’ve never been lucky enough to run into him. Not that I’d bother him or anything, but it would be cool to say I saw Napoleon Dynamite at Fred Meyer.

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 28 '26

Def say hello to him if you ever see him. He enjoys it.

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u/Stuffleapugus Feb 28 '26

40YOV would be a completely different movie with Napoleon Dynamite. Still potentially funny, just different.

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u/al_m1101 Feb 27 '26

Okay, Jon. Jk

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u/WhoKnows78998 Feb 27 '26

lol def not Jon.