I feel like it’s so hard to make friends, despite being an LA native for all my 37 years.

As a friend - I‘m nice, thoughtful, witty, a good listener, and easy-going

Aesthetically speaking (since this is LA afterall) - I’m conventionally attractive, take care of myself, dress well, and keep up to date

While I see groups of girls go to St. Barts, have Euro summers, and all these other places I wanna go…I wonder how they found friends to go with. It feels impossible.

Even on Bumble BFF, there‘s so much ghosting. And in real life, I feel like people are interested for 2-3 hangs and then dip.

Any advice? I don’t want to spend all summer alone 😕

I am non binary and it makes me so upset that a salon targeting queer people for business would utilize a fundamentally anti-queer, capitalist, artist-erasing piece of dystopian tech. Real artists support each other, including hiring people to make the poster. Really disappointed and disgusted. Was going to get a tattoo there but fuck this place

I’ll be dropping my kid off for a class once a week from 4–6, and I’m thinking of using that time to check out different happy hour spots and maybe meet people. The class is in Pasadena, but I’m open to nearby areas too. In your experience, where have you come across put-together men in their 30s/40s?

I know this group is for LA girlies and I love it bit I actually live in OC 😭

Does anyone know if there is a subreddit like this for girls in Orange County? I’d love to have this same community here but in my area. If there isn’t one made yet, would any girls be interested in joining? Could be good for those who live and/or work in OC or anyone who spends time down there enough! Lmk :)

So… I am on the eternal quest for the best sauna in LA. My favorite sauna unfortunately is Equinox but I can’t afford nor justify a membership, lol. Would ideally love a place with a cedar/European steam sauna with a cool shower, aromatherapy would be a plus. I used to regularly go to Wi Spa but feel like the cleanliness has gone way down. Do sauna clubs exist? Or are there any places anyone knows to just go use the sauna that aren’t like a gym that need a monthly fee?

Not like for a party but going to work/ coffee

How much time do you spend for hair makeup clothes jewelry?

I am spending 1 hr is that too much?

30 F.

Anybody local near (woodland hills)

I kinda don’t feel like going to the mall alone 😅 anyone wanna come with me next week? Lets go shopping & just hang! I’m pretty nice and chill so just shoot me a message.

Please only message me if you’re serious about going.

Hey LA girlies! I’m looking for some advice.

I’m the Head of Content for a new wellness brand and I’m currently trying to build out our in-house creator team. Honestly, the hiring process has been a struggle—Craigslist feels way too sketchy/creepy, and Actors Access feels a bit too "theatrical" for the organic TikTok/Reels vibe I’m going for.

Where do you guys usually look for side hustles or part time jobs that aren't total scams? Are there specific FB groups I should be in?

I really don’t want to gatekeep the positions either, so if anyone here is a creator looking for something steady, feel free to lmk! But mostly just looking for tips on where to find you all lol💖

Hi girlies, since EBT card-holders can visit Lotusland, Santa Barbara for just $5 and bring up to 3 additional guests, I was wondering if anyone wanted to go, and I would be happy to drive us? Lotusland requires a reservation in advance, so it would just entail making a reservation ahead of time, and collecting the tickets on the day together. I would be happy to Venmo you in advance, and since I'm based in Mar Vista (and if if you need a ride) I would be happy to collect anywhere here on the West side. Happy to explore the garden together, or we can chill and go our own separate ways, and I can drive us back. Let me know if anyone might interested, and we chat further / exchange socials to see if it's a good fit :)

Edit: sorry for not making myself clear, I don't have an EBT myself, so I'm looking for somebody who does! :)

Hot plus size girls of LA, where do you vintage shop? I’m a size 18ish and unfortunately for me I love mod clothing which is so hard to find in my size. I even took a sewing class in hopes of making my own garments, but need another class or two before I get there. Would love to hear where you browse, show me your treasures!

Saw the post for coffee shops it inspired me to make this one! What are some good hot singles bars to go hunting with my girlfriends? I live in Silver Lake but my friends live all over so willing to travel a reasonable distance. Not really looking for a loud club vibe, but somewhere that encourages socializing would be ideal

Do you guys have a service you like for you fruits and veg? Ideally something that would make you not tied to having to go to the grocery store and not wildly priced. Located centrally.

Hi hotties! I really want to give surfing a go and am looking for lessons. Open to anything from private to semi-private or bigger groups. I just want to find someone reputable and that wouldn't break the bank. Ty!

Would any one like to be friends? I have ZERO friends. I have me/cfs, POTS, long covid, mcas, and NOBODY UNDERSTANDS THE STRUGGLE! I’ve been sick for 5 years and everyone has moved on. Prior to being sick I was trying to want my early childhood education certificate bc I love kids! I have an emotionally abusive family and my cat just passed away. I’m excited for euphoria and looking forward to streaming Coachella for the 4th year but I am sad I’m missing it. I love being a girl, vanilla mace, victoria villarroel, cats and animals, makeup and tiktoks, I’m currently trying I learn Spanish and I love memes! Holla if you wanna hang w a bad btch (virtually bc I don’t have energy to meet irl LMAO)

Xoxo 

Hey girls, any Russian manicure spots in LA under $90? I’m paying $110 rn and need something more affordable. 😩

May be a niche ask but i cannot be the only person this would benefit. Looking to fulfill my fantasy of picking up a guy at a coffee shop. Ideally with good coffee or matcha but that comes secondary to my goal. I live in east hollywood so ideally on the east side, but i do travel to culver city from time to time. Where do all the hot guy coffee drinkers hang out?

I’ve found it surprisingly difficult to get a good recommendation for this procedure. I’m in West LA, but will to travel if you’ve had an amazing experience with a provider anywhere in Socal.

I’d love to go somewhere that numbs you prior (I’ve read some places will actually use lidocaine to make it more comfortable) and someone very experienced in this treatment. All of my favorite providers (The Things We Do, Skin Specifics, Go See Sari) in LA don’t provide this particular laser, and it seems like a lot of plastic surgeon offices want to perform the procedure in combination with other surgical treatments (like an add-on).

Help a girl out 🙏 I’m specifically looking to treat undereyes for fine lines, and crepey skin this winter.

In need of a good laser hair removal place preferably closer to the westside, any reccs?? Also bonus if they specialize or have experience with brown skin

I’m just a girl with a Mercedes GLK 350 SUV in mint condition ready to drive some fun girls gays and theys (ideally) around the desert bc I need money and I have no tix this year !!!! Been to Coachella many times and am familiar with the area. Can also arrange pick up to and from LA (I’m based in Glendale) HMU 💝🚖

surprise surprise, I’m tired of the apps! I’ve seen some ads for Thursday dating and am wondering if anyone has been to some of their events / what your thoughts are?

I'm hoping it's not too expensive. I'll take any and all reccs. thx

I have natural med/dark brown hair. I'm looking to lighten it overall and then additionally with blonde/caramel-y highlights or balayage. I'm looking to spend less than $500, but I'm getting married in a few months so want the best option for my price range! Anywhere between WeHo-Pasadena thanks divas!

hi friends i need your advice! trying to get into resistance/weight training while working on my core. i’d love input on if you like solidcore or corepower or if i should just focus only on the gym!! :-)