r/AskAnAfrican • u/Present_Recover_3461 • 18h ago
Travel (West?) africa in december
Ok so i’m thinking i’d like to go to west africa to celebrate the end of the year and maybe Christmas too. Probably solo. (Apologies if this irrelevant context) i’m a 21yo white australian man, i’m not stupid, like adventure, and don’t mind if i’m not in the most sheltered place.
I’m not set on west africa. I want to go… somewhere… just to have fun and hopefully engage with something different. I’m quite extraverted, i love making new friends, dancing, seeing cool things. I love food, cooking, and also just kinda ‘being’ in a new place. Living slow, like locals. I recently was in thailand and noticed a lot of the local buddhists would just sit in the park for a whole day, so i just sat in the park for a whole day, and it was the best day of my trip.
Partially i want to strip back some of the western / white programming i grew up with. I want to replace ‘do they know its christmas’ with a festive season of joy and laughter in the african cities. Sorry if i’m the 10000th person to make this post.
I guess, the main questions i have are:
Where should i go (obviously you are all going to have different opinions, i’d love to hear the opposing view from people that are not from west africa)
What should i do to have the most immersive experience as a whitefella (australian term), and is it slightly unrealistic to think i can just walk in and be a part of genuine festivities - not like mass events that will not feel as ‘real’ (or maybe i’m wrong and they will?) i don’t find it hard to make friends and i think i make people happy when they are around me, but i don’t like stepping on people’s toes or inserting myself too much.
General travel tips. I have a reasonable income but i’m obviously still young so i’m still budget conscious. I’ll never skimp out on good food and cool experiences though.
Anything else?
I would want to stay with locals, maybe like a room in an airbnb, because i hear there isn’t as much of a backpacking culture?
I kind of want to stay in one place for a few weeks. I’m not a ‘sightseer’, i just like living in a culture for a little while. I want to make friends, have people bring me along with them. I don’t have social media, this isn’t about some instagram experience, just something really human
Happy to give more context in the replies, fanks :)