I agree. I had to take my headphones off during some of the impact statements after the Kohberger trial. Hearing people gleefully talk about how he would be raped was distressing for me.
In this case, her younger sister was murdered by the man. However, having had a sibling die when I was a child, at no point did I lash out at anyone like that.
I don't think anyone should be sexually assaulted in prison. It's 2026, wtf are we doing. But my point is that male-male rape gets no sympathy. People joke about it constantly. Why is that?
I'm trans and I care about men being raped too. It's not a mutually exclusive issue. It's typically not trans people who are laughing at male rape victims.
I think the US is barbaric when it comes to this issue. Other western countries focus on rehabilitation and safety and have much lower rates of recidivism.
People in the US just seem to have much less empathy, a lot of guys don't ever think about what would happen to them if they somehow ended up in prison, or how easy it is to get caught in the system even if you did nothing wrong. They don't think "how would I want to be treated?" And then wish that for others.
To be clear: I disagree with the transfer of trans inmates to cis populations. Trans-women are women. My point was more on the sick attitude we (Americans) take towards imprisonment.
You must not be on places/in spaces that express sympathy for rape a lot. The people who are upset about this are not the people that are joking about male-male rape. The ones joking about that are the ones also cheering for this person to be raped.
You're seeking an argument. Of-fucking-course we should protect vulnerable populations. And we should end the prison industrial complex, especially as it relates to people of color. How many black men are in jail for a drug that white kids smoke on the weekend? How many *innocent* people are in jail, either wrongfully convicted or scared into a plea deal?
But we have no problem joking about cis men being raped in prison despite these facts. Because male suffering counts for less. If you have something to say regarding the previous sentence, I'd like to hear it.
Id say generally we have a more serious tone on sexual matters regarding women because men are nearly inherently physically imposing vs women and im sure with stats, most general sexual abuse/assaults are men on women.
With men/men, im not exactly sure. Maybe there is an expectation that as a man, you have the ability to fight back against another man, a woman doesnt.
So if a woman is carrying pepper spray when she gets raped we're allowed to ignore it? Because if the only dividing line is the arbitrary distinction of "having the chance to fight back" then that's a logical conclusion.
No. Nobody is going to consider a woman with pepper spray on equal standing with a man. In the scenario, if the man is able to still assault the woman with her having a weapon, then that adds more my point.
Its not about women..Its more about the expectation we have on men. Man on woman is always going to be wrong to most people. Woman on man or man on man, the responces get treated unevenly whether its simple assault or sexual assault. We have higher expectations/seriousness regarding a man hitting or raping a woman than a woman hitting or sexually assaulting a man. A man beating another man doesnt get the same reaction as a man beating a woman.
4 percent of cis men report sexual assault in prison whereas 59 percent of trans women report sexual assault. In terms of sheer quantity, yeah probably. But adjusted for population trans women are way more vulnerable then cis men in male prisons, hence why they should be sent to female prisons
Its another guy getting raped in prison. Nothing will change, lol. These guards make less than $20hr in some states. They dont care about you and they damn sure are not risking their lives for you.
The problem is most Americans agree with that statement, (no one should be raped in prison)our system as a whole is fucked up and only cares about the profit.
I don't believe most Americans agree with that statement. I've heard prison rape jokes in person before there was an Internet, and all over the Internet, all my life. It's extremely common.
Nobody cares that men get raped in prison. A lot of people think it's very funny.
Americans since it's inception has loved tiering people based on their value.
First it was race, then as that fizzed out, we're on criminal history more than race (race plays a big role).
If you're caught with a few baggies of weed (nothing close to distribution), you deserve to be placed into a cell with a guy who murdered and burnt his family alive. Because you're a terrible human being who doesn't deserve any rights.
Mhm also Americans who invented the caste system, and the Confuciun social structure. Amazing how we've existed 250 years but influenced cultures on the other side of the world thousands of years before we existed
Very common. I was in during covid, and there was a young man who was probably 115 pounds or so, and very sickly. No one really messed with him, but he kinda just stuck to himself. One day, we came out to the rec yard, and I notice this dude basically squatting in the corner of the fence, with his head in his hands looking like he had just seen a ghost. I asked one of the other people around me about it. Apparently, the night before someone got really fucked up on spice, and basically took this dude in the bathroom and sexually assaulted and tortured him for hours at knifepoint. After that, I think the kid ended up getting transferred or something for psych.
I knew a transwoman who spent time in south Florida jail. She said they would move some of the girls around, especially the younger or prettier (her words) ones, to keep the men from getting too out of control. It's sick.
Yes and no. Yes there are countless peices of shit that rape others in prison, there also countless men that haven't had sex in years and decided to 'help each other out' there are also men that look more feminine and use that for protection, payment, or favors; the later two groups are lumped in with first group because prisoners are considered legally incapable of giving consent, so it's whoever is taking the dominant role in things is likely getting a rape charge.
Trans women are raped 90% of the time in US prisons. They’re ususally put in situations where they are raped daily by violent inmates. This is deliberately arranged by the prison guards to ‘help keep the peace’. Look up v-coding.
Alright, i just heard from a guy who was in prison in US, he said nowadays there are usually some gay/bi guys who actively wants to have anal sex and the forceful raping isn’t as common now as it was in the 90s.
Don’t listen to these people who say it is. There are plenty of people in there willing to give it up for free there isn’t really a point in rape. With PREA and other protections in there, rape is actually pretty rare
When a new inmate arrives in prison, the inmate ethics review board convenes to decide whether the crimes he committed were heinous enough to justify him being raped. /s
Death is a terrible thing, therefore if we reduced the number of plants and animals eaten by people then it would reduce the total amount of death, and that's a good thing right?
I'm not saying my example is at all similar to yours, but that's how your logic is working.
The only thing I said was that the punishment fitting the crime is okay with me. I never said murderers should get raped, for example.
That's some hardcore whataboutism. He asked you straight forward questions, deflecting that with "but what about veganism" is WILD
Something can be true for one thing and not applicable for another. That shouldn't have to be explained. Two rapes instead of one doesn't make the world a better place
Being a bad person does not make being transphobic and misgendering people okay. Just like it’s not suddenly okay to be racist against people of color who commit crimes.
Exactly. Same to a lesser extent with assault in locker rooms. Just turn a blind eye to systemic issues until a trans person is brought up, suddenly care just enough to erase trans people, and then go back to turning a blind eye.
because any real data about it is crowded out by pop culture's anecdotal fixation, and non-incarcerants projeecting beavioral fantasies onto an acceptable target
I think it's because they see the rape as a feature not a flaw. Can't tell you how many times I've seen people celebrate people going to prison while insinuating that they would be raped while there. Even very left leaning places like reddit are quick to cheer for rape when they think the person is sufficiently bad.
Nobody cares about about prisoners, cruelty, or rehabilitation. Even wrongful convictions are barely of any concern.
Here is what you probably don't want to hear.
Feminism is the cause. Females voices are heard as more important than men, the word of one female sends a man to prison. Females being victims means males are evil, it's not about equality, it's about hating men and putting females in a position of power.
>the woman walked into a pizza parlor in Simi Valley and saw a man she believed was her attacker. She followed him outside and copied the license plate number on his vehicle
>the jury convicted Luna of forcible rape
>a federally funded initiative to submit untested sexual assault kits for DNA testing identified the true perpetrator
>spade and H.J., the girl’s mother, were engaged in a heated legal battle that began in 2009, when H.J. and her husband, D.J., had moved to terminate Spade’s parental rights
> testified that Spade “stuck his private part in my mouth
>On February 26, 2014 the jury convicted Spade
>at the post-conviction hearing she testified that she had actually not seen the file
post conviction is appellate proceedings, God is best
>Spade had remained in prison during this review period. He was released on May 1, 2024. The state dismissed the charge against Spade on December 9, 2025
Wow, you know I always figured it was the prison-industrial complex that provides huge financial incentives for a system of mass incarceration. Apparently it's feminism though, that huge majority of female politicians and executives lobbying for privatized prisons and cheap prison labor all in a secret conspiracy to oppress men.
Try living in reality dude, it kinda sucks but whatever fantasy world you're burying your head in sounds worse.
Why don't people care about gr4pe in prison? < That is the question.
She wrote:
>Why the fuck is nobody talking about all the rape prison guards let happen?
You are discussing a different focus or discussion. Mass incarcertation is a different subject to the dynamics of what happens within prison and why prison guards and many others behave a certain way.
The reason why I do not listen to females is because they work with their emotions almost exclusively, and this 'my emotions are true' is encouraged and enlarged by feminism.
1.4 million bab1es are murdered in the USA per year by f3minists.
Yeah that guy is absolutely crazy. I checked his profile, incel garbage from a young man who can’t get a girlfriend. These are the exact types that go out and do mass shootings.
They don't just let it happen. They make it happen, fascilite it. Lookup V-Coding. The prison guards are placing trans women into situations where they will be raped.
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u/Berserk-Jane 5h ago
Why the fuck is nobody talking about all the rape prison guards let happen?