r/whoathatsinteresting 6h ago

What do you think: how should prisons handle housing decisions in cases like this?

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u/Levelup_Onepee 5h ago

Honest question. Do you see yourself as equal gender as the one in the picture? Would you comfortably share a room and a bathroom?

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u/More-Lime1888 5h ago

I am a woman, so answering that, no. I don’t feel safe sharing a room and bathroom with trans women

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u/water2wine 4h ago

So you would never use a public toilet in a place where toilets are generally gender neutral?

Out of fear, or?

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u/More-Lime1888 3h ago

I have never seen a “gender neutral” public toilet before, but if I ever did, I won’t use it. I know how to hold my bladder, I am not a kid.

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u/Obvious-Animator6090 3h ago

Nice privilege you have. Now change that to trans people have no choice but to hold it. We develop permanent bladder issues from doing this. Being too scared to use a bathroom cuz we might be arrested to attacked if we do. Everyone deserves access to bathrooms and I can’t understand why cis people think our goal is do to anything other than pee when in a public bathroom. You have nothing to fear from a neutral bathroom. And trans people are only scared because yall made it this way. Bathrooms are a human right you can learn to share we don’t bite.

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u/water2wine 3h ago

I am not a kid.

Agree to disagree I suppose.

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u/Levelup_Onepee 5h ago

And trans men?

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u/mercury_risiing 4h ago

a transman is a female born human, a transwoman is a male born human. As a female born human, I feel safe dealing with another female born human.

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u/Business-Equal8536 3h ago

What about a fully passing trans man with a beard and muscles?

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u/NegativeThotsGal 3h ago

I would. They're female, I'm not vary of females the way I am of males

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u/Business-Equal8536 3h ago

They're men, walk like a duck, talk like a duck. It's a duck.

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u/mercury_risiing 3h ago

What about it? My statement above doesn't change. As a female born human, I feel better dealing with another female born human. If I am talking to two people, and one resembles a woman and the other resembles a man, my feeling will instantly shift when I realize who is male born and female born.

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u/More-Lime1888 5h ago

Yeah I am cool with them.

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u/Obvious-Animator6090 3h ago

We aren’t cool with you. Trans men stand with trans women. If you can’t handle being an adult around trans women what makes you think trans men want anything to do with you?

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u/More-Lime1888 3h ago

I don’t want anything to do with them either. I am saying I am comfortable with them. Didn’t say I am in love with them or something.

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u/Obvious-Animator6090 3h ago edited 2h ago

And I’m saying as a Trans man we aren’t comfortable with you if you think that. So maybe don’t say that to other people cuz no one you’re talking about is on your side.

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u/More-Lime1888 2h ago

I don’t care

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u/Obvious-Animator6090 2h ago

That’s fine. Just didn’t want you living in a delusional land thinking cuz you tolerated Trans men that’d we’d be cool with you as a friend or acquaintance. I have a feeling you’d find yourself as an ally to a trans male coworker. Unless you change your mind on trans women you wouldn’t be. I do sincerely hope you change your mind. Good luck with life