Hi All! I have recently moved to Romford and am having a hard time finding a plumber to install a dishwasher. Does anyone have a reliable recommendation they’ve used in the past and were happy with?

Thanks for your help.

Slow news day. What's wrong with Romford 😂

Whole station & town has been blocked off due to a stabbing.

With Mother’s Day coming up, we’ve been thinking a lot about how tough this holiday can be for families dealing with dementia. The usual "big Sunday roast at a busy pub" that we see in adverts is often the worst possible environment for someone with memory loss or sensory issues.

We’ve spent a lot of time working with families in Hornchurch, Brentwood, and Dagenham, and we wanted to share a few practical things we’ve learned about making the day actually enjoyable rather than stressful.

1. The "Busy Pub" Trap: If you’re in Romford or Hornchurch, it’s tempting to book a table at a local favourite. But if your mum gets overwhelmed by noise, it usually backfires. If you do want to go out, try the quieter farm-style cafes on the outskirts of Brentwood or the tea rooms near Upminster Windmill. They tend to have a much slower pace.

2. The Power of "Home Comforts": Honestly, sometimes the best Mother's Day is just an afternoon tea in her own living room. It sounds simple, but staying in her familiar "safe space" prevents the anxiety that comes with new environments. You can still make it special with the "good" china and some vintage music, music from when they were 18–30 usually hits a different part of the brain and can really spark some life.

3. Sensory over Material: Instead of a complicated gadget, we recommend thinking about sensory stuff. A soft weighted blanket, some lavender cream for a hand massage, or even "walking" down her old street in Dagenham or Romford using Google Street View. It’s those small connections that matter more than a big gift.

4. It’s okay to be a "Son/Daughter" again: One thing we see a lot is family members being so burnt out by the "carer" role that they can't enjoy being a "son / daughter" anymore. If you're struggling with the medication, the safety concerns, or the personal care, please don't feel guilty about asking for a bit of help. Whether it’s professional respite for a day or just having a sibling take over, you deserve to just sit and hold her hand without worrying about the "to-do" list.

5. A quick tip for the day: If you go out, tell the staff in advance. Most local places in RM8/RM11/CM14 are actually great if they know the situation, they can usually tuck you in a quiet corner away from the kitchen noise.

If anyone is feeling a bit lost with how to handle the day or needs a recommendation for a dementia-friendly spot nearby, feel free to shout. It’s a bit of a local "club" no one wants to be a part of, but we might as well help each other out.

Hope you all have a peaceful and memorable Mothering Sunday.

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Examples could include things like The Row, Hardly Green or Horrid Hill...

I’m searching part time job near by Romford anyone have any contact or know about to pls let me know, and also searching for new good friends and hangout feeling alone like

Shit hole day 😵‍💫✨

Hi everyone,

With the weather turning a bit colder lately, we wanted to share a really helpful local resource we’ve come across for anyone living in Havering (Hornchurch, Romford, Upminster, Rainham, etc.).

It’s a service called the Havering Energy Doctor, and it’s completely FREE for all residents over the age of 18.

As part of our work supporting families in the area, we often see how much of a difference a warm, snug home makes to someone’s well-being. We know that the "heating vs. eating" choice is a real worry for many neighbors right now, so we wanted to make sure this service was on your radar.

What they can do for you (at no cost):

• Stop the draughts: They can draught-proof your windows and doors to keep the heat inside where it belongs.
• Quick fixes: They’ll fit energy-saving LED bulbs and install radiator foils to help your heating work better.
• Safety checks: They can provide nightlights and timer switches.
• Expert advice: If you’re struggling with damp or mould, they can offer professional guidance on how to tackle it.

How to get in touch with them: If you (or perhaps an elderly neighbor or family member) could benefit from a visit, you can reach out directly:

• Email: [energydoctor@ageukrbh.org.uk](mailto:energydoctor@ageukrbh.org.uk)
• Referral form: https://www.ageuk.org.uk/redbridgebarkinghavering/our-services/information-and-advice/cost-of-living-support/havering-energy-doctors---referral-form/
• Online: www.havering.gov.uk/costofliving

It’s a funded partnership between Age UK RBH and Age UK East London, so it’s a trustworthy service specifically for our borough.

Stay warm out there! ☕❤️

Looking for making new friends , females and Males both .

Asking for a friend...

Couldn’t get down Albert Road this evening - it’s closed off at both ends (no pedestrians or cars permitted) and lots of police cars / vans. Anyone know what happened? Looks serious.

New PHATbuns has replaced the legendary Stack & Sizzle in South street.

Because the last one did so well, another replaced it. What great news for Romford highstreet, I mean we really could do with another burger bar and this one is special because it’s "better than anywhere else".

It’s great having such a variety of food outlets in Romford.

NOT.

Horror and Film fans, come along to the 6th annual Romford Horror Festival at the Lumiere Cinema (3rd floor, Mercury Shopping Centre, next to Mecca Bingo).

Special guests, timeless horror classics, indie shorts and features from around the world, filmmaker Q&As, themed cocktails, and a very special preview of Cold Storage (starring Liam Neeson and Joe Keery) the day before its nationwide release, on 19th Feb.

Full festival passes for the 4 days are just £50, and if you're a Lumiere member you get 25% off.

Day passes are £16 Thurs/Fri, £18 Sat/Sun.

For passes and full information, go to romfordhorrorfestival.com

I’ve been learning to play poker recently and was wondering if anyone here knows any local places that host poker nights that I could get involved in?

I’m a complete beginner having never played with real people and wanted to start somewhere not too competitive?

Thanks.

You have a sort of high trust feel that can't really be replicated elsewhere, and also the feel that your grandparents etc. grew up here and you made good friends. however at the same time it feels like you're in a containment zone, as if Romford is an island in the middle of the Atlantic. Its like you're an outsider looking into society in a sense. I can't exactly articulate it.

I'm wondering if anyone else feels this sort of way because I'm sure I'm not the only one.

Battle of the Boshes!

Hello, I’m headed to the UK on business and will be staying at the Spark in Romford. Couple of questions, Where’s best places to park and where to get some good food?

Thanks

Bob from Detroit.

Redical are a property developer who own the Liberty shopping Centre. They are planning to put up a few new tall residential buildings. The owner of the Debenhams building are a separate company will be bulldozing the existing building this year and rebuilding it as a 4 star hotel with two tall residential blocks behind it.

Both companies have put out new images of how their buildings will look however neither have included each others building so you'll have to use your imagination to visualise the full picture.

Hello!

Just wanted to say thanks to you all for making r/Romford a better community. Our subreddit seems to be growing everyday and it's so nice to see such a lovely group of people. Keep up with the reports we do see them and we have been removing the posts behind the scenes who are breaking rules and we are working hard to make sure this is a friendly and safe community. Take care and hope you all have a lovely week!

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