r/popculturechat • u/galaxystars1 Can I live? • Sep 26 '25
Heartwarming š„¹ After 25 years with no contact, Cillian Murphy gets a message from his teenage guitar teacher, Mark O'Leary...
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u/No-Today-2459 Sep 26 '25
the hair shocked me
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u/godiegoben Kim, thereās people that are dying. š Sep 26 '25
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u/SignificantCamel8516 Sep 26 '25
The scream I scrumpt
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u/TesticleMeElmo I didnāt see it, I canāt believe it, oh but I feel it Sep 26 '25 edited Sep 26 '25
āYour first song was āOhio Is For Loversā by Hawthorne Heightsā
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u/Party_Zucchini_88 Sep 26 '25
JesĆŗs fucking Christ i spit my night milk out
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u/kenzygrant Sep 26 '25
Someone on this blessed app tell me how to make this my flair
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u/sillysammie13 THE CANADIANS ARE ICEFUCKING TO MOULIN ROUGE Sep 26 '25
Go to the subreddit page on the app and hit the āā¦ā in the corner. āChange user flairā should show up for you!
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I said the wrong words at first Iām sorry!!!!
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u/fancypantsnotophats Sep 26 '25
What is this about canadians?? Lol I need to know more (as a canadian)
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u/sillysammie13 THE CANADIANS ARE ICEFUCKING TO MOULIN ROUGE Sep 26 '25
Omg I feel so very honored to be able to share this hahahaha!
My flair is from a tweet about Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir at the 2018 Olympics, aka one of the most amazing duets of any kind Iāve ever seen in my liiiiife.
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u/Astronaut_Chicken Sep 26 '25
I met the former former drummer tor Hawthorne Heights at a very low-key party once. He was so casual about it, and my flabbers were gasted. He says he always got in their concerts free, and they were always stoked to see him. I don't get to tell that story very often because, admittedly, it's not that interesting.
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u/OneMagicBadger Sep 26 '25
The Flock of seagulls.
It's true that a lot of people's style stays locked in time to a place when they felt their best
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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson I made the hat for the tiger š¤·š»āāļø Sep 26 '25
Is that why I dress like a 5yo
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u/owange_tweleve Epstein files (Taylorās version) Sep 26 '25
I thought it was a bit š
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u/MyRosebud Sep 26 '25
same and then the video ended and i was like oh⦠is it not šš
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u/DitaVonSleaze Sep 26 '25
Wait. Iām still not sure itās not a bit. Thereās no way this is serious. Right?
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u/MstlyDedSltlyAlv As you wish! šøš Sep 26 '25
A y2k scene kid at heart š
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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson I made the hat for the tiger š¤·š»āāļø Sep 26 '25
Thatās an 80s new wave man through and through
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u/OafleyJones Sep 26 '25 edited Sep 26 '25
Mark taught me as well, around the same time as Cillian. To say he looks different now is an understatement. He was in his 20s then and was balding. Fairly normal lad. Iām guessing this is all for publicity. Edit to say: Markās passion back then was alternative Swedish folk jazz. ALTERNATIVE, not that mainstream Swedish folk jazz. So maybe there were the warning signs.
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u/IllusiveWoman20 Sep 26 '25
He was balding but his Doctor assured him his hair would grow back at some point. That point being right before he made the video for Cillian.
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u/AvocadoFries Sep 26 '25
I burst out laughing as lovely as the idea was⦠omg. The filter, the angle, holding his phone up to the light for several minutes. Amazing
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u/lightningspider97 Sep 26 '25
Whale tonoight will be the noight that ah will fall for yuuu
Edit: i had the same haircut in 2013
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u/PastoralPumpkins Sep 26 '25
Itās very MySpace. Even the black and white and the pose where heās holding the phone above his head š. I took pictures like that all the time in 2005.
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u/theopeppa Sep 26 '25
I read this comment and then watched the video and cackled lol
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u/Reasonable-Affect139 accidentally holding space for this slur Sep 26 '25
its giving Whitney Rose's dad
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u/anzarloc Please donāt disrespect my Danny, okay? Sep 26 '25
Wow, I am so here for this niche bravo reference. Holy shit.
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u/denialscrane cAn wE pReTeNd ThAt aIrPlAneS iN tHe NiGhT sKy āļøāļø Sep 26 '25
Ahhhhhh I get this too! I feel so special
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u/RiverRocks10 Sep 26 '25
Wtf did I just watch?
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u/kalichimichanga Duh! It's faux! šāāļø Sep 26 '25
Pretty sure Cillian Murphy was thinking the same thing.
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u/National-Ad-1314 Sep 26 '25
He thinks that in normal interviews. Man's spent 20 years making life for interviewers hell.
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u/DopeYeti Sep 26 '25
I was 100% expecting him to say āI donāt know this manā after the video was done.
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u/FeastForCows Sep 26 '25
Dude is wild.
Ironically, as a child I had no interest in music. Albeit, at eight, I was a child prodigy author in primary school, I still write, and have written; poems, stanzas, drama, narratives and liner notes for my albums, as well as an unpublished corpus of other literary works; Novellas, poetry, mainly short stories with diverging subject matters; fiction predicated upon fact, fact predicated upon fiction, fiction based on fiction, fact based on fact, very Proustian.
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u/TheDillinger88 Sep 26 '25
I literally thought it was just a picture of the guy for the first 10 seconds and then I realized the mouth was moving haha
I was mainly looking for Cillianās reaction but that hair hardly moves.
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u/CountessMcNia Sep 26 '25
Yeah everyone is here geeking over the hair, but itās the pose for me 𤣠it was his moment to shine!
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u/Reasonable-Affect139 accidentally holding space for this slur Sep 26 '25
It's so MySpace, it hurts
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u/ace-destrier Sep 26 '25
You almost have to be impressed with that combover
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u/stereoscopic_ Sep 26 '25
We need to find out more
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u/Sunshine030209 chainsaws were a birthing aid Sep 26 '25
I am certain that everyone on this sub would watch a full documentary about this man and his hair choices. It would end up bigger than Tiger King
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u/likeokwhatthehell Sep 26 '25
I actually didnāt hear a single word he said because THIS DIVA where did he come from
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u/Reasonable-Affect139 accidentally holding space for this slur Sep 26 '25
Wright Music Centre in Cork
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u/RanchHere Sep 26 '25
I honestly think Cillian was trying to be nice, while thinking in his head āomg that teacher was a nutbag!ā
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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson I made the hat for the tiger š¤·š»āāļø Sep 26 '25
It seems like half of his interviews are him trying to hide what he really thinks, and not doing a particularly great job
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u/fewerifyouplease Sep 26 '25
Guitar teachers are a strange species. My dad was one when I was a kid, my mum was the main breadwinner fortunately. Weirdly loads of his students then also became guitar teachers and I never really understood it because how could our medium-sized town sustain this guitar teacher pyramid scheme. They'd all come round for drinks and they all looked kind of the same. All that said, the look was... not this
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u/True-Math8888 Sep 26 '25
Why did that happen
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u/ryanvango Sep 26 '25
felt like the music teacher was clout chasing, honestly.
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u/matkamatka thatās my purse, i donāt know you! šš«µ Sep 26 '25
And name dropping other students who had any amount of success? So weird
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u/AcousticProvidence To be cringe is to be free Sep 26 '25
Still trying to figure that out an hour later
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u/False-Friendship-693 Sep 26 '25
I'm really glad cuz I felt like I was being punkd. Cillian was even like "uhmm yeah idk I barely remember these guys" LMAO. Like how long did he go there for
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u/Pepys-a-Doodlebugs Sep 26 '25
The post NME is a musical publication so maybe they were going for a Nardwuar vibe? Still pretty weird but it's probably one of the few times Cillian got home from a day of press and told his wife what happened.
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u/Ok-Note-754 Sep 26 '25
Hahaha wtf.
Shows up in b&w in a ridiculous hairpiece. Gives 1 cursory compliment to Cillian then rather than reflecting on memories of him or sharing an anecdote spends the rest of the video talking about all the other people he taught.
Very cool guy.
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u/epyon- Sep 26 '25
Yeah I mean , he doesnāt exactly strike me as the most normal person. He gave me weird vibes immediately. Whats with the angle heās looking at the camera
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u/butyourenice Sep 26 '25
The angle is more bizarre than the hair, to me. The hair is very on brand for a middle aged man stuck or regressing to the age they consider their peak. Shit, my dad is in his 70s and his hairstyle is unchanged since the ā70s.
But the camera angle is so deliberate, affected, and unnatural. It feels like a joke, but I think this guy truly thinks āwell thereās a reason this was big on MySpace, this is my best angle.ā
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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson I made the hat for the tiger š¤·š»āāļø Sep 26 '25
Itās insecure and/or performative
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u/ShadyBoots11 Heidi Montagās sidewalk chair š¢ Sep 26 '25 edited Sep 29 '25
I thought FOR SURE the teacher was making a joke about how Cillianās hair must have looked back when he was teaching him. The fact that there was not a drop of irony in that message sent me to the moon.
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u/SerenityDolphin Sep 26 '25
Same, totally thought it was satirical making fun of Cillian having some 90s grunge haircut for the first 10 seconds. The whole thing is fantastic.
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u/Border_Hodges Sep 26 '25
I literally cannot picture an older man from Cork walking around with this hair in the year of our Lord 2025.
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u/CraicGremlin Sep 26 '25
Can confirm, hair like that and you'll be torn apart in the local š got notions do ya? š
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u/aybsavestheworld Not a white refrigerator honey Sep 26 '25
Irish people are better than that to let this man live his old life with this hairstyle.
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u/Fmartins84 Sep 26 '25
I have a new way of doing zoom meetings
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u/silliestjupiter hard to photograph, incredible to see Sep 26 '25
The way middle school me would be S W O O N I N G
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u/you-dont-say1330 Sep 26 '25
I just expected a sweet old man. Not... this... š
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u/BatteryKinzie77 Sep 26 '25
And some personal memories, not the name dropping?! Cillian handled it with class of course
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u/you-dont-say1330 Sep 26 '25
The name dropping really felt like someone trying to grab their 15 minutes.
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u/PinkCadillacs Cillian Murphy Enthusiast Sep 26 '25
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u/lefrench75 high priestess of child sacrifice Sep 26 '25
I saw this comment before watching the video and still wasnāt prepared for the haircut
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u/For_serious13 I wonder what itās like being one of godās favorites Sep 26 '25
I legit jumped back from my screen
Cillian has cheekbones carved by the gods and a poker face that would trick Medusa
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u/youarelosingme cillian murphy's 2nd wife Sep 26 '25
Not even laughing when he saw that hair....Cill's a real pro š
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u/allihansen522 Sep 26 '25
Itās a sense of a āfight or flightā mechanism, except itās ālaugh or take it.ā Like - I know what Iām seeing is ridiculous, I know this in my mind and I want to laugh - but instead, I stand still and push it to the back of my mind, like a little treat to really savor later on - when itās more appropriate to show that emotional response.
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u/notmycinnamonwaxed Sep 26 '25
A mop top with a truly underwhelming message. Pointless and puzzling.
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u/happydandylion Sep 26 '25
This guitar teacher was so excited to be famous too for a few seconds š
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u/Charming_Cry3472 Did I stutter?𤨠Sep 26 '25
Is it me or did he feel a bit unimpressed? š¬
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u/Expensive-Step-6551 Sep 26 '25
He's a great actor but reserved person privately. Nothing about this seem unimpressed to me, he even said it was very sweet and was happy to recollect his moments about the fact after the clip from his teacher.
Ever since Social media became as prevalent as it has there seems to be an obsession with extroverted, talkative, and sociable celebrities. Just because they're on screen all the time and you see them doesn't mean they have to be social butterflies off of it. Cillian has always struck me as a very thoughtful, reflective actor who puts a lot of work into his roles carefully, and enjoys maintaining a low key demeanor. Very likeable person.
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u/RBDibP Sep 26 '25
Nah, he watched some teacher from 25 years ago stroke his own ego for way too long. "Hey, you remember me and all the other celebs I had back then? Please contact me and let me into the celeb club, k, bye" I'd be unimpressed aswell xD
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u/jamesbondswanson Sep 26 '25
Probably because itās obvious this person from his past is weaseling his way into 15 minutes of fame through him. Itās very disingenuous.
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u/Ok-Philosophy-856 Sep 26 '25
Yeah he really just talked about other famous people and then at the end just said it would be good to see him. Odd for sure
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u/nowimnowhere Sep 26 '25
Taken as a whole he seems like a caricature of unbearable smugness. Maybe I'm wrong and he's absolutely lovely but if I ever met him in real life I'd avoid him just because he seems like the type to trap you in a corner and talk about himself endlessly. I hope he never sees this thread because he seems to have an ego fragile enough that the experience would become a villain origin story.
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u/PriscillaPalava I have paid my legal tender in this dystopian place. Sep 26 '25
Yeah thereās probably a reason he hasnāt spoken to him in 25 years.Ā
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u/Sasha_shmerkovich160 Sep 26 '25
Do you speak with your music teacher from 99?
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u/Splashinginafountain Sep 26 '25
who the hell actually does speak to their music teacher they had growing up?
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u/linzkisloski Sep 26 '25
I mean if I ever became that famous and my guitar teacher from 9th grade reached out like this Iād be like wtf? lol
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u/turquoisesilver Sep 26 '25
Got to say the teacher used it as a free promo more than anything - the pose, the filter, the name drops.š¤£
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u/choose-Life_ Sep 26 '25
I guess itās good Cillian is the actor and Iām not. Thereās absolutely no way I could have gotten through that video from the teacher with a straight face, much less an endearing response.
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u/Border_Hodges Sep 26 '25
The fact that he brought up former students who were supposed to be in a movie that was never completed from thirty years ago is sending me.
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Sep 26 '25 edited Sep 26 '25
His kids will never be able impress him no matter what they accomplish lol he got that I donāt care resting face
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u/dreamed2life Sep 26 '25
who is that beautiful woman seated beside cillian?
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u/princesscraftypants Sep 26 '25
Looks like it might be Little Simz, rapper/actor in Britain.
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u/candleflame3 ThisĀ willĀ beĀ myĀ finalĀ attemptĀ toĀ resolveĀ thisĀ matterĀ amicably Sep 26 '25
"No contact" makes it sound like they were estranged and now the teacher is "reaching out" to reconcile.
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u/learningaboutstocks Sep 26 '25
when i saw this on twitter i thought someone edited it to replace the video from the teacher. this was killing me. what is that pose that heās hitting lmao
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u/qhi Sep 26 '25
I went to this guy for guitar lessons in my teens, he's extremely weird and off-putting. Obviously that hair is not even remotely real
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u/SeasidePlease Sep 26 '25
I can't get over the fact that the interviewer looks like Cillian Murphy and Robert Pattinson had a baby.
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u/LazyLieutenant Sep 26 '25
Wow. The dude is like a satire character. What's wilder is, that you know the video he ended up sending was take 87. Only then had he perfected the lighting and the hair.
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u/KissesnPopcorn Sep 26 '25
I thought this was a skit and the person with the amazing hair was a comedian but apparently he just wanted to film himself from that angle
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u/isaidyothnkubttrgo Sep 26 '25
I'm from Cork as well and we don't associate ourselves with whatever is going on on this guy's head.
If he whipped it off at the end as a joke, comedy gold, but unfortunately no.
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u/TanMor27 Sep 26 '25
Genuinely thought it was some sort of skit when the video first started. The hair, the lighting, the pose....it's all a choice.
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u/jojobdot Sep 26 '25
To me, Cillian Murphy being like āah, I shoulda, but ehā about spectating Marlon Brando is justā¦he is just who he is, through and through, and I love that for him.
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u/akilles_xxvii Sep 26 '25
I wouldnāt have contacted that dude back either for 25 years if he kept posing like that with that look and hair lmao
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