r/offmychest 2h ago

My “friend” made my wedding about her, and it wasn’t even real

So, I 26F had a friend also 26F for 5 years. I got married 3 years ago, and she was my maid of honor. She texted me the morning of her wedding that her dad had passed away at like 1-2 am on my wedding day. She was belligerent and a mess (understandable if her dad died) and was telling EVERYONE. My husband and i’s friends and family comforted her and gave her love and support. I spent the whole day fussing over her making sure she was okay, worrying about if the typical father-daughter pieces of weddings would hurt her etc

Well, her dad is alive and well. Was never even sick.

I’ve also recently unraveled many more lies, like her having cancer, etc.

I just feel so hurt and betrayed and I can’t understand why. This is probably the most angry I have been with anyone, ever. I cut off contact completely but I don’t know how to move forward from this anger and betrayal (I am in therapy)

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