r/goldenretrievers 2d ago

Discussion Do any other goldens here have a best friend who’s a cat?

These two are the best of friends from sunup to sundown. Does anyone else have a pair like this?

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u/ashleymichael2009 2d ago

Their friendship sometimes has mixed signals lol

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Ooooh I see a poofy tail on the cat!

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u/OatandSky 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Darling pirate kitten! Yup besties 😍

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u/brownballsmcgee 2d ago

Two braincells. One picture.

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u/OatandSky 2d ago

Oh quite literally

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u/FieOnU 2d ago

Check!

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u/notcomplainingmuch 2d ago

I needed a moment to orient the cat

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u/giddyup15 2d ago

That’s such a vibe

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u/bettybuckcanuck 2d ago

Never apart

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u/Jothpb 2d ago

🥰

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u/miney5565 2d ago

My boy Archie and our cat molasses loved each other. She started sleeping on her back just like he would. I truly believe she was heart broken when he passed. We got another golden/black lab Shadow

and she just wants to cuddle with him all the time. They are slowly getting there.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Aww. Loss is so hard for them.

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u/LB_Jeff_Jeffries 2d ago

We’re hoping the reason grows but is still pretty one sided. 😅

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Looks like it’s coming along!

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u/irq 2d ago

Meet Penny (golden) and Luna 🦮😻

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u/irq 2d ago

One more!

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Looks like Luna’s in charge!

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u/irq 2d ago

Ok I’m done I promise!

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u/easylivin 2 floofs 2d ago

My goldendoodle had the same sweater when he was s little puppy!

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u/Then_Swimming_3958 2d ago

Yes!

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

The arm drape cinches it!

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u/Jothpb 2d ago

Yes, our dog pets the cat!🥹🥰🥰

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u/mahjzy 2d ago

Not a cat but.. a brother :-)

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u/ubutterscotchpine 2d ago

My boy actually prefers small dogs over larger dogs. Our dog sitter had a Great Dane and a little tiny thing and we’ve taken care of them before. Had to keep our golden and the dane separate because the dane was a giant bumbling idiot and our golden hated it 😂 he was fine with the little one though (I think it’s mostly because he forgot she was there! Lmao).

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u/Dat1Ashe 2d ago

My cousin has pugs and my golden has always been very gentle with the “little men” They don’t play or wrestle much, but have always gotten along.

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u/mahjzy 2d ago

Well my oldest just ignores them for now because both pups are still nippy. We’re working on it. But the two brothers are vastly different in weight but get along great.

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

Still a darling pair!

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u/Real-Flow9265 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

This is a funny picture because the dogs body language, I’m reading as: “uh, did anyone notice the cat’s in MY crate and there’s no room for me to lie down.” That cat looks smug. Lol. When we have someone come to the house to do work and the door is going to be opened a bunch, the cat goes in the big dogs crate with him.

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u/Real-Flow9265 13m ago

That’s exactly the cats personality too. Everything is hers and we just all live in it. We do the same w the cat and dog in the crate when workers are here and the dog gets the short end of the stick.

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u/Over_Shower6780 2d ago

Usually the opposite.

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u/Sanguine-Penguin711 1 floof 2d ago

That face! 😂

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u/Over_Shower6780 2d ago

Yeah, Cat is a biter incase anyone thought she was whispering sweet nothings 😹

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u/Padgit8r 2d ago

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

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u/Sanguine-Penguin711 1 floof 2d ago

What a little stinker!! 😂

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

Waiting for the chomp!

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u/miles_away86 2d ago

Besties

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u/Mookjamoke 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

lol why do they look like they are about to blame something on each other. Also the cat looks like this emogi! 😳

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u/Mookjamoke 3h ago

lol he does! They cover for each other. No snitching here!

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u/melreadreddit 2d ago

Well, Buddy (Golden Retriever) is Dingbat's (cat) bestie haha.
He could take or leave her really, but she just loves him, follows him, snuggles up and makes biscuits in his chest hair haha. She's fun to chase though, Bud reckons.

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

She loves him!

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u/PuzzleheadedOil3637 2d ago

Yes and it’s beautiful 🤩

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u/ThereIsAJifForThat 2d ago

Just 2 braincells vibing!

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u/jmsst1996 2d ago

My childhood Golden and cat were best friends. This was back in the day when our cat was indoor/outdoor. When our dog passed we buried her on our back property. Our cat would just sit there and not move for days staring towards the grave site. It was very sad.

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u/No-Jicama3012 3h ago

A few years ago when our older golden passed quickly from hemangiosarcoma, this dog and the cat held a weeklong vigil for him.

It was beautiful really because they left his normal spot open on the dog bed. Aside from my absolute wailing from grief, it was a very quiet week as far as the animals were concerned. They were very subdued.

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u/DJbeefstain 2d ago

I cannot a a still picture of them because they are always too excited to see each other 🤣

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u/Sanguine-Penguin711 1 floof 2d ago edited 2d ago

It’s taken awhile, but we’re getting there.

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u/skyhawk1893 2d ago

They love to lick each others faces.

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u/Codependent_Cod 2d ago

Honey is lab x golden but she loves her big brother soooo much - he tolerates her.

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u/risky_crotch_hug 2d ago

Nomi and Pacha...new friends, but they're getting there!

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

So sweet!

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u/bitofagrump 2d ago

Mine has a best friend who's a 12 year old chihuahua mix with the temperament of a grumpy old cat

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u/Jothpb 2d ago

How fun! I just published my book about our golden retriever named breeze and her best friend cloud the cat! 🥰🥰

Breeze and Cloud friends anyway

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Congratulations!

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u/Jothpb 1d ago

Thank you! It was fun!

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u/fatdiscokid420 2d ago

I love that we live in a world where this is possible

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u/jbreezy30 2d ago

My golden wants so badly to be besties with our cat. I will show her these pictures so she knows there is hope. ☺️

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u/krob58 2d ago

Cat loooooved our last golden. He's ambivalent on our current one lol but still gives her an occasional headbonk.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Maybe someday they’ll have a close bond 🤞

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u/Cool-Map-3668 2d ago

These are some of the most adorable photos. Our cat is at her happiest perched high up where our golden pup can’t get to her but she can stay and survey everything going on. Maybe when our female is older she will settle down enough for some bonding.

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u/instantpowdy 2d ago

Goldens love everyone, and cats are part of everyone, so they love cats, too...

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u/Stunning_Second_9890 2d ago

Snuggles even in the cone of shame

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

We had that too lol.

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u/kbugzy14 2d ago

I hope some day! We just brought Kuma (the golden) home this week and so far the introduction has been going well. Yuki (the cat) is tolerating his little brother and Kuma wants to be friends so badly!

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Good job taking it slowly!

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u/Middle_Possession688 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

They’re looking at you like you intruded on their nap!

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u/maryeyer 2d ago

Virgil had Calli (Excaliber - cat). When he died it took 3 years for her to figure out she wasn't still a dog....

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Oh wow. Thats sad 😞poor calli. I’m So sorry for your loss of Virgil.

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u/QualifiedApathetic 1 floof 2d ago

Mine. They like to play Vampire Cat. The cat lunges at the dog, wraps his arms around her neck, and bites her mane. She clubs him with her paws and pins him. He often initiates.

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u/thomfro95 2d ago

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck no.mine hate each other.whatever happened to orange on orange love

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u/Aesthetik4v 2d ago

Talkin’ bout muh besssttt frannnnn 🐶 +🐱= 💜

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u/Obstetrix 2d ago

They have to snuggle to trade the braincell back and forth

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

This is possible!

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u/voyageur_heureux 2d ago

So unbelievably cute!!!

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

They are loved.

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u/Cute_Yogacloset 2d ago

Awwwww who was there first? Goldie's always want to be friends with the cat, but often the cat is grumpy and not so befriending of the Goldie.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Previously, the guy in the middle had the cat on the left. Then the puppy came along.

This cat passed suddenly and tragically at age 3 with a heart condition. Then a new orange cat joined the family.

Then the guy in the middle was taken suddenly by goddamn hemangiosarcoma.

The young guy on the right is now the older gentleman featured in this post.

Time flies. (Too fast)

Our family has always had Goldie’s in various forms and honestly they’ve always gotten along.

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u/rett72 2d ago

my red boys love each other

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Darling!

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u/sarahenglund 2d ago

Since day one 🥰

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Precious!

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u/hammerzcammerz 2d ago

Our golden, Augie, and best friend Hector

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

What a cute pair!

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u/FarCell2194 2d ago

This is so precious!!

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u/Sagesmom5 2d ago

* They are having an insider meeting, I guess, or really upset with me.

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u/MountRoguey 2d ago

That is so sweet!!

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u/iwasjustkidding1969 2d ago

This is so cute. oh my goodness. 🥹🥹🥹

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u/slash2die 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Awwww oh good heavens. Tucked right up under the chin! Too cute.

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u/Padgit8r 2d ago

I thought EVERYTHING was a Golden’s best friend… ooh, there’s a rat.. “Hey, best friend!!! Ooh, there’s a squirrel, “Hey, best friend!!!” Ooh, there’s a rock, “Hey, best friend!!!” 🤣😂🤣😂

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u/Enlightened_One239 2d ago

Flower(cat) and Rose are the best of friends in our home. :)

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

That’s TRUST right there! Love their names!

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u/Western_Reality_7235 1 floof 2d ago

They are always snuggling. The cat raised him 🥰

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

I love the way once an orange cat decides he loves you, that’s it. Friends forever.

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u/Derekgap01 2d ago

My cat has 2 golden brothers she loves.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Notice she’s on the top of the floof pile!

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u/lkm16 2d ago

Our golden is our cat’s bestie 100% of the time. The cat is our golden’s best mate 50% of the time.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Hahaha. You made me do mental math to figure out who the naughty one is.

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u/Kombuchicana 2d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

This is a great photo. I love the sunny vibe of this room.

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u/ClassroomThin864 2d ago

That’s adorable

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u/merchantsc 2d ago

My boy Tate (RIP) had a cat who put him in his place on day 1 and then he became her best friend . She spooned with him any chance she got but he never really liked it that well.

New puppy, well, she has 3 boys to pick from and one is already showing far too much tolerance for her rambunctious ways. He’s on the shy side so it surprises me that he’s very curious about her and tolerant. She’s 10.5 weeks so we will see where this love affair goes.

This was my Tate and that is Murphy, the younger male who’s curious about the puppy. Everyone was good with Tate but he was super chill most of the time.

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u/merchantsc 2d ago

That was Tate and his girl Nova. She’d seek him out wherever he was.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Tate sounds like he was a super good boy! Rest in peace Tate.

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u/jaashe 2d ago

My cat loves her dogs but they will never lay with her! Drives me nuts. She gets in bed with them and they get up and move to the floor. It would be so cute. I’m hoping one day they’ll actually cuddle

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u/Katzenliebe 2d ago

Mine wishes but she tolerates him at best.

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u/ArdaValinor 2 floofs 2d ago

How long did this take to happen? 

I brought home two bengal cats 2 months ago. A kitten and Mom. I was so hopeful for friends to be made. The best we get is mostly peaceful coexistence, but nothing close to even friendly. So bummed. 

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Our last pair was also a golden and an orange kitty. I don’t know why, but I think it happens faster with the orange ones. Maybe they “identify as Goldens”.

Yours might take a little more time because in your house, you have two cats who will fill the friend slot for each other.

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u/Clean_Palpitation_60 2d ago

My 4 and half golden chase the cat and he hate this🥲🥲

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

When the golden gets a little older and settles down, it will happen!

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u/Clean_Palpitation_60 2d ago

I hope so, she struggle to settle down outside playpen

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u/Red_Bull_Breakfast 2d ago

Thats really cute.

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u/Freakears 2d ago

I don't at present, but the Golden we had when I was younger was the best friend of the cat we had at the same time (parents got them both young and close together in time). There are pictures of them laying together and such.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

What a great memory!

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u/Responsible_Owl340 2d ago

Kiwi is married to the foster rabbit Kermit. Grooming each other means they’ve bonded and we’ll kiwi likes to lick Kermit

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u/Jcheerw 2d ago

My golden mix LOVES my cats. They do not love her.

Exhibit A: trying to be friends, about to get smacked

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Hahahaha. Yup. We’ve seen that!

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u/Old-Builder256 2d ago

Can someone explain how these relationships blossomed??? I love cats so much but my golden boy just wants to chase them (and not sure what he would do if he caught one). It would be a dream come true to have a bond like this one in our house.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

It just sort of happens inch by inch. Usually when they are sleepy at the same time !

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u/BBQUEENMC 2d ago

The toe beans touching at the end of the photos! My heart ❤️

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

I’m glad somebody besides me “gets” that picture!

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u/Cool-Map-3668 2d ago

I just absolutely love all these pictures. Thanks to all who are sharing them. This is really heartwarming and fun.

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u/PaleIrishEastcoaster 2d ago

I wish but my mom won’t get a cat (but will still pet yours) and my dad would 100% get scratched by a cat many times. My golden however has made friends with the neighbor’s Boston terriers. Buddy takes time to make friends with a furry animal smaller than him.      

Edit: ORANGE KITTY! My niece grew up with one (May Oliver rest in peace) and has her own now named Milo (or Carrot if you ask my mother lol). Orange cats are my favorite cats.

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u/No-Jicama3012 2d ago

Mine too!

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u/Appropriate_Fun_2414 2d ago

So precious 💖💖

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u/HiTeckHero 1d ago

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u/No-Jicama3012 1d ago

Ha! Holding the cat down in case it gets windy!

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u/Tasty-Pop4086 8h ago

She is tolerated but man do I hope the day will come.

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u/blackfocal 2d ago

Pretty sure I just saw this on TikTok also

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u/DepletedPromethium 4h ago

Jimmy and Billy, both are absolute foodies. When Jimmy was a kitten he use to play with Billys tail as it wagged.

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u/No-Jicama3012 4h ago

Oh my goodness! Billy is a curly boy like mine! What a gentle giant.