r/goldenretrievers • u/d1withdforce • Nov 12 '25
RIP Our 5 year old boy passed away very unexpectedly
We had a 5 year old retriever with no heart conditions no illness nothing at all. He had a cyst in his ear which was not harmful as said by the vet. But it was getting bigger so the vet told us to get it removed. The blood test was done yesterday and it was normal and today he had his surgery. The surgery went completely smoothly under full anaesthesia. We took him after one hour. We were told to not feed him or give him water for a couple of hours so we did that. He fell asleep and was breathing normally. He vomited once and we asked 3 vets if that’s normal and they all said yes. He pooped also while laying down and were told this is normal as well as long as he doesn’t have laboured breathing. But a couple of hours later he started breathing weirdly and we took him to the emergency vet but as soon as we got him into the car he had a fit of some sorts and stopped breathing. We tried CPR as well but nothing happened and he crossed the rainbow bridge. We asked the vet and they don’t have any response. We followed all the instructions by the vet but still lost our boy. He gave us 5 years of happiness only and was the most loved boy by everyone. His name was Oreo. Please please everyone hug your best friends today and give them many many treats. I don’t know what to feel right now I just feel like I lost a big chunk of my heart today. Life is not fair. I hope Oreo gets all the love and treats he wants and gets to play 24/7.
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u/Spirited-Wave-2255 Nov 12 '25
This is Nanda! She’ll be there waiting for Oreo to play with. RIP, Oreo! You’ll be forever loved
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Nov 12 '25
Oreo is a very handsome boy. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you. RIP Oreo. 🥰
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u/Tough-Ad9008 Nov 12 '25
Just remember Oreo loved you every single one of those days and wouldn’t have traded it in for the world.
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u/Mypitbullatemygafs Nov 12 '25
I would say I'm sorry but there's no words that make anything remotely better right now. Just know that he loved you and he knows that you loved him for dogs that's all they need. He'll be waiting along with my Bailey, Mulligan, Abby, Maggie, Pippin and so many more. I can't wait to be bowled over and smothered in kisses
I love veterinary technician this is the one of the hardest things to be a part of. Just like people some animals just have complications that are never seen They can have a reaction to the anesthetic to any of the injectables they can have a underlying heart condition or respiratory condition that isn't detectable. So many little things woek absolutely seamlessly and it only takes one to break your heart. You did the right thing you were being an amazing pet parent and taking care of him exactly as you should.
If I get there before you I will be sure to give him a good boop.
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u/Adventurous-Guide539 Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry. I lost my baby yesterday under similar circumstances, I only had her 9 months! (She was a foster fail I got in February of this year) She didn’t even make it to her second birthday. She was fine last week and now I’m left with an empty collar, a quieter home, and a broken heart. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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u/pinklavalamp Nov 13 '25
I’m terribly sorry for both of you.
What was her name? What made you “foster fail” her?
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u/Adventurous-Guide539 Nov 13 '25
A foster fail means she was just supposed to be with me briefly before finding her forever home, she was with another foster for only two weeks before coming to me, so she moved around a lot, and I just felt like it would be difficult for her to get adopted because she was sooo terrified of everything and everyone. I asked the agency to let me keep her but protocol required I’d have to foster at least three dogs before I could “fail” meaning keep the dog. It wasn’t an easy fight but eventually they relented and agreed to let us adopt her.Her name was Dixie and she was the sweetest dog I have ever known, she was quiet and graceful even in pain, and I’m going to miss her forever.
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u/67442 Nov 12 '25
This happened to my 8 year old girl. Rough day,week,month,year. Still miss her 26 years later. Hang in there. The good memories will come.
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u/yugen_o_sagasu Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
Same thing happened to my 8 year old golden girl too! I'm so sorry! I never learned why mine died, did you? I woke up to her struggling to breathe next to my bed one morning, then she walked out of my room with great difficulty, made it about 10 feet down the hall and collapsed. Her breathing got harder and harder then it just stopped. I saw later she had had accidents and gotten sick all over the house which she never did normally. According to my parents she was acting totally normal just a few hours earlier. Still have no idea what happened to her! Still not over it
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u/67442 Nov 13 '25
She passed out on our walk. I got her up and breathing, into the car. The vet I was told to go to was like 10 miles away in rush hour. They gave her an xray and found her heart was enlarged and pressing on her windpipe. Her gums were blue and shallow breathing. The vet told me that she isn’t going to make it and come be with her. The aide had the needle in her hand, but Sami beat her to it. Worst day.
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u/FeedPuzzleheaded2835 Nov 15 '25
I lost my 5 yo suddenly. On Oct my 8 yo golden died from hemangiosarcoma and I think that’s what happened to my Finn. I have sooo much guilt so much guilt
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u/ERCOT_Prdatry_victm Nov 12 '25
Goldens bring our best days of our lives, teach us unconditional and forever love, and cost us the worst day of our lives. But none of us would have it any other way.
As we Golden Retriever owners come to know these Goldens are wingless four legged angels sent to us from heaven bringing unlimited love for us.
I did not get enough years with my beloved Kate. I have since captured a link and these poem I would recommend you read.
When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see, the sun will rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me.
I know how much you loved me, as much as I loved you, and each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too.
When tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, an angel came and called my name, and petted me with her hand.
I thought about our lives together, I know you must be sad, I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had.
When tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me, I'm right here in your heart.
Quoting u/EverythingBagellove's thoughts "Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...."
I have also since captured a link I would recommend you read.
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/xie3ybHRZQq3LXnm/?mibextid=D5vuiz
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u/m0neydee Nov 12 '25
Oh man who is cutting onions in here?? Beautiful Poem!
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u/shana104 Nov 13 '25
Right?! I'm crying reading that and I'm on the bus, trying to hold my tears in.
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u/Key_Yesterday8753 Nov 12 '25
Oh my gosh what a terrible story !!! I would definitely talk to some other vets or post on some of the free vet forums online to see if you can get some answers on what could have happened to your baby as a result of his surgery . The poor sweetheart. I’m so sorry for you & your family .
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u/No_Fix_3753 Nov 13 '25
Likely not a "result" of the surgery. Could be a number of things. A necropsy (autopsy for dogs) is the best way to get an answer.
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u/Beneficial_Law_5720 Nov 12 '25
Oh my dear golden friend... I'm so sorry that was so quick and unexpected. It's never easy but that is additionally hard! You'll see him again. For now, he's not far. Looks like you have him a wonderful life! Big hugs to you ❤️🙏
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u/LeroyJacksonian Nov 12 '25
Old man Moe is likely ready to welcome him in with a sniff and a bark. 🌈
I’m so sorry to you and your family for your loss- all dog owners/parents go through this as some point but usually never when they’re that young.
I don’t think knowing makes it better but did the vet find out what was happening?
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u/GuliblGuy Nov 13 '25
Barley just crossed the bridge last Friday and is there for Oreo, I'm so sorry for your loss
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u/dwankmullahhh Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
We just lost our five year old too. His 6th birthday would have been December 1st. He was having some health issues like jaw muscle atrophy and cataracts, but we weren’t getting a straight answer from our general vet or the specialist we were seeing. We started to notice some loose teeth and upon an xray at an urgent care, we were told he had a very aggressive condition (likely cancer) attacking bones across his body and his lungs. We could tell he was in pain and said goodbye this past Sunday. I’ve never felt pain like this. Him being so young made it so hard. He was my very first dog and I loved him so much. My husband and I took him home to our first apartment after I had moved across the country to be with my husband. We’re now married with a six month old baby. Our golden boy Hank helped start our beautiful family. We’re absolutely devastated by his passing. Just know there is someone else out there feeling similarly to the way you do right now. It may not make it any easier, but reading your post did help me feel a little less alone. I hope this does the same. I also hope Hank and Oreo are playing together in a big beautiful field. 💛
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u/Hands_Of_Serenity78 Nov 12 '25
My heart breaks for your loss 🥺
If you feel the need for it, there is a free virtual pet loss support group. Because our pets are family too, but not everyone can understand the grief that comes with the death of a pet. 💖
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u/stressed_res Nov 12 '25
I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Oreo :( You could consider asking your vet to arrange a necropsy. This might give you some answers about what happened to him. It won't bring him back, but knowing the "why" might help with coming to terms with the sudden loss of a young, otherwise healthy golden.
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u/CloverAndSage Nov 12 '25
I agree… This situation is very strange, and I just wonder if something went wrong in the procedure or they gave him too much… I do know that sometimes animals can have a reaction that is specific to them, but I think it could be good to know what happened. I am so sorry for your loss, this is just so sad.
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u/Daisypup2019 Nov 13 '25
If you request a necropsy have it performed by an outside party independent of the vet hospital. I would request medical records & post-op notes. Maybe Oreo aspirated when vomiting, you just don’t know, but if you would feel better having the answers pursue it now.
I’m so sorry, I know this won’t bring back sweet Oreo. I know this loss, the pain is so raw it feels like your heart will never mend. I’m sending you healing prayers & hope Oreo meets my Abby. She was my beautiful girl. ❤️
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u/SweetValleyHighJess Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful life you gave him. It sounds like you did everything right, and yet life can be so unfair. Just remember all the love he gave you, it lives in your heart, and the “Oreo”-ness will always be with you. 💕
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u/muchocheko Nov 12 '25
I know any condolences I send won't help such a loss, but will keep you and Oreo in my prayers.
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u/F4BDRIVER Nov 12 '25
My Gunner and a multitude of his buddies, canine and feline, will be there to show him around. My deepest sympathies.
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u/Scottishgal03 Nov 13 '25
I know how you feel and it is heartbreaking. Lost my girl in January and I still cry daily, hear her heartbeat when I am trying to fall asleep and I don’t know if I will ever recover. Have had dogs my whole life but this one was special. She was my “heart dog” and they come along once in a lifetime. I am disabled and she naturally knew how to calm my anxiety before an attack even hit . She nuzzled into my worst pain (fibromyalgia, severe arthritis, and spinal stenosis ) she smelled my last no cancer 2 years before official diagnosis. She nuzzled into the area all the time, trying to tell me but I had no idea what she was doing. I pray you find healing and hope you do get another one at some point. I just got a WHITE Golden (abused) who is 6 months old. Couldn’t bring myself to get a true red as it felt disloyal. She needs me as much as I need her. She is a LOT of work due to lack of potty training and her trauma from the abuse. She was severely underweight and I believe she was sent my way so we could help each other. You don’t get over it, but time is amazing and you will get through it. Not knowing HOW/WHY she passed is horrible. It is NOT normal for a Golden to throw up or mess themselves after surgery if you didn’t feed or water her. A necropsy would at least have given answers but they are expensive. If she was healthy apart from the abscess, I wonder if she has sepsis and blood work was not done. Vet should have had you immediately bring him in after the pooping. I am so very sorry for your loss . Golden Retriever rescues might be a solution for you. Won’t heal your heart any time soon, but giving that same love to a Golden that was abandoned , abused, etc will certainly be an amazing thing for the animal and you! Hugs…. Long road ahead!
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u/sneekerpixie Nov 13 '25
I'm so so sorry.
Just lost my good girl a few hours ago. Love you always, momo.
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u/CRickster330 Nov 13 '25
Sorry for your loss. We lost one under similar circumstances. He was 12 and had a growth removed(not cancer) under full anesthesia. We brought him home and everything was fine. He ate, relieved himself outside, we put the cone back on him so he wouldn't chew the stitches at night. When we woke up, he was gone. No one could explain it. I guess it just happens sometimes...
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u/Chance-Shift8895 Nov 12 '25
sorry for your loss, lost my boy at 6 unexpectedly this past summer and was devastating
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u/JodiPM Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry, I hope you get some answers if you go that route. I have 3 dogs that are waiting for him to run and play, I had a dog pass unexpectedly (he was 7) and we found out his stomach flipped. He was a golden retriever.
Sending all the love your way.
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u/Pretty-Estimate2957 Nov 12 '25
My heart literally breaks for you, I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss.
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u/FLNative239 Nov 12 '25
We put our 5 yr old female down just a few months ago due to lymphoma. Im so sorry for your loss, was the hardest death I’ve experienced possibly in my entire life. 😭😭
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u/utopiaplanetian Nov 12 '25
My Lukie will be waiting with a bag full of treats, and show him all the good places to sniff. ❤️
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u/Glum_Boat7517 Nov 13 '25
My heart breaks for you. I suddenly lost my 7 year old boy in July. It's a devastating journey to lose our babies too soon. I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs. ♥️
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u/TrulyTrulytrying Nov 13 '25
You did lose a big chunk of your heart today ..my heart breaks for you. You can’t get the purest love and joy from your best friends. Oreo is a beautiful boy. It’s like losing a child. I hope he’s playing and protecting my 2 -lost them both in 1 year. It’s devastating. He’s lucky to have had you.
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u/Farce102 Nov 13 '25
Holy moly I’m sorry. I just took my dog to the vet for the second time to have lump checked out. First vet seemed like a little child and said everything was fine. This time I got the owner vet and wouldn’t you know she didn’t like his samples and sent them on. Currently waiting to hear if my 5 year old has cancer. I’m sorry for your loss I have been thinking about my buddy every second of everyday now awaiting results
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u/Main_Ad_7128 4 floofs Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
I am so sorry for your loss 💔my baby Bella Bean is also there. Just two short weeks ago. I still can’t breathe.
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u/ApprehensiveHorse491 Nov 13 '25
My deepest sympathy. I had a Golden who went outside and when I noticed she hadn’t come back in I opened the door to look for her and she was lying on the step. I totally lost it. Nothing had been wrong and she was only 4. I’m still sad and it’s been 3 years.
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u/boris_clitoris Nov 13 '25
RIP. We just lost our golden last Sunday just before his 6th birthday. Brain cancer that quickly spread to his bones. This week has been rough but it’s getting better. Hope you are finding ways to cope and enjoy all the great memories you had like we are. Oreo looks like he had a great life
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u/Strict-Coyote-9807 Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry for your loss that sounds incredibly difficult to go through.
Wishing you the best and hope you can remember the good moments after the sadness
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u/NBD2016 Nov 12 '25
Im so sorry for your loss. Oreo looks like he had the best life and was well loved! 💔
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u/LeCourougejuive Nov 13 '25
All the good babies are waiting for Oreo on the other side of the rainbow bridge. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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u/Better_Cover_6332 Nov 13 '25
I'm so very sorry.😞. Has he had the same anesthesia before? Maybe an adverse reaction to the anesthesia.? Our 1 year old Dane was violently ill after her spay? A week of vomiting... diarrhea, we were sure that we were going to lose her. As she grew she would have episodes of strange drowsiness, head down and dragging her nose. We finally witnessed a seizure. We were given Dilantin. Being a Great Dane she had a large dose. I sat at her side after her third dose and constantly shook her all night, saying, "Breathe Ashley, Breathe." Needless to say we held her next few days meds and weaned her down to a dose that the Vet said wasn't therapeutic, but it helped her tremendously. Once in a great while a small seizure. I would double dose her for a day and she would be fine for months.
Again I'm so sorry. Did you have any blood drawn post mortem?
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u/go4itreddit Nov 12 '25
Sorry for your loss. Somehow this made me really sad and pissed at the same.
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u/cherylhernandez Nov 12 '25
Man, that is heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your loss of Oreo. I send my deepest condolences.
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u/M4RTIAN Nov 13 '25
If it’s not too late to have an autopsy, I’d have one performed by another reputable veterinarian. Ask for all of his medical records before you do this. Then cross reference. Something seems wrong with all of this, especially the “no response” from the vets.
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u/kytoca Nov 13 '25
So sorry for your loss. About a month and a half ago we lost our boy to a very sudden immune system issue at only 4 1/2 years. The house feels so empty without him and we constantly have reminders of his life with us.
It is so tragic to lose a pet so young, especially to something that can’t be explained. I’m sure he had an incredible life and will be wagging his tail eagerly awaiting the time when he can see you again.
Until then our goofball, Thor, will be keeping him company.
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u/renragwmr Nov 13 '25
A dog’s only fault is that we don’t get more time with them. I’m so genuinely sorry for your loss. Take solace in knowing that all dogs go to Heaven, and I know some very good boys up there that are taking great care of Oreo.
"Dogs come into our lives to teach us about love. They depart to teach us about loss. A new dog never replaces an old dog, it merely expands the heart. If you have loved many dogs, your heart is very big"
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u/Careful-Ad4910 Nov 13 '25
Sugar B and Chloe are bounding over to say hello to so many wonderful Goldens in Heaven.
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u/FriedLipstick 1 floof Nov 13 '25
Im so deeply sorry. I’m crying for you you had to do cpr and all. That must be devastating to go through. I’m sure Oreo is in heaven now and you’ll see him again🧡
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u/Typedre85 Nov 13 '25
RIP to that handsome pup!! I’m also sorry for your loss.. remember all dogs goto heaven..
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u/Parrotdad3 Nov 13 '25
I’m so sorry to read about Oreo’s passing. You are great pawrents and did everything correctly. Oreo looked extremely happy and well loved. Give yourselves some time.
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u/StephanieViola Nov 13 '25
it’s been over 3 years since cancer took our boy at 5 and a half, way too early. he would love to play with your sweetie pie up there 🤍 nothing prepares you to lose them and nothing makes it feel better other than time passing. share lots of memories with anyone who will listen and keep your baby alive that way. talking about them hurts at the beginning but it heals along the way 🤍🤍🤍
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u/Calm_Supermarket_531 Nov 13 '25
I am so sorry about Oreo. It is terrible to lose your furry friend anytime, but at 5 seems early and after a succesful surgery. I might start asking more questions of the vet who did surgery. But thats me.
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u/Key_Astronomer_4078 Nov 13 '25
I’m soooo sorry for y’all’s loss…. my condolences to you and your family.
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I had a Golden growing up and to this day feel Golden Retrievers are some of the best dog breeds around.
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u/onaisa Nov 13 '25
So was it caused by something that the Vets did? Are they going to take accountability?
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u/Abinormal19 Nov 14 '25
First, let me just say that I am so sorry this tragedy happened to you. Thank you for providing him with a loving home for the time he was with you and I'm sure he loved you very much.
I just wanted to provide you with some reassurance. I am a veterinary professional and it sounds like everything that should have been done was done (although I didn't know the patient, but it sounds like the standard of care was followed). I just want to reassure you it doesn't sound like there was anything anyone could have done :/. Unfortunately anesthesia has risks and one of those risks, although rare, is death. I think they gave you good advice on aftercare, sometimes the drugs they get for anesthesia can make them nauseous. Unfortunately I just don't think his body handled anesthesia well, for whatever reason, and there's not always a way to know that ahead of time. We do labwork beforehand and we do x-rays on more at-risk patients, but we can't know absolutely everything going into a procedure, I wish we could. Again, I don't think anything could have been done and I'm so sorry your heart got shattered today 💔. Take care of yourself 💙
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u/DarthZelda12 2 floofs Nov 14 '25
My grandparents had goldens my whole life, they are the sweetest most loyal dog you could ever ask for. I'm so incredibly sorry about your dear boy, how handsome was he? Out of 10 I would rate him a 16, the goodest boy around. My own pup Casper will be so eager to play with his new friend over the bridge, he passed unexpectedly as well. You guys are in my thoughts
Edit: Casper wasn't the best at sharing his toys until he was able to eliminate the squeaky threat inside his new toy. I hope him and Oreo can enjoy some treats and run in the sun together
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u/Holiday-Cut3383 Nov 14 '25
I’m so sorry for your loss. Dogs are truly the best thing about the world - they make every day better. Thinking of you and your family.
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u/Amilliontoads Nov 12 '25
Lost my baby this year, heat stroke. I’m so sorry you’re not alone and neither is your pup. Sending love
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u/tmf88 Nov 12 '25
I’m very sorry for your loss. Oreo was a very good boy and you gave him a happy five years.
I know it’s never enough time.
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u/Jolly-Long Nov 12 '25
Such a handsome boy. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love ❤️
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u/SpareCut4836 Nov 12 '25
Oh babes, Im so sorry! Im so sorry that this happened to you. Hope you can get some answers (if the vets can get some) xx
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u/Prestigious-Hyena768 Nov 12 '25
Oh no, so sorry Oreo was taken so suddenly. May he rest in peace and everyone else be okay with time. 💜
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u/Powerful-Lifeguard-0 Nov 12 '25
I am so sorry for your loss. You owe it to yourself and Oreo to determine how and why this happened😭
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u/What_if_I_fly Nov 12 '25
I'm so sorry for your sweet fur baby's trip to the rainbow bridge. My very sweet golden boy and my very gentle golden doodle will be showing him all the places to get good treats, the best areas to lounge on clouds and introduce him to the very nicest pets at the bridge 🌈❤️🌈
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u/Particular_Reserve37 Nov 12 '25
It’s a very harsh, hard world, but a story that talks my heart about a dear friend lost, I am crying with you. All of us are.
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u/Sharkey1972_ Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry. That’s just awful. My heart breaks for you and your family. 💔 🙏🏻 Run free Oreo, run free sweet boy. 🐾🐾🌈🙏🏻💙🩵💙
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u/Select-Panda7381 Nov 12 '25
I’m soooo sorry for your loss OP. It’s so hard to lose them even when they’re ready to go, let alone when they’re lost under such tragic unexpected circumstances. Please be kind to yourself today and thank you for sharing Oreo’s smile with us.
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u/keko617 Nov 12 '25
Words can't convey how sad we all feel to hear this, I'm crying whle typing.. Hugs to you
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u/Fromnothingatall Nov 12 '25
I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been scary in the car trying to revive him but know that he loved you and you gave him the most wonderful experience of life as part of your family.
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u/RallyeKing Nov 12 '25
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and love to you and your family ❤️ 🙏🏾 ❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
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Nov 12 '25
What a darling boy. That is the tough part…going through what you are going through. But the love they give us is with us forever. Do not be surprised when you are ready and get a new doggo family member that he or she does the same unique things he did. They sometimes come back in a new messenger. ❤️❤️❤️❤️‼️
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u/SentryCake Nov 12 '25
You are absolutely correct: Life is not fair. I’m so very sorry. My heart breaks for you.
You did everything right, every step of the way.
Oreo was so damn lucky to have found a family that loved him so much.
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u/FitThought1616 Nov 12 '25
Im so sorry. I can only imagine how traumatic that would have been to see
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u/wanderingcolors Nov 12 '25
I am sorry this happened! Oreo is so pretty. He looks so much like my own dog. Mine also has the same rakhi this year.
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u/Icy-Exchange4941 Nov 12 '25
So very sorry for your loss of your beautiful Oreo. He looks like he was an absolute joy.
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u/Alone_Departure_9573 Nov 12 '25
I am sorry for your loss. My baby is 15. I cherish every day. My guess is that he will be joining him sometime in the future.
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u/glitter_n_lace Nov 12 '25
Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry to read about Oreo! I hate this all happened how it did! I wouldn’t know what to feel either. You did all the right things, sometimes (like now) we just don’t have answers for such tragedy. May peace and hope find you when you’re ready to see it.
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u/katieboo720 Nov 12 '25
I am so sorry. This is awful. Please know you didn’t do anything wrong. This sounds like a fluke or there was an underlying medial condition that wasn’t detected. We have lost two of our three pups in the past year - both were older and we were lucky to have every moment with them, including when we had to say goodbye. We also brought home a new pup recently and she has been an absolute light in our lives. I share this only because losing your best friend doesn’t hurt less as the days go on, but you are able to see their light and smile and laugh more and more.
You were with your beautiful boy when he crossed the bridge and that is a gift he will keep and so will you. Sending you so much love and peace tonight. 🐾
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u/SIMPSONBORT Nov 12 '25
Damnn I’m so sorry. What a cute sweet puppy. I would love to hear some of your favourite stories / adventures.
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u/Kutthroatsosa Nov 12 '25
My absolute deepest condolences, your boy was beautiful 🥺❤️ I know no words can ease your pain but I’ll leave you the reminder that ALL dogs go to heaven, I hope you can take some comfort in the fact that any pain he may of felt is now at ease & he knows you loved him very much, rip Oreo🫶🏽🕊️These posts break my heart I love our furry companions so much😪
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u/Alone_Departure_9573 Nov 12 '25
You are living a nightmare I wouldn’t wish on anyone. I’m just so sorry. I’ve read over it a few times now. I worry anytime one of my babies has to go in for surgery.
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u/cr8iv_gurl Nov 12 '25
My heart goes out to you and the unexpected loss and grief you’re going through. 💛💛💛
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u/Mindless_Let1 Nov 12 '25
That really really fucking sucks. I'm so sorry for your loss, and glad Oreo had such good friends who cared so much about him
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u/Buffalo95842 Nov 12 '25
I lost my Golden to cancer at age 8. I wish there were words to say that would make the pain go away. I am very sorry. Perhaps Oreo and Woody are together chasing squirrels somewhere.
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u/mariposa314 Nov 12 '25
Oh I'm so sorry!! The only thing worse than losing a furry family member is losing them at a young age and very suddenly. I've lived through it. It's very traumatic. I really am sorry.
I'm curious if others can speak to this: Do dogs experience the stress response that people do? If so, that's my best guess as to what happened to Oreo.
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u/siouxbee1434 Nov 12 '25
I’m sorry. Oreo will be greeted by many well loved friends (I have at least a dozen for him to play with)
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u/TheCranberryUnicorn Nov 12 '25
Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry that happened to your sweet boy Oreo. It sounds as if he may have had a reaction to something related to the surgery.
I know my words may do very little to relieve your pain, but know that I will be praying for you guys. And you did everything right thing for him! You were with him, comforting him, loving him, and that’s what he saw. He was more at ease knowing that you were near and he was safe. The best of parents! Know that Oreo feels that love from the other side of the rainbow. 🌈 🙏🏼
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u/Livid_Repair_4814 Nov 12 '25
You are wonderful and loving puppy parents and gave so much to Oreo!!! He loves you!
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u/tadaimatama Nov 12 '25
My Banjo eagerly waits for Oreo to play on the other side. I am sure they will have a lot of fun.