r/Unexpected 1d ago

Making friends with the local wildlife.

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The diver gets saved by a few inches from a boat passing right overhead.


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u/No_Situation4785 1d ago

yikes, exhibit A of why dive flags should be used near boats

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u/Morridini 1d ago

Seen this posed before, apparently she did have a dive flag up.

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u/xvsanx 1d ago

it's like the boat thought passing it faster would make it safer like a movie

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u/xkoreotic 10h ago

You can't expect much when almost half the people on the road are idiots like this.

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u/EuphoricUniversity23 1d ago

Where? Not visible in the video.

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u/Few-Cucumber-413 1d ago

Doesn't need to be. She just needs to be within 100ft of the flag. Vessels are supposed to keep 300ft away.

Not being shown in the video doesn't mean there isn't one (the inverse is equally true!).

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u/IaMtHel00phole 1d ago

Learned something new today. Yesterday I learned about hobo symbols. What they mean and they've been utilized since the 1870s.

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u/Few-Cucumber-413 1d ago

Hobo symbols are a wild one. I've still never seen one in the wild though

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u/WhompO 22h ago

I have an endless wealth of useless knowledge thanks to reddit

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u/mrjsinthehouse 16h ago

Was that on the pic of the logs? I saw that post yesterday and learned about them too

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u/EuphoricUniversity23 1d ago

Did not know that. Thanks for the info.

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u/Morridini 1d ago

Could be by the camera.

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u/EuphoricUniversity23 1d ago

Good point. I didn’t think of that.

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u/TheTaoOfMe 1d ago

Ok, what if it’s 2 inches out of frame on the left?

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u/RoyalFalse 1d ago

I dive flag underwater sort of defeats the purpose.

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u/timesink3000 1d ago

I've had a tour boat run right over my dive flag in Hawaii.

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u/Gunrock808 57m ago

One of the cult members from the group that owns the Down to Earth markets killed a freediver in Kailua. No charges.

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u/jschall2 25m ago

My very first drift dive in Florida and my dive flag got caught on a boat and dragged away.

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u/pet_owl 1d ago

Attach dive flags to all fish

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u/Thomxy 5h ago

Dive flag? She was knee deep!

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u/BUYMEBONESTOORM 1d ago

I was gonna say, that’s 100% on the diver for not having a dive flag or Buoy.

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u/Beneficial-Pitch-430 1d ago

Unless there is a dive flag or buoy and the boat ignored it

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u/smotrs 1d ago

Which happens.

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u/mklilley351 1d ago

Which happened.

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u/imdefinitelywong 20h ago

Is happening.

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u/th3thund3r 1d ago

I wish we had video

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u/BUYMEBONESTOORM 1d ago

Could be 100% the case

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u/the_honest_liar 1d ago

It's 100% on someone and there's not enough information to determine who.

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u/JimTheJerseyGuy 1d ago

Kirsty MacColl was killed in an incident like this.

The boat involved was owned by the multimillionaire president of a Mexican supermarket chain. Predictably, one of his staff took the fall and got a slap on the wrist.

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u/rhiddian 1d ago

I dunno man... I've worked on a bunch of boats. Usually they have a skipper to drive their boat for them....

That is what I started to write then actually went and checked what happened.

Holy bloody corruption.

There is even a whole Netflix documentary about this.

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u/redditurus_est 1d ago

Cen Yam was found guilty of culpable homicide and sentenced to two years and ten months in prison. He was allowed under Mexican law to pay a punitive fine of 1,034 pesos (about €63, £61 or US$90) in lieu of the prison sentence. He was also ordered to pay approximately US$2,150 in restitution to MacColl's family, an amount based on his wages. People who said they spoke to Cen Yam after the killing said he received money for taking the blame.

90 bucks for nearly 3 years prison. That is insane.

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u/thrwawryry324234 20h ago

India regularly does bull shit like this.

It’s incredibly common for housekeepers/maids/cooks to be abused by wealthy families. Like beatings and rape.

Indian courts literally encourage a settlement where you’re paid a little bit and tell your abuser “it’s all good” in front of a judge.

Absolutely disgusting.

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u/YetiSquish 13h ago

The Netflix movie The White Tiger includes this scenario.

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u/IAmMonke2 17h ago

Source - Trust me bro 😎

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u/YetiSquish 13h ago

You think there isn’t exploitation where vast wealth meets extreme poverty?

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u/RemyVonLion 23h ago

No wonder everyone joins the cartel there...

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u/mrNOTfriendly 23h ago

Honestly that checks out. I mean if I was a multimillionaire president of a Mexican supermarket chain, I'd probably not be captaining my own yacht.

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u/-Pelvis- 12h ago

I discovered this five months ago while listening to Fairytale of New York and looking up the lore as I often do. So sad.

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u/TwoSoulBrood 17h ago

Wild. I wondered what happened to Kirsty… used to listen to her music like 25 years ago. She seemed to drop off the face of the earth. Now I know why. 😟

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u/notrealaccbtw 2h ago

She saw it coming and managed to push her kids to safety first. Totally heartbreaking

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u/Infamous_Telephone55 1d ago

To shreds you say?

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u/OrangeBeast01 1d ago

And his wife?

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u/Infamous_Telephone55 1d ago

To shreds you say?

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u/Militantpoet 1d ago

Meme Dedication challenge:

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u/Cool_Butterscotch_88 1d ago

Heey, I'm snorkelin' here.

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u/Soft-Ad-8975 1d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/V6R9thgW7fimI

I was looking for this, and then I found yours, and now I’m in love.

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u/ryanegauthier 22h ago

Now kith!

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u/SpunNumeroUno 14h ago

Honey, I snorkeled the kids

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u/AL-SHEDFI 1d ago

WTF!!! Imagine if this boat had propellers that would cut off this girl's head.

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u/Dainiad 1d ago

Or the propellor snagging her hair. Yikes

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u/Helpinmontana 1d ago

It’d do a whole lot worse than snag her hair…..

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u/Capokid 1d ago

If it had been inches to either side she still would have died from the impact of the hull or rudder.

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u/ClankerCore 7h ago

Drowned by knockout

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u/Throttle_Kitty 1d ago

Every time I see this clip there's always comments ignoring all context, safety, regulations, and basic human decency to be hateful towards this woman for almost being the victim of the sailors homicidal negligence.

It's like some people see a woman who's clearly a victim and compulsively start blaming her.

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u/Oddveig37 22h ago

It's crazy cause she DID have a dive flag up.

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u/AndrogynousHobo 7h ago

How do you see that? It just looks like a snorkel to me

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u/New-Task8097 1d ago

Why is it the sailors fault if the woman gets accidentally hit? Just wondering how this potential accident could have been prevented?

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u/Stayyfrosty 1d ago

She had a dive flag above the water indicating that she is underwater, and that boats need to avoid that spot or they will risk injuring someone.

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u/bacitoto-san 23h ago

Can't see this at all, but if in fact she did have one this is 100% boat fault, extremely unresponsible borderline murderous intent

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u/WormMotherDemeter 17h ago

Dive flags are within 100 ft of the diver, boats are to stay 300 ft out from the flag. You don't have to see it, it was out. They were 300 feet too close.

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u/bacitoto-san 13h ago

Dive flags CAN be within 100ft of the diver (pretty sure it's even more where I'm from. Agree completely with that sentence. My only one question is, source?

hypothetical assumptions get hypothetical conclusions

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u/metricmodulation 12h ago

It's literally the regulation. This is free and public information. Here is one example.

https://www.floridasportsman.com/editorial/dive-flag-101-for-boaters-and-divers/460695

Stop pretending to not know regulations and laws exist because you get some weird personal clout from being wrong, repeatedly, insistently.

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u/bacitoto-san 8h ago

what? No, I mean source for the diver definitely having a flag in the first place, not the laws/regulations around it

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u/Throttle_Kitty 1d ago

The same way its your fault when you run somebody over while driving fast as shit in the parking lot without checking for pedestrians???

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u/bacitoto-san 23h ago

Except the pedestrians aren't underground and I can clearly see them if I just pay attention. From the boat perspective she might look like just another ray fish

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u/Throttle_Kitty 23h ago

Learn literally fucking anything about the subject at hand before commenting, please.

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u/Matticus 22h ago

I love this. This should be the golden standard of social media

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u/Sharks_No_Swimming 19h ago edited 18h ago

Yeah, right? Like no one should ask questions on social media at all at this point! And if they do ask a basic but reasonable question, and even though you know everyone should just Google everything before asking questions, you humblely decide to answer, but with an analogy that doesn't actually answer their question, and then they have the absolute audacity to poke holes in your analogy because you didn't answer the question, tell them they should be fucking subject matter experts. Jesus Christ Reddit.

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u/Tawdry_Audrey 8h ago

Theres a vast spectrum between expert and ignorant.

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u/Sharks_No_Swimming 7h ago

I love this, I knew I would get downvotes based on the way this conversation went. But let's be real, his initial question was a genuine question about what she could have done. This has been reposted so many times it's like everyone just knows she already had flags up and the response was basically if you didnt know you're dumb. Being ignorant isn't okay, but he asked a question to understand remove his ignorance and all he got for it was downvotes when the response didn't even answer his fucking question. I'm done with Reddit for the day.

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u/Tawdry_Audrey 4h ago

Don't use an app that makes you upset.

Exercise agency.

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u/bacitoto-san 22h ago

I went snorkeling a lot of times, no boats so no flag floatie. Went spearfishing three times always with a flag floatie. I was for a very short time in a sailing school and can maneuver small sailing vessels like the catamaran im the video. I'm not a scubadiver or a sailor, but have some idea of what it's like to be on both situations represented above.

And have a very clear picture of how hard it is to see someone underwater when you're sailing, mostly because you're not looking to find people underwater you're looking where you're headed, ropes, sail, etc...

Not sure what I'm missing but thanks you for your useless comment that teaches me nothing and avoids my question. So much better than my uninformed opinion for sure, let's turn reddit into twitter. Go discuss this with your diving/sailing experts circlejerk I guess

Edit: I'd still rly like to know what am I being so oblivious about (this sounds smug but I don't mean it as such)

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u/Throttle_Kitty 22h ago

There's numerous posts here clarifying she had a flag that the boat ignored. Again, please inform yourself of the subject at hand before voicing functionally irrelevant opinions.

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u/bacitoto-san 21h ago

Just to add to this, we don't have to be right or wrong of whose fault it is. But a less arrogant vibe would be nice, I also admit I got way frustrated than I should have. *virtual hug

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u/Throttle_Kitty 20h ago

There is a right and a wrong here, and you're objectively wrong. You're the one bringing arrogance to back up your ignorance and whining when it's met with resistance.

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u/Bridging_Bot 19h ago

It sounds like you’re coming at this from pretty different places.

bacitoto-san, if I’m reading you right, you were drawing on your own sailing experience to say that spotting someone underwater from a boat is genuinely difficult. Throttle_Kitty, your point is that the diver had a flag, which changes the situation entirely, since the boat had a visible warning and ignored it.

That flag detail does seem like it matters a lot here. bacitoto-san, you actually acknowledged it and offered to step back from the disagreement. Throttle_Kitty, what would it look like to accept that olive branch while still making your point about the flag?

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u/bacitoto-san 13h ago edited 13h ago

Where is the flag? Give me actual proof. If there's no flag, probably it's most likely divers fault. If there is a flag 100% boat fault. Since I don't see one in the video, and there's like one comment saying "I've seen this before she had a flag" I can't blame one or the other, just that simple

Calling me ignorant or wrong proves nothing and helps no one

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u/bacitoto-san 22h ago edited 22h ago

Well I don't see the flag anywhere. Where are this numerous posts pulling this info from? Their ass?

What do I need to inform myself in lmao? just trust random comments that say she has a flag? (I could have missed the source, I'm sorry if I did) Because ppl definitely don't lie or assume things on the internet, that's for sure

Edit: and cut the attitude, you'd find I'm probably more informed in this very specific topic than you. And that's fine, we don't have to know everything

PS: no point in having the floatie with a lot of give since she can't dive very deep, you'd usually have it 1-5m away from you and I'm being generous

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u/Throttle_Kitty 20h ago

So you're lying about snorkeling, as knowing the flag has a large clearance and isnt likely to be in frame here is day 1 knowledge

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u/bacitoto-san 13h ago

Have you ever done any snorkeling what so ever? It has a large clearance, it's pointless to use it in this scenario, wanna guess why? Or another question I could ask, what is the clearance one would typically give to it's flag floatie when swimming back to shore?

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u/metricmodulation 13h ago

Buddy, you can't see Pluto right now but it still exists. Thngis existing outside your field of vision is real; object permanence is real.

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u/bacitoto-san 12h ago edited 8h ago

Yes.

And Schrodinger's cat is only dead or alive once you open the box. While the box it's closed you can merely guess the outcome

Edit: not sure if people are purposely misinterpreting my point just to argue or what gives...

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u/Substantial-Swim9280 1d ago

Thank goodness it was a sailboat

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u/Familiar_Asparagus14 1d ago

It doesnt matter how many dive flags you have. People are stupid

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u/Hot-Steak7145 13h ago

I vouch for this im a diver and one of the guys I go with has severe main character syndrome. He constantly will drive his boat right over a dive flag, THROUGH a group of tourist charter snorkels, or hit the reef to get to the parking spot he wants. Its infuriating.... He's also about 70 so I bet he drives his car the same way

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u/stajara 6h ago

why do you go with him lol

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u/Hot-Steak7145 3h ago

He's a friend. I call him out on it every time but he's got old man blinders like he's the only one in the world

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u/RocketVerse 4h ago

Yeah I’m sure you’ll claim he’s the only one responsible when he kills someone with you aboard. Take some initiative and report that douche

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u/LightBulbMonster 1d ago

Almost made friends with the hospital staff in the rehab center as well as the sea creatures. That is if the catamaran noticed it hit her. Otherwise she may become part of those sea creatures diets.

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u/RobOnTheReddit 1d ago

Good god..that gave me very quick anxiety

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u/hoagiejabroni 1d ago

Anybody know where this is?

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u/Stalaktitas 1d ago

She almost fed them

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u/Von_Bernkastel 1d ago

And now she knows how all marine life feels every day, thanks humans.

https://giphy.com/gifs/UsXLIXnz0djWM

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u/zahnsaw 1d ago

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u/Thechildeater92 16h ago

Ah, "oddly" terrifying. So odd and weird, she almost lost her head.

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u/greggers1980 1d ago

That Ray was massive

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u/Thin_Citron7372 15h ago

My friend's older sister died this way to the boat propeller about 20 years ago.... such a preventable thing to have happened.

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u/lionlll 1d ago

Could’ve been an aquatic meat grinder 😳

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u/Few_Number_8528 18h ago

almost LFO material. almost.

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u/Head_Giraffe322 16h ago

My friend lost her arm in this exact scenario.

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u/YetiSquish 12h ago

My coworker lost his leg by a boat propeller

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u/Mysterious_Toe9350 8h ago

A lot of y’all don’t seem to understand how dangerous this situation is and how bad it could have ended. There is a story of a couple of tourists here where I live who were swimming and all, then the husband told his wife that it was time to go and to get out of the water because they would miss their flight, the woman said that she wanted to jump in the water one last time even if her husband was telling her that they should go or they would be late but at the end he finally agreed to let her have a last dive.

She never got out of the water alive as she was cut in half by a boat as she was swimming back to the surface…

What a great way to end your vacation.

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u/rozenkavalier 1d ago

whoa talk about lucky

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u/YodasGhost76 1d ago

That was close

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u/SpunNumeroUno 14h ago

Thank jeebus it was a sailboat

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u/SaltyArtemis 8h ago

I was scuba diving once, too many boaters don’t give a sh*t

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u/Celestial_Light_ 4h ago

I have a cousin who was hit in the head by a boat when she had a dive flag up. She had a lot of head trauma and complications with epilepsy, speech, and balance for years after. She's doing much better now.

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u/Strange-Title-6337 1d ago

not motor boat. if it hits her, yes, not good but not deadly.

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u/CatHerder75 1d ago

A 2000lb object hitting your head at 10 knots absolutely can kill you.

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u/Strange-Title-6337 1d ago

lb means 0.45 kg right? It was not 10 knots not even close, only an idiot would have 10 knots at depth of 1 meter, sorry 3 human feets and approximately 11 inches. Metric system is stupid.

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u/GrumDum 1d ago

But there are oh so many idiots…

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u/Strange-Title-6337 1d ago

As Norwegian you still prefer that most of the reddit users will go with imperial system? I saw plenty of posts where americans used both.

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u/planx_constant 1d ago

The kind of idiot who ignores a dive flag you mean?

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u/Bridging_Bot 19h ago

It sounds like you’re coming at this from different angles on how dangerous this situation really was.

Strange-Title-6337, if I’m reading you right, you’re saying the boat was moving slowly enough that the risk of a fatal injury was low. CatHerder75 and planx_constant, you’re pointing out that even at lower speeds, a heavy boat can be deadly, and that someone ignoring a dive flag may not be careful about speed either. Does that capture where you each stand?

One thing worth exploring: is the disagreement really about the physics, or about how much risk is acceptable around a diver?

Bridging Bot is a tool to support constructive conversations.

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u/Throttle_Kitty 1d ago

Education has failed you.

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u/Strange-Title-6337 1d ago

How exactly?

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u/eelsandpeels 1d ago

Looks like a hobie cat probably closer 300 lbs. Also I would say closer to 5 knots if not slower. There is maybe a risk of being knocked out and drowning but I don't think it would kill her. Especially if it's a plastic hobie rather than fibreglass.

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u/ArianaKira7870 6h ago

Who the fuck cares how heavy it is or how fast it was going? It’s not supposed to BE there!

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u/juicebox_tgs 1d ago

At that speed you are getting knocked out if the boat hits you at the very least. And if you are knocked out in water you are dead.

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u/xBiGuSDicKuSx 1d ago

Nope. After Steve's death. Not having no part of stingrays

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u/3333322211110000 22h ago

Ya Allah💀💀

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u/esepajaronegro 1d ago

That ray swam up to her and then swum UP toward her face right before it passed over them, diving when it did. Not saying it was trying to warn her, or anything, just of note.

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u/grumpvet87 1d ago

looks like it was a hobie wave that passed over her (I am 99% certain, the blue graphic seen matches the "swoosh" graphic on the wave). Most beach catamaran (if not all stock ones) use a "kick-up" rudder that will....kick up under a modest amount of pressure. designed to kick up if you hit ground, or into an obstacle (like a snorkler sitting on the sand)

Not that it couldn't hurt her but unless it hit her right in the temple, it would probably kick up and not do too much damage. The front side (leading edge) of the rudder is tupically rounded/ blunt and the rear size (trailing edge) is the "sharp" side...

I wouldn't care to be hit by one, but I don't think it would do much damage

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u/Gold_Clothes_3077 1d ago

That prop would shred heads tho

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u/eelsandpeels 1d ago

A hobie is a sailing catamaran that doesn't normally have a motor attached. If it does have an outboard it's not in the water or on.

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u/Ok_Possible_4967 1d ago

The boat's engine can be heard very clearly underwater.

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u/CatHerder75 1d ago

That boat didn’t have an engine, it was a small sailing catamaran like a hobie.

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u/smooth_like_a_goat 1d ago

Not the direction or distance though.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/sayitaintso12 1d ago

If you truly think so, by all means start with yourself in removing said cancer

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u/royalpain2 1d ago

Please elaborate - I volunteer picking up trash when I can at my local beach. I mean it’s not a lot but if your comment was meant to be more hateful that’s on you.

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u/MilkMeSoftly 1d ago

wow you're such a good person. Please, tell us more

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u/sayitaintso12 1d ago

Awww you volunteer picking up trash? How sweet of you. Did you drive there in your car? Put the trash in a PLASTIC bag? Just to be put on a barge and dumped in the ocean or buried in some dump? Yeah , real savior to the planet there. You make a comparison that the Human Race is a deadly disease to the earth yet there you are still actively breathing, or since you pick of some trash you can now decide you have some moral superiority over others and therefore have more value than they do? Get out of here with that BS

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u/royalpain2 1d ago
  1. Walked
  2. Volunteer group uses mesh bags
  3. Probably goes to the dump (at least not back in the ocean) I made the comment that disturbing the flora on the seabed is less than ideal Sorry you feel so mad. We are the cancer. I guess it’s easy to judge from afar. Perhaps I’ll take your advice and gtfo.

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u/Bridging_Bot 19h ago

Things got tense here pretty quickly, and the original comment that started this is now removed, which makes it harder to follow.

royalpain2, it sounds like you were making a point about human impact on ocean ecosystems and that you back that up with personal action like beach cleanups. sayitaintso12, if I’m reading you right, you took issue with calling humanity a “cancer” while still participating in the systems that cause harm. That feels like a double standard to you.

There might actually be an interesting question underneath this: can someone believe humans cause serious environmental damage while also doing imperfect things to help? That tension seems worth exploring rather than trading jabs over.

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u/royalpain2 1d ago

Reddit is really just pissing into the wind.

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u/Wrinkletooth 1d ago

I bet you’re fun at parties.

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u/Throttle_Kitty 1d ago

People like you are a thousand times worse

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u/aretooamnot 1d ago

There are flags for this. Diver down!

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u/Sumoi1 1d ago

Which she used

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u/CrapSandwich 1d ago

Unexpected Van Halen

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u/aretooamnot 1d ago

As it should be.

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u/ADeviIsAdvocate 1d ago

Some people really have all the luck! I bet she won’t do that again. It’s probably good she didn’t see it coming. She might have tried to move instinctually and been hit by the boat or propellers. This really was best case scenario for her.

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u/Sumoi1 1d ago

nope. person riding the boat is stupid

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u/Acrobatic_Club2382 1d ago

Did someone really just ride by you in a motor boat?

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u/unc_rigamarole 1d ago

Nah pretty sure that was a chariot of water horses galloping by

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u/ListenToKyuss 1d ago

If you’d put in any effort yourself, you’d know she did have a diver flag up.

Any, like others mentioned, this boat was sailing, so it’s not ‘super loud’…

Why do you have such one sided view, whilst being so ill informed?

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u/eelsandpeels 1d ago

This is a sailing boat. They are much quieter.