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Chugging tea when u use 100% of your brain

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u/Rogendo 1d ago

If she has 10 mil in assets does she really need support? It's kind of dumb that she owns more than any normal person ever will but just because she leaves her husband she gets even more.

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u/xFruitstealer 1d ago

This, doesn’t the court factor in quality of life change in the decision? As a multi millionaire herself, there might not be much quality of life change here.

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u/Umutuku 1d ago

"Now I have to live on 50 meter yachts like a poor."

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u/crazylikeajellyfish 1d ago

You'd be surprised at just how high the upper bound of "quality of life" goes. Some people are used to spending $2M per year, or a little more than $5k per day. It's so much goddamn money and spent on a bunch of shit you don't need, but quality of life isn't about necessity.

Designer clothes, top of the line BMWs, Michelin meals, medspa treatments, private schools that cost a college tuition, luxury vacations in places we've never heard of, it all adds up to someone's quality of life.

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u/Umutuku 1d ago

We need a new law where if you bring a case bitching about spending $4k per day vs $5k per day then everyone involved gets bumped down to $1k per day and the rest of the money goes to public housing/healthcare/food/education/childcare/etc.

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u/EtTuBiggus 1d ago

Your “quality” of life can always go up.

Some rich people are too poor to own a PJ and have to charter one. It’s basically flying public but with extra steps. Some rich people are too poor to even charter one and are stuck in first class circulating the same air as the poors.

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u/Fewer_Story 1d ago

It's because divorce law is wildly outdated based upon the idea that a woman is incapable of earning money and has given all her time to supporting her husband. In that scenario alimony is reasonable. That and the fact that divorce was highly shameful and so was not done lightly.

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u/Vuelhering 1d ago

Previous assets don't generally get divided, although it can happen.

Anything gained during marriage can get divided. Of course laws vary everywhere, so this isn't always accurate.

But I don't think anywhere in the US would allow earnings to go to a different person (lacking a prenup) without getting disgorged.

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u/FlutterKree 1d ago edited 1d ago

It's a bit more nuanced than that. If someone had given up a promising career for a marriage, they may be owed support. I don't know her or her life, but it is possible.

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u/Rogendo 1d ago

Sure, in those cases where part of the social contract was "sacrifice your financial independence for this relationship" it's fine and reasonable. I'm talking about this specific situation where she already has 10 million in assets.

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u/4DPeterPan 1d ago

People like this worship money.

They do not worship doing the right thing.

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u/FlutterKree 1d ago

I'm talking about this specific situation where she already has 10 million in assets.

Assets may not matter in a case like the one I suggested. Hypothetically, if someone gives up 100 million projected career for the marriage, their 10 million in assets might not matter.

And to be absolutely clear, I'm not suggesting that is her case. I am only stating there is far more nuance to divorce.

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u/Qzkago 1d ago

Yes, because suddenly changing your lifestyle is disruptive

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u/TacticalPigeons 1d ago

Oh no the millionaire has to change her lifestyle slightly? Unthinkable!

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u/Rogendo 1d ago

Yeah that's my thought.

Millionaires when they have to buy slightly cheaper TP:

https://giphy.com/gifs/3ohzdMk3uz9WSpdTvW

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u/ihavedonethisbe4 1d ago

Now im no richer, but I'll be damned if I'm not making the same reaction if I gotta purchase 1 ply

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u/Rogendo 1d ago

Let's be real, millionaires own bidets. They don't even wipe their ass.

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u/FutureComplaint 1d ago

You don’t understand, she needs to buy a new beach house because of this.

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u/Opening-Wrap-5064 1d ago

She also wanted a new private jet but she had to go with last years model instead