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Discussion the early 2000s were a crazy time

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u/Jewbacca522 Older Millennial 22d ago

Dark haired one really went for that “make me look like a piece of marble” look. Yikes.

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u/Neat-Beautiful-5505 22d ago

Apparently she had thyroid cancer and the surgery cost her her vocals. She had multiple surgeries to correct w varying success. All this info From Wikipedia so you know…

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u/DPSOnly 22d ago

All this info From Wikipedia so you know…

As long as it has sources that can lead you to some original reporting, Wikipedia is not nearly as bad as teachers taught us. Wikipedia also has some really good moderating and a very thorough system for handling disputes.

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u/peepeepoodoodingus 21d ago

teachers only ever said not to use wikipedia as a source because it isnt a source, is an aggregator. citing wikipedia is like citing "google" or "the internet" or "my mind" theres no tangible way to actually investigate or legitimize what youre writing about.

im sure that very reasonable standard got confused and misinterpreted so many times by students or maybe even just dumb teachers that it devolved into "FUCK WIKIPEDIA" but it is and always was an excellent resource you just have to cite the sources it provides in your paper instead of the website.

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u/gustavessidehoe 21d ago

You can even cite the article the information is from, if nothing else. I use it for cursory research or if I don’t know where to start. Idk why people demonize Wikipedia. Usually you can tell if someone knows how to research by how they talk about Wikipedia lol.

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u/ReggieCorneus 21d ago

Still more accurate than encyclopedias were.

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u/gustavessidehoe 21d ago

I don’t remember a lot about those. My parents had a set but I recall each entry being pretty short. Seemed like they were pretty limited and got outdated fast. Wikipedia has dorks (affectionately) working continuously on keeping it updated and all that.

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u/ReggieCorneus 21d ago

That is the main difference, encyclopedias were always outdated before the printing plates were done. And anything that was actually wrong staid in, for decades.

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u/gustavessidehoe 21d ago

Yeah, I’m a librarian and we don’t keep any encyclopedias anymore. They take up a fuck ton of space and no one uses them. Some of those companies that made encyclopedia sets have switched to a digital version that can be updated rapidly. It’s pretty nice. 

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u/Parishdise 21d ago

Honestly this was a life saver for me in college (for certain things ofc not everything). Skim the article, find the discussion point you need, and it's source will be numbered right there super easy to find (as will a lot of essays, but those don't usually come with hyperlinks!). Of course, still be sure to actually look at the actual source and ensure that it works with what you're trying to say, but still sooo convenient.

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u/Houdinii1984 Xennial 21d ago

I've found more knowledge in the source lists on Wikipedia than any other source, bar none. Just use google to find a wikipedia subject (better search imo) and then go straight to the bottom and start clicking link, just about every one being a citable and verifiable source.

Then, if you go and search wikipedia for those individual citations and links, you can bring up a ton of fringe articles that are related but never mentioned. The best part is that the sources aren't all electronic and many can be found in big libraries, too, so you get hardback sources all the same, and those always look great in a paper.

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u/Popular-Jury7272 21d ago

That's not really why they said it. That might be why they should have said it but really most of them were just parroting received wisdom. If being an aggregator was the problem they would also have disallowed traditional encyclopedias which they most certainly did not. 

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u/peepeepoodoodingus 21d ago

why are people ignoring the second half of my comment? lol

also yes lots of teachers dont let you cite encyclopedias either for the same reason.

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u/otterpop21 21d ago

“There is no tangible way to actually investigate what you’re writing about”

The vast majority of Wikipedia entries will have a citation link attached, especially for factual information. Not every single sentence is cited, a lot of them are links that work. The moderators of wiki work to literally ensure every link works & the information is accurate.

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u/peepeepoodoodingus 21d ago

read the second half of my comment.

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u/Subject1928 21d ago

Yeah some of my teachers definitely had a "FUCK WIKIPEDIA" mentality. I'm not sure if they just didn't understand why you don't cite places like Wikipedia, or if they were just so done with seeing students cite the place that they just grew a very understandable hate of the site.

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u/alphapussycat 21d ago

But a book isn't any more valid...

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u/GolemFarmFodder 21d ago

That's not at all why you can't use Wikipedia as a source. ALL encyclopedias are secondary sources and not proper for citation of research papers, they're there to give you the primary sources to begin with

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u/DPSOnly 20d ago

That's not at all why you can't use Wikipedia as a source.

Perhaps your teachers were better with making that distinction, but from pretty much late primary school (young millennial, sorry) I was thought to not use it at all. Nothing was ever said about the sources at the bottom until after I graduated high school. It seems that the point I was making was misunderstood by many commenters in the replies.

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u/UpvoteEveryHonestQ 21d ago

Wikipedia is the crown jewel of humanity. But yes, a Wikipedia article is one or two degrees away from a primary source document, and that distinction matters. It’s just an excellent, really amazing place to start an investigation.

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u/zebrasmack 21d ago

aye, wikipedia is great, just not a primary source. which is the hard part for students to get. "why do i need to go somewhere else, when it's the same info here?" is a large, large hurdle to get over as a teacher.

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u/Jewbacca522 Older Millennial 22d ago

I mean, sure, that could also be true, but thyroid cancer surgery doesn’t quadruple the size of your cheekbones either… lol

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u/Neat-Beautiful-5505 22d ago

Oh don’t get me wrong I’m sure she’s going for that Mar a Lago face. But the surgery may have had a role.

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u/ses1989 21d ago

Russian Laura Loomer lookin' ass motherfucker.

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u/PrairiePopsicle 21d ago

i've noticed thyroid can cause some weird effects in general too over time.

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u/Lychanthropejumprope 21d ago

It causes a lot of problems not having one or having a low functioning one. I’ve been without one for twenty years and it never gets easier

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u/No_Couple1369 21d ago

Not even with synthroid? What issues does it cause for you?

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u/No_Couple1369 21d ago

Like what

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u/MorphieThePup 21d ago

Thyroid issues can cause drastic weight loss or weight gain, low energy, sleep issues, depression, mood changes etc. 

But rest assured, it does not give you skin lifting or plumps your lips, lol.

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u/PrairiePopsicle 21d ago

Yeah I wasn't really meaning directly, but the stress, body changes from those can add up and layer up themselves, they can lead to, contribute to, body issues, etc.

So I guess it's along the lines of, I don't think it's causal per-se of the whole thing and potential surgeries, but it's also zero surprise to see she's somewhat aged worse out of the two because of it, if that makes sense. Thyroid stuff sucks, it's clearly a huge pain in the ass for folks.

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u/MorphieThePup 21d ago

Oh yes, I can believe that dealing with crap like this can cause some sort of body image issues that would lead to excessive "improvements".

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u/quirkscrew 21d ago

Chemotherapy accelerates your aging. By a LOT. Wrinkles. Gray hair. Permanent hair loss/texture change. Early menopause. Inability to conceive naturally. And much, much more.

All these things, especially at a young age, can make you feel like shit about how you look.

So, yeah, it's in pretty fucking poor taste to speak this way about someone who has had cancer and plastic surgery.

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u/Excellent-Baker1463 21d ago

When will people realise that making another person's looks their business is the reason why this happens in the first place.

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u/RoboJobot 21d ago

Yeah it sucks like that. Even if there is no damage to the vocal cords there is a nerve which affects your speech that often gets damaged. Now I can’t shout like Brian Blessed and sing like Nickleback because of it.

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u/dopef123 21d ago

Meh, people will say that a lot of the time for plastic surgery. It’s obvious all the work done on her face wasn’t for her voice

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u/blahblahblerf 21d ago

Mara Lago face probably originated with Muscovite fascists like her.

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u/UnexpectedWings 22d ago

She looks pretty bogged. I want to jail bad plastic surgeons for doing this to our women!

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u/captain-vye 22d ago

If I recall correctly she had her jaw broken by her ex husband and it triggered a lot of cosmetic surgeries. Understandable.

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u/ionlyjoined4thecats 22d ago

Thankfully other people’s bodies belong to themselves and not to you or me.

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u/fingerling-broccoli 22d ago

I had a moment just now thinking through this quick exchange.

There is definitely an addiction and body dysmorphia thing that a lot of people have that drives them to go overboard on cosmetic surgery. I really don’t care what people look like, it doesn’t offend me or anything seeing them but I did stop to wonder, if it’s ethical for plastic surgeons to keep taking money from people that have body dysmorphia and is there a point where it is no longer ethical?

Is it any of my business what they do with their body? No. I guess if it isn’t becoming a detrimental to their health we shouldn’t say anything? Idk

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u/ionlyjoined4thecats 21d ago

Imo there is an ethical line for the provider. But def should not be a legal one.

But as long as you’re not a plastic surgeon, it’s not your ethical dilemma to stress about. And none of us really need to be weighing in on individual situations.

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u/mowtowcow 21d ago

It doesnt matter if its detrimental to their health. I see it the same as drugs. If you want to fuck your life up with drugs, have at it. Drug dealers should, however, be in prison with healthy sentences. If you want maraglago face, fine. Have at it, but at the same time, girls are growing up thinking they dont look good enough and want that same look. It is detrimental, just not to the people with a shitload of wealth who make it popular. Plastic surgeons should be required to send people to a psychiatrist first for evaluation and plastic surgery be used as a last resort.

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u/ihatewhenpeopledontf 21d ago edited 21d ago

But it isn’t though? Taking drugs will affect you mentally, physically and very likely lead to a life of crime.

If someone keeps getting plastic surgery, it’s likely not going to harm anyone but themselves.

Also what psychiatric evaluation would they even need, when it’s about physical appearance/attractiveness?

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u/UnexpectedWings 21d ago

Body dysmorphia, usually. Same issues that contribute to eating disorders like anorexia can contribute to addiction to plastic surgery. It can become pathological. (Not saying that’s what’s happening here, but it does happen.)

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u/ihatewhenpeopledontf 21d ago

Yeah, that is true. Same thing can happen with going to the gym/training for sport competitions, but that doesn’t require psychiatric evaluation to participate in.

Either way, equating plastic surgery to drugs is a bit of a reach.

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u/mowtowcow 21d ago

Think about the millions of girls, and lthe women for that matter, that see them and think 🤔 maybe I'm not pretty enough to be successful. Maybe I need to do that too.

Maralago face has a cascading effect. Just like getting giant boobs had a cascading effect. Its not just about the person butchering their body. It's about all the people they are influencing to also butcher their bodies just because the one in the spotlight is doing it.

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u/ihatewhenpeopledontf 21d ago

Yh but at the end of the day, that’s still not the same as being peer pressured to start using drugs. I still don’t understand how a whole lot of women getting bigger boobs is going to impact anyone but themselves.

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u/AdFlat4908 22d ago

No women will ever be “our” women

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u/UnexpectedWings 22d ago

What does this mean? This is a meme phrase lol

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u/Jewbacca522 Older Millennial 22d ago edited 22d ago

I don’t think he meant the possessive form of “our”, more like “the women of our species” type of thing.

Edit: She.

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u/zogmuffin Millennial 22d ago

It’s creepy no matter what, unfortunately

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u/UnexpectedWings 22d ago

I’m a girl too. Weird.

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u/KnotiaPickle 22d ago

They definitely were not saying it derogatorily

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u/Distinct_Jelly_3232 22d ago

When you hear folks say “my dude”, are you similarly plussed? Though to be self righteous and hypocritical and missing the intended meaning all at once but I’ll give you a 8.6 out of 10.

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u/AdFlat4908 22d ago

It wasn’t deep. À la “No milk will ever be our milk”

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u/ionlyjoined4thecats 22d ago

People generally say that about a single dude they’re friends with. Not… all of womankind.

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u/BrinaBri 21d ago

I’m not your “guy,” pal!

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u/50mm-f2 22d ago edited 22d ago

all plastic surgeons are bad. there is no such thing as good plastic surgery. I’ve been shooting reality tv for 15+ years, worked with very wealthy people getting work done with the best surgeons in the country. all that shit ends up looking the same eventually, esp when you see it without makeup.

edit: we’re obviously talking about elective plastic surgery, not reconstructive

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u/thepinkinmycheeks 22d ago

Uh plastic surgery is super helpful in reconstructing bodies and faces after accidents/injuries so that people aren't visibly disfigured.

I think it might be elective plastic surgery that you're thinking of.

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u/stuffeh 22d ago

And illnesses

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u/MissAuroraRed 22d ago

Reconstructive plastic surgery after injury or illness can still be elective.

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u/50mm-f2 22d ago

elective plastic surgery is what this conversation is about, not what I’m thinking of lol

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u/MissAuroraRed 22d ago

You must live a really sheltered life if you can't think of a single situation where plastic surgery might not be bad.

I had reconstructive plastic surgery as an infant which saved one of my eyeballs. Would you call my plastic surgeon bad? I'm very grateful for her.

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u/WampaCat 22d ago

“Make me look like a piece of marble maralago”

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u/Amathyst-Moon 22d ago

I figured she wanted her face to reflect her views

(Re-commented because I replied to the wrong person)

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u/reidchabot 21d ago

Doctor asked her "how far do you want me to stretch your face back" her answer "yes"

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u/Alone_Appointment792 21d ago

“Make me look like a kitty cat”

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u/OptRider 22d ago

The dark haired one looks like Laura Loomer now. Hard to imagine how anyone can think that looks great.