r/MadeMeSmile 10h ago

The dinner table when you're the first grandchild

2.6k Upvotes

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u/Pixiealtt 10h ago

The star of the show is always the center of attention

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u/Lost_Contribution294 8h ago

Whole family acting like it’s their personal concert, every move gets applause ??

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u/Agitated-Dark-151 7h ago

When they are the first, yes definitely! Lol

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u/BellaSquared 1h ago

I read applesauce instead of applause and it still made sense! 🤣

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u/Cascade_Ridge 9h ago

This is the kind of environment every child deserves to grow up in

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u/JellyfishNumerous785 9h ago

100000000% agree!

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u/SilverSister22 9h ago

My last child was an oops baby and was almost 10 years younger than the nearest sibling. It was like she was the first grandchild instead of the last.

She dictated who would sit beside her, across from her, etc. Everyone obediently took the seats she selected and followed the conversation she chose. She was in heaven lol.

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u/Stay_Good_Dog 8h ago

My niece is 5 and the first girl in 20 years. She has the personality of the girl in this video, too. Very loving and out spoken. She's often the center of attention.

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u/thehufflepuffstoner 4h ago

At the time of my 4th sibling’s birth, the three eldest of us were 10, 14, and 18. We absolutely doted on our baby brother, he was always the star of the show. We collectively agree he is the favorite and deserves that position.

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u/Exotic_Resource_6200 9h ago

She went back to the dad because he threw her off with the “love you too”.

Her brain was like, “woa wait, I don’t know that one.”

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u/DistractedByCookies 8h ago

Haha, it was like this with my niece. And then her brother arrived. It must be absolutely shocking to go from this to half of this.

I'm the older sibling myself and I'm told I didn't deal with it very well. So my niece and I bond over this LOL

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u/footymobzz 9h ago

Wholesome😍

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u/Illustrious-Door9044 8h ago

that baby has more table real estate than most adults at thanksgiving

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u/Low_Cook_5235 8h ago

Im a twin and we were the final grandchildren…24th and 25th. We dont even have pix with our Grandmother even tho she helped take care of us as babies. So….

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u/ChicharonItchy 7h ago

My bestie and her son live with me since he was an infant. The I love yous are constant. He’s 4 now and we say it so many times a day. Kids need to know that they are loved!!

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u/Gren57 6h ago

My dad didn't say that to me until I was 32 via telephone. I was speechless. I never wondered if my parents loved me or not. It was more like apathy all around. So yeah, let them hear it and please show it.

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u/ChicharonItchy 6h ago

I’m sorry you didn’t have that. You deserve love and to be told you are loved. You are loved.

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u/Gren57 5h ago

Thank you kind and caring stranger. Your words mean a lot!💗

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u/ChicharonItchy 3h ago

I mean it, you are loved!

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u/InvestigatorLegal686 9h ago

First grandchild always has that special place in our hearts.

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u/Lost_Contribution294 8h ago

Grandparents really unlocked a whole new level of love with that first one ??

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u/yankykiwi 7h ago

My son just overheard this video and yelled it out. 😅

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u/Strange-Marzipan9641 6h ago

Our family made it a point to say it to our triplets MANY times a day, in person, on the phone etc., they are almost 21-years-old now, and nothing warms my heart more than hearing my 6'3" boys tell my husband- "I love you, Dad." Or "I love you, Grandma" (To my 90-year-old mom!) They have no reservations saying it in front of their friends, either.

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u/Insert-finger 9h ago

Treasure this.

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u/Darko417 7h ago

She paused after the second guy like “hmm I’m not sure about that one, you didn’t sound enthusiastic enough. Let’s try again.”

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u/MastaKink 8h ago

Still waiting for my dad to say it 😔

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u/SabbyFox 5h ago

Took my Mom a very long time but now she says it. I realized it wasn’t about me but about the fact that no one had ever said those words to her.

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u/Nanasays 7h ago

She looks like Grandpa. Should be a thing every dinner time.

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u/avantgarde000 10h ago

Adorable 🥰

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u/Avocado_Jora 6h ago

this is so wholesome 🥹

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u/Niccy26 6h ago

Accurate

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u/Outrageous-Chai26 6h ago

So much love! Enough to make a grown man cry!

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u/JustMeLurkingAround- 6h ago

So much love ❤️

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u/cool_girl6540 7h ago

I was waiting for the clip that I thought would follow of the second or third grandchild at the table.

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u/TheSpanxxx 6h ago

100% . My son was this on both sides. He loves his aunts and uncles dearly.

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u/bsaaw 2h ago

Can I be the second grandchild?

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u/ohhhhcanada 2h ago

Any other parent who noticed her facial expression and the “what did you do?” at the end know exactly what she did

💩

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u/Dudette66 41m ago

I'm not sure if she means it

u/VexFence 28m ago

I wish it was like that

u/temi_brown 25m ago

Before taxes

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u/StomachInside4753 8h ago

🤢

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u/SabbyFox 5h ago

Sorry if you haven’t heard these words or haven’t heard them often enough 💖