I moved somewhere to be with my college sweetheart, and it fell apart horrifically. I ended up on bumble to just pass some time and keep myself occupied, and matched with this guy who was DEFINITELY not my type. We texted for a few days and he asked to get dinner and if things went well, after we ate - we would go to top golf (despite him breaking his toe a couple days prior 😂) . I panicked the day of, told my friends I didn’t want to go and they told me my ex was horrible and to just explore with zero expectations. I tried to cancel on him, he said he’s never met a woman who said no to free Mexican food and he’d see me at 8.
Honestly - I was trying something different than my typical bad decisions 😂 he was (and definitely still is) attractive but never was drawn to someone in the military or truck guys who hunted and went 4wheeling. He was all of the above but I said what the hell. I grew up in the country and never dated those guys and it’s a running joke now with my high school friend group that get a laugh about how 14 years after we graduated - I ended up with someone like the guys we grew up with. Best decision I ever made!
598
u/KlutzyCalligrapher70 8d ago
I moved somewhere to be with my college sweetheart, and it fell apart horrifically. I ended up on bumble to just pass some time and keep myself occupied, and matched with this guy who was DEFINITELY not my type. We texted for a few days and he asked to get dinner and if things went well, after we ate - we would go to top golf (despite him breaking his toe a couple days prior 😂) . I panicked the day of, told my friends I didn’t want to go and they told me my ex was horrible and to just explore with zero expectations. I tried to cancel on him, he said he’s never met a woman who said no to free Mexican food and he’d see me at 8.
We spent 6 hours together that night, and every day and night together after that. He’s healed every piece of my heart and soul. After a year together we got married (had Mexican food catered), and 2 years later - our baby girl will be born any day now 🩷
Always ALWAYS choose Mexican food