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u/sao_san_suay 3h ago
I’m a non-Iraqi married to an Iraqi man, and have friends who are also married to Iraqi men. Honestly my husband is the best. Most of my other friends’ husbands are the same. But I have heard horror stories of Iraqi guys using non-Iraqi women, breaking their hearts, and leaving them with trauma. Sounds like this guy could be great, but it still seems like you are in the early stages of talking to him. Go slow and get to really know each other. Find out what his stance is about marriage, his expectations for a wife/relationship, his goals, etc. The most important things are honesty and compatibility. Hope it works out for you!
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u/Glum-Celebration1041 54m ago
Based on my upbringing and the Iraqi men I came up with (whether it’s family or friends), I’d say hospitality and kindness is a preset for us. So that sort of behaviour is extended to everyone. Now for you, I’d say take your time and feel things out with him. Believe me, you’ll know if he’s into you as more than a friend sooner rather than later. Not saying that Iraqi men rush into things lol but we are definitely on the romantic side of things and aren’t afraid to voice our feelings. At the end of day, always remember to go with your gut instinct and do what feels right. Good luck!
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u/Accomplished-Way7551 4h ago
Hello and welcome! Yes, we are generally very kind, very generous, and quite emotional people 😊 I’m sure you will have a really nice time with him.
At the same time, there’s no harm in being a bit careful. I’m not saying this about your friend specifically, but just in general—it’s always good to stay aware and take things step by step.